Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

...Bisexual girl? Forget all the stupid stereotypes and think. Would you?

2007-10-14 07:54:37 · 2 answers · asked by Selym 3 in Singles & Dating

me and this kid had a thing last year and then again in the summer and now we are just good friends although everyone i date i seem to compare to him and they just dont add upp i get very jealous whenever i see him flirting with another girl im not sure what i should do
any advice helps

2007-10-14 07:53:16 · 4 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

Put aside actual religious beliefs, and think of the person that you are married to, or if you're not married, the person you're dating; have a crush on, etc. Would you want to spend ETERNITY with them? Why or why not?

2007-10-14 07:51:52 · 10 answers · asked by Liesel 5 in Singles & Dating

My inlaws sent me flowers for my birthday....When I called to say thanx no one answered the phone.I know they were home.I haven't talked to them for some time(except on Father inlaw's birthday when I CALLED to say happy birthday).I feel like they sent the flowers for good form instead of to be friendly...this insults me.I would rather they sent nothing at all..........Would you be upset?

2007-10-14 07:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need some advice please I have a three year old and her father is basically a deadbeat. He goes for months and ignores her and also does not help finacially even though he works a decent job. All he does is disrespect me then Im looked upon as the crazy one when i confront him im so fed up with him ignoring his daughter like she doesnt exist and not helping. My problem is with him ONLY but he is with a 41 year old woman who acts childish. She plays little games on aol and myspace calling me names or making smart *** references directed to me but not coming out and saying it to my face.She also makes it seem like I am jealous of her and im not. I know the best thing to do is ignore her but it is hard plus my daughter father goes talking crap to everyone about me and gives her the upper hand should I confront her or juss continue to ignore her? If I ever have to do visitation with my daughters father in the future How can I have my daughter around that woman if she acts that way?

2007-10-14 07:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by Bleedingheartz 1 in Family

How was he/she with your child?
I am a single parent of a 6 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. He is a great guy, already in his career, no children, same religion as I, and is very patient.

2007-10-14 07:44:32 · 13 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is my tale: I believe I have depression. My husband and his mother constantly put me down. I never clean good enough, I am too "fat", I don't look right, I don't wear the right clothes and I don't make enough money. Oh and I am a bad mother too! I was a happy person before getting into this. My problem now is that I have lost 2 jobs back to back one just recently due to my depression over feeling inadequate. I simply don't feel like getting up and going in anymore. If i don't make enough money and don't look good why should I bother kinda attitude. Now he is threatening to kick me out of the house with our kids. I have no money I've been out of work for the previous stated reason. What can I do? I can't afford to move yet I mentally can't take the insults anymore. I have no family in the near area at all and most are deceased. What step would you take next? Thanks so much for any help or ideas..

2007-10-14 07:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by Samantha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married next year in June and need to know when I have to inform the doctor, the bank etc of my new married name.

I read in a wedding magazine that I have to inform the parties 5 months prior!

Could someone clarify this for me?

2007-10-14 07:37:42 · 17 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

Is your love for your spouse contingent upon their love for you?

Is your respect for your spouse contingent upon their respect for you?

Is your willingness to serve your spouse contingent upon their willingness to serve you?

2007-10-14 07:36:23 · 13 answers · asked by atomzer0 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 07:35:09 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea R 1 in Singles & Dating

i want them to split up and i cant say due to some reasons and i cant say them on yahoo how can i make them split up

2007-10-14 07:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 07:32:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know he wants to be with me also because you see we already live together and he tells me everyday how much he loves me and some times when I have herd him talking to people we don't know he calls me his wife instead of his girlfriend.

2007-10-14 07:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to college got my medical assisting degree and was really excited for this job. When I started everyone was SUPER nice to me...but once I let my guard down and them in on my personal life something changed..I don't know if I affended someone or what..but I think they started to become jelous of me..heres why, I have a 3yr daughter, single out of wedlock, I'm 5"6 and 120lbs...these 5 other girls in the office are all 200lbs plus (not exagerating) and all trying to get pregnant but can't..they would always make comments about it like "oh i hate girls who have babies without trying its not fair" but anyways, they became extremely mean to me! trying to embarrass me infront of patients, talking behind my back, whispering in a huddle and then breaking when I walk in the room. I confronted my boss about it and she talked to them and the harassment still continued, until I confronted my boss AGAIN! after that I was asked to resign..found out I was the 3rd girl they ran out of there!

2007-10-14 07:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well, this guy i like almost just got killed in a go-cart accident. he has a girlfriend, but i am completey positive that it is like not real. so my friend is trying 2 imagine up a good plan on how i can........ u know get all "OMG R U OKAY? HERE LET ME HELP U!" but the problem is his girl, he likes me 2 i know it! she ............ well how do i wrench them apart? sounds evil, i know, but that is the type of person i am. so just freakin help mh!

2007-10-14 07:16:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm really not sure what love is at the moment i've heard its like magic is it lol my bf said he loved me and i was like i luv u 2 but how do u know its love please help real confussed ! thx xx

2007-10-14 07:15:17 · 26 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Singles & Dating

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but i freakd out thinking someone would see us. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. today i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny yesterday. he said he was sorry and that it was best we didn't do it since i have a crush on him. was he using me or did he feel rejectd or did he have no intentions of doing it at all?

2007-10-14 07:11:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 and have no friends....i dont go to school b/c im home schooled.....i dont go outside b/c im scared ( i have been true a lot) so how can i make a friend...my family is not much of a help..so i came here for help...and i tryed to ignore it but now...i cant!!!

2007-10-14 07:10:19 · 47 answers · asked by jj j 1 in Friends

I've been at the job 4 months, and it's getting very difficult to come in every day. Besides the fact there is not much work to do, I and another woman are being sexually harrassed, and the atmosphere is anything but professional, I am dealing with a boss who is getting more irrational every day. His personality is what I call explosive. He goes into a fit of rage over the smallest thing, so you never know how he will react. He then apologizes later.

This past Friday it reached the point that I thought he was going to hit me. My supervisor thought the same thing and asked him to calm down before he did so. I told my supervisor to put an ad in the paper as I will not be back on Monday.

My boss called me at home 30 minutes ago and apologized for his actions. He stated "I should never have gone off on you the way I did, it's not the right way to treat another human".

I was so sure I made the right decision, but now I'm confused. What would you do?

2007-10-14 07:07:28 · 3 answers · asked by crash 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got her a $250 heart necklace for our 1 year, after a rocky summer, to show her that i love her alot and a symbol of how much she makes me happy....and she broke up with me like a week later, and we havent been friends for about 3 months now cuz its been hard on me....and i really want it back now cuz i am really mad at her...but i dont want to be like an indian giver....i wouldnt give it to another girl either....guh idk what to do...she rarely wears it now, and i dont appreciate that at all and is the main reason i want it back

2007-10-14 07:06:50 · 53 answers · asked by bluepengreen 2 in Singles & Dating

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys hate flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they
always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend
11. When guys want to meet your parents...let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have
one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it
is...drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up...believe me...he will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this
makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know
what...uh...never mind!"would him jump to a conclusion that is far from
what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "um"...or makes any excuses when you'reasking him to do you a favor, he's actually
saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no",guys hears it as "try again 2morrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of
roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime...he does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve...girls are guy's weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him
wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty...even for just a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much
pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his
problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get
the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but...her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive...so watch out girls!!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they break up
esp. when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved
with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-
been-busted, never been in-love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl...he really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying
"Please come and listen to me"
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy started to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but
court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure
unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms...no kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be
surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than
attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable
decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he jus tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,
they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed on you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your
boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your
boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain...when he cries in
front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only
flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intention if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things...not their hair!
97. If someone says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your
relationships.
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2007-10-14 07:06:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not like the way my wife does the laundry, using softener, folding clothes so that they have to be ironed, putting socks together so that you can't see if they match without undoing them, folding my pants and jeans with creases.

I do not like her eating/cooking habits. She buys frozen dinners, junk stuff, always using hot spices..

House cleaning is another subject. I share the responsibility and am more thorough.

I always race to do my own laundry, am always bringing in food, or doing the shopping and cooking, cleaning. I do a LOT of other things too where she thinks those are her responsibility, doesn't mind doing them. I have told her a few times in the past about 'my' issues where she just gets mad and doesn't talk to me for a few days.

She caught me this morning re-folding my clothes after she just folded them. She was super mad at me.

Should I just take it, wear the clothes, eat the junk, look at the dirt, so that she doesn't get mad at me? No other problems

2007-10-14 07:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by De-Activated Bad Profile 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We both work but on his day off he does nothing, on mine I do housework.I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing attempt decorating and even atempt DIY. I have tried the 'do nothing and let him do it' approach' and also shouting and screaming but he just says i'll do it later and it never gets done. I have also tried leaving everything to push him into doing his share and that didn't work either; the dishes just piled up and so did the dirty washing and un-ironed pile of clothes just stayed there, he'd even put on creased jeans so that didn't work! He seems quite happy to just live like a pig and I can't live that way. Please help! We have been together for 3 and a half years and lived together for ten months and I can't take anymore. What can i try next?

2007-10-14 07:02:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-14 06:58:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 06:58:36 · 11 answers · asked by SweetLikeHoney 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-14 06:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering what do guys actually prefer:

a nice, kind, trustworthy, understanding, sweet girl who is adored by all..??
or...
a mean girl who likes arguing and will stand up for herself????

2007-10-14 06:54:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was very upset with him. He argued with me when i complained about the jukebox playing the searchers. I wanted the wurzels. I enjoy listening to them on a sunday evening whilst wearing my cravat and playing my old mans a dustman in 6/8 time on my Appalachian dulcimer. Anyway, a row erupted and he broke the Ostrich. How can i get revenge on Sidney? Thanks.

2007-10-14 06:51:57 · 5 answers · asked by . 7 in Marriage & Divorce

How tempting are other men to you? Regardless of whether you would act on thoughts of other men, or not....how difficult is it to resist the temptation of another?

2007-10-14 06:50:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for 10 yrs but since beggining of our marrage my husband is having a relationship with others. i was enough from our story after having 2 children and desame story. We decided to finish our marrage but not yet divorse. Almost a year now he is not giving any support to my children. I have work and my salary is enough from us. sometimes i am sending him some important matters like when i need his help to pay my son educational insurance but he refused and he doesnt want. He told me " dont talk about children anymore when you want to talk with me or send sms. I am working in other country and my kids are with my family. if one day he change his mind and want to take my children he still have the right to take even one my children? Do i need to talk talk with my ex husband about kids even he doesnt want?

2007-10-14 06:50:18 · 3 answers · asked by ciwar 1 in Marriage & Divorce