when i meet nice men who treat me well and are interested in me i get bored and dump them, when i meet ''my type'' of man which happens to be a bad boy who keeps me on my toes i get hurt. how will i ever meet Mr right!!!!
2007-10-14 08:52:09 · 20 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound alot like me! Always picking the 'bad' boys. Unfortunately they will live up to their reputation and always left you down (in the end!) You need to go on a 'manhunt' until you find someone who reaches the middle ground (
in your requirements!!) How do you know your MR RIGHT isn't a geek or nerd or someone you may not ever have thought of?!! What I am trying to say is, try not to limit your search cos you have an ideal picture in your head of who you want it to be and give EVERYBODY a chance!!!
2007-10-14 09:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Hotcakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you were but if you are 15 or 16 you sound pretty normal. If you are older I would suggest you take a little more time with the boring lads and see uf there isn't more to them than meets the eye. The bad boys will always be bad .
2007-10-14 09:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by sailorboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your prerogative what kind of man you want to date, but I don't think you need people to tell you that if you want to be in a secure & loving relationship that bad boys are not the way to go.
I'd like to say that there is a man out there who will be able to fulfill your every fantasy & requirement, but if there is, your chances of finding him is really a gamble.
I'll say you need to get your priorities straight and that if you want a secure relationship, you'll have to sacrifice some of the excitement. If you're not ready to do that, though, then maybe you're not ready for a serious relationship yet.
Be well & good luck.
2007-10-14 09:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_ixora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself what you really want. Analyze bad boy and nice guy then find a happy median a little of both maybe. Also envision if you want kids what kind of father you would want your kids to have, then use all these aspects to decide your Mr. Right and it takes time to find him so you cant be in a rush.
2007-10-14 08:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Spike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the bad boys are going to hurt you, and if you can't stay interested in a nice guy. Maybe you should try dating other women, if that doesn't sound like your kind of thing -- pull your head out of your *** and grow up!
2007-10-14 09:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by J W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship counseling would be worth the investment if finding a nice man who treats you well and learning to want to keep him is a high enough priority in life as you say it is.
2007-10-14 08:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by dianemarieperrine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, i used to occasion each and every weekend alongside with occasional week days. relies upon on the guy, me i'm happy with no longer continually ingesting anymore and partying. some guy's want this to cause them to happy through fact there existence is not any good without ingesting. Its cool to occasion now and returned nonetheless. a woman to calm down with has no longer something to do with it through fact i'm nonetheless courting and fortunately single
2016-10-22 09:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to go for someone that you would never expect for you to like it doesn't have to be most hansom man in the world it just has to be a nice guy.
if you settle down with a bad boy you wont actually ever settle down.
you'll probley get sick of them being in or out of jail and most likely he'll only be with you for sex
2007-10-14 08:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the nice blokes - bad boys are a waste of space and only good for one thing - just be careful of those that 'pretend' to be nice though. Remember that anyone can pretend to be nice but they cant pretend to be nasty..... take your time
2007-10-14 09:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy to see why you like the bad ones but the good ones bore you.
2007-10-14 08:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋