i want them to split up and i cant say due to some reasons and i cant say them on yahoo how can i make them split up
2007-10-14 07:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my dad does not abuse me he just always makes fun of me all the time has nothing nice to say and treats me like **** but he doesent hit me and he feeds me
2007-10-14 07:37:23 · update #1
and they dont buy me anything at all not even clothes even though they buy all this stuff for themselfs i have to rake leaves to buy stuff
2007-10-14 07:39:51 · update #2
It should never be a goal to cause a divorce. Reconciliation is always preferred in all cases. In some cases that is not possible though it is preferred. In cases of abuse, safety comes first when there is abuse. Other than that, the goal should be a healthy marriage relationship.
2007-10-14 07:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honor you for not wanting to share the exact problem on line.
I do not think you are being selfish. I do understand you want the caos to stop.It can hurt real bad when a person is always made fun of. I can agree things may seem better if your parents are not togeather. Now if your parents get divorced may I ask how is mom going to support the family? sometimes especially now a days it is very expensive to live on just moms income. Dad may have to pay child support but would it be enough for you and mom to survive on. I highly doubt that you would be able to live the same way you are used to living. Do you know that if they split you will be forced by the court, if your dad wants to see you to go and visit or go back and forth every other week to live with dad. Do you really want to be with only Dad? What I mean is when you have to visit Dad you may not have any choice and mom will not be there. So she will no longer know what is really happening to you while you are gone. She will worry endlessly and she has no say about anything dad may want to do. He may find a new woman.Then you will have to go and be kind to this new woman. She may be a good person but no one can replace your mom and most young people resent their parents dating. If mom begins to date because she is lonely or because she needs to lean on someone that has a good income you would also have to deal with those issues. I wish you good luck however the cards fall. Please think things over and try to understand why mom takes the bollogna she is being dished out.
2007-10-14 14:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well okay, you probably should play your mom against your dad , you know lie about things and tell them. Then they will split up and they will be sad and unhappy. Your mom will cry all of the time and your dad will be distant from you both. You eventually will wish things would be like they used to be.
You think you have it so tough, look around you and see all of the kids in this world who do have it tough, they get abused by there parents or worse something happens to them. You should be a little more grateful and thank your lucky stars kido!
2007-10-14 14:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will be grown up one day and you will move on. Some people who have destructive relationships stay together for life. If the reasons you cant mention are bad ones, you must get help. If not, you must let them deal with their own marriage. It may not be bad to them, Nothing wrong with doing little jobs to earn money....thats a good lesson.
2007-10-14 14:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this is a matter of unfaithfulness then you just let it run its course, that kind of stuff always comes out in the end.
if there is abuse, you need to take a step toward helping the abused via calling cops or family members to let them take care of that.
if it is just that you want two Christmases then don't meddle
2007-10-14 14:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Michael P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It's none of your business unless there is abuse going on. If there is, contact the police or child protective services.
STAY OUT OF IT.
2007-10-14 14:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your parents are happy and in love, there is no reason for you to go that far just because you are having problems with him. instead you need to have a man to man talk with him and tell him how he's been making you feel and how its been affecting you, have your mom there if you need to. i know it sounds cheese but talking really works.
2007-10-14 14:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a terrible thing to want to do. unless they are not good together. not enough info to answer this question.
2007-10-14 14:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
introduce your dad to a hot young chick. lol. it'll be on from there.
2007-10-14 14:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Felix Arcanus 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋