heres a question for all you married folks out there how many of you would marry your spouse again?

Answer 1

I'm more sure now about marrying him than I was originally...after 11 years so YES he's my best friend

Answer 2

If i knew back then what i know right now - no i would not remarry him. i would continue to be a friend to him. we have been married 20 years now.

I nearly got married when i was 22 but my fiance was killed in a car wreck two weeks before the wedding date.

in order to recover from that, i traveled around the world, dated, danced, partied until the pain was over. i don't think the first one would have been any different though - even though he was my first love and had been dating since junior high school.

i am much more independent than i realized. even daddy made me sign a contract that if i did not stay married for the first year then i had to pay him back for the money he spent on the wedding. daddy knew how i felt about money and i think he did that in order for me to make sure i was making the right decision.

i had other offers of marriage before this hubby but i was still traveling and didn't want to have to consider another person in any of my decisions.

but when i hit 30 i decided that it was time to get married - so i went thru a couple of guys and picked the one i have.
if i had not signed the contract i would have left after 7 months or so. but i stuck thru the whole year so i didn't have to pay daddy back.

right now i would say that we are just co-dependent on each other. we have even discussed the fact that we are still together only because of our financial situation.

it's sad really, because there is a waste of two lifes because we are stuck together.

we care for each other - but i don't think that there ever was really "in love" situation for each other.

he is a good man and he cares about me; i feel the same about him.

but remarry him or anyone - no i would not do it. and it is because i am independent and i do not like to consider anybody in my decisions. i might sound selfish but i want more than what he can give me. and i don't think there is anyone out there who i would consider marrying - if i was divorced.

Answer 3

I don't know.... I fell so madly in love with him (at times, I'm still madly in love with him). I married him, we had lots of sex, we made a lot of babies. We have great kids, they're smart and beautiful and full of love, just like us. But my spouse is the worst person I've ever known when it comes to money. He waits until we get termination notices before he pays a freaking bill!! ugg!!
I'm a hard worker. I have a great job. I make good money (to me anyway). When him and I were first together, he had a great job. He ended up losing it after his so-called "friend" and co-worker sabatoged it for him.
Now he works in a warehouse with no air conditioning, 12 hours at-a-time, the money isn't very good (the benefits are great however). So, he's exhausted all of the time. I've found him jobs on-line with better companies, better hours, better environments, and he's not interested.
So, because of his exhaustion, he can't keep up with my sex drive. I do a lot of the work. I don't mind it. But, I miss the passion we once had. Every now and then (when I convince him to take some time off), we get back around to it.

I don't know..... I guess we have to take the good with the bad, right? I can't say yes or no.

(I'm going to post a question stemming from my response)

Answer 4

I definetly would. He's an amazing husband and father. He always does nice things for me just because, works very hard so that I can stay home with the kids until they start school, tells me thank you for everything, gives me great foot rubs, compliments me all the time and always seems to know when I'm feeling down (even while he was in Iraq) and makes sure to do something to cheer me up. Yep....I'm pretty lucky so I'd marry him a million times over! ;-) After 10 years he still makes me smile just thinking about him ;-)

Answer 5

Some days, I would marry my spouse again.

Other days, there is no way that I would ever marry him again.

And .. there are many days that I would NEVER marry anyone EVER again.

The difference is .. I weigh things in the balance. And I compare other spouses to mine.

And I know, I am not perfect either.

So, your answer would be depending on what day you ask e. I am serious. Today, it would be a great consideration.

Answer 6

I absolutely would.. I was married for 20 years in a loveless and abusive marriage. When I finally got the courage to leave I assumed I would be alone for the rest of my life. I was 40 years old, not terribly attractive and my first husband had convinced me I was undesireable.

I met my second husband only one month after getting out of my first marriage and it was like night and day. I felt loved, desireable and even beautiful for the first time in my life. And, after 8 years of marriage with hiim I still feel that way.

I would marry him tomorrow if he asked me.

Answer 7

I don't know. Maybe not. Too many problems and if I had known what I know now I think we may have been better off without each other.

Although I know that there have been many positives with our marriage, it is dwindling and I'm afraid that if I had to do this all over again I wouldn't put up with things as long as I have.

Answer 8

I got married 4 years after I divorced my first husband. It's been 15 years and I'd do it all over again. He's a great husband.

Answer 9

That is a dangerous question to answer. If I had to go back and do it all again the same as it has been, then I would not. The issues with marriage are too much to have to live through twice. Now if I had to go back but could do things differently, then absolutely I would remarry my wife but would know the arguments and avoid them.

Answer 10

In a heartbeat.

I think this time I would marry her sooner though. We lived together for over a year before getting married.