We are family friends known to eachother families 50years.Hes 35 and im 26.When we're together, he's always telling me i'm a good partner person beautiful about us being married.But twice these 2 things have happened
1.After we just met he gave me gifts i gave him card/cd to thank him he went to my cousin told on me.
2.Months back after confirm meeting on my success of business project with romantic weekend he went told my cousin to tell me to stop mails calls etc but ive never called him he mailed me about meeting.Everytime i ask him, he'll say nothing but i know things are told by him to my cousin,as cousin wouldn't know these things unless he or i tell them and it's not me.I am so mad at him twice hes told on me with my cousin not just to me.Im fine if he just tells me but why does he do it i feel hes against me.I hate him twice for doing it but we love eachother married he says loves me wants to work it out.Please note rumors are cousins gay my partner isnt gay i introduced them.
2007-10-14 08:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by abrowneyesbeauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Explain answers dont answer if u cant understand question ty
2007-10-14 08:49:01 · update #1
Just the fact that he tells your cousin about things you do means that he is not committed to you that much. Perhaps the cousin is gay, he gets along with the cousin so wonders if he is also.
Whatever the reason is, these are danger signs that a marriage would not work out because he is doing things behind your back and it may be that they will only get worse. You don't say what he does for a living but the fact that you had a successful business project may be a reason for him to resent you whether he realizes it or not. Think of the steven Grant case in Michigan where she had a successful business career and he did not, and when she was about to leave on a business trip he killed and dismembered her body.
Just because your families have known each other for so long doesn't mean that you should be married and you may even be mistaking childhood affection for love.
Find someone that you don't have to wonder and worry about!!
2007-10-14 08:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 05:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a back stabber dont tell him anything unless it is to prove it,,,then tell those who he tells that you have a person who is speading a rumor and that if they hears it from some one,,,that it most likely is the one who is spreading the rumor,,,and then you have him in the trap of traps,,,tell him a thing that is a complete made up story,,,and then poof you can tell him to get lost and say you know he is a cesspool garbage reject and the biggest lier in town,,,and can prove it,,,so stuff it,,,that is the only way to make sure that you cannot be faulted in the cercumstance
2007-10-14 11:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by John B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your families have known you for 50 years, but your only 26? You confused me there and totally lost me about halfway through your story. I'm assuming you made it through 8th grade, so please do us all a favor. Type using complete sentances, proper grammar and puctuation. This reads like broken English. Either English is your second language or your are stoned.
2007-10-14 08:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm what?.
huh.
did I understand this rite?
you two love each other, do things together and he tells you gay cousing the things you guys do?
lolz
I say he is gay too.:)
even your title for the question is weird
2007-10-14 08:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by nasreen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a psycho to me. Run!
2007-10-14 08:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep an eye on those two.
2007-10-14 08:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry...I would like to give advise...but I am not following your story here....Are you seeing a married man?
2007-10-14 08:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can not understand your question.. it seems to like your upset over it and your words are jumping from one thing to another..try to ask again when your not so stressed and upset over it.. and then maybe we can aswer you better
2007-10-14 13:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋