Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

My wife was poking through my sons my space , she feels from time to time it is her right to know what he is into. She came across on one girls my sace that her and his exgirlfriend were advertising for a rave party. They were advertising full venure, soupe to nuts. Some kids were actuley responding in the comment section. i think I should imforme somone, my wife says its not our business, its not our kid, I know about this what if someones kid gets hurt or even worse because of these two girls actions

2007-10-14 05:10:24 · 30 answers · asked by mike o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so my grandma says that if I decide to move out when I'm 18 it's a high probability that I'll get raped or killed. or both. surely alot of people move out at 18 and don't get murdered? Will I be okay just because I'm living somewhere else? It feels like she's trying to scare me. and if I tell her I have faith in myself to make out there, because many of my friends already have, she belittles me. she tells me I'd never make it, either because I'm "chicken" and would come running back, or I'd get killed. thoughts? is this just a mind f***?

Thank you for your time.

2007-10-14 05:09:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would I still be able to get pregnant, or is he too old??

2007-10-14 05:07:20 · 21 answers · asked by shoot 1 in Singles & Dating

Back in 2000, I met a guy during the millennium celebration in New York City. It was cool to see a man from the same town as me, so we became best friends. He told me he had a one-year-old girl. I didn't meet her untill she was three, and we clicked instantly. I watched that girl grow up.

She is eight now, and I just found out her dad hits her. I was shocked that my friend would do that to a little girl, especially since he's been boxing since he was ten.

Even though she's not my kid, could I win custody over her if I tried (she looks exactly like that Madison Pettis kid on that new movie, some people are nosey)?

2007-10-14 05:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by Jacoby M 1 in Friends

Only real, serious answers I will FLAG you. And Please list the site in you comment.Thank you

2007-10-14 05:06:10 · 2 answers · asked by rodney l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, So i know I'm only 17, but I have this step sister... And My whole amily and I feel she is way too immature.
She is 12 years old, and refuses to watch any show besides cartoons. She doesn't ever listen... I got a puppy, and she just wants everyones human food, so we put her in another room a while back so her and her friend could eat on the floor, and she wouldn't do it. So we had to keep my dog out longer, she is only a 3 month old pup. And she refuses to eat any dinner besides candy, cookies, or mc cheese. She hates boys. Her only focus of interest in a anime show called bleach. When things dont go her way, she throws things.
Everyone in this house feels she needs help. Including her biological father. What advice can I give him... he is looking for anything from anyone at this point.

2007-10-14 05:05:32 · 7 answers · asked by Kay-Cody 0918 3 in Family

Ever since we moved in together, he stopped talking to me. I come home from work, ask him about his day, & try to get a conversation going. All I get is a yes or no or a grunt. We haven't been out together in months. On our days off he goes to the sports bar to watch college football. I ask repeatedly to come, and he says I'll just be bored and he likes to watch the game by himself. He comes home and says he had a great time and I should have come. He doesn't like to talk to me about work b/c he says I won't understand. He works for a chemical production plant, and I have read his training manual which is based on basic chemistry which I would understand if he would talk about it since I have taken college chem and other science classes. I would think he could at least talk to me about what he had for lunch, but he just doesn't make the effort. After being completly cold he still gets up the nerve to say he wants sex! I have brought it up many times, but what should I do?

2007-10-14 05:02:49 · 25 answers · asked by love 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, why is it that everyone is always caught up on there spouses past? Why do they want to know all about it and when they get the answers they wish they didn't ask? Why are they always hung up the things that there spouse has, wondering if a ex had given it to them and they want to keep it and not tell where it came from OR they bought it themselves and you dont believe it even though its true? Why must the mind always wander about things that sometimes always gets you into a fight of some kind? Why is it human nature to want the person that your with and try not to think of the other persons past? Everyone has had someone else before so why do we always think that we arent good enough for them?? Why do most of us spend more time either fighting about things or thinking about things that happened in the past instead of living for the minute with the person that you are with and making a life from that point on? How can we forget about there past and not worry about it anymore?

2007-10-14 05:00:35 · 11 answers · asked by Rick and Tammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ans should be a specific reason

2007-10-14 05:00:26 · 1 answers · asked by vinay r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I had divorced my wife cause she had cheated on me and had a child that wasn't mine. She knew the child wasn't my child but didn't tell me about it. I found out after my son told me that "mommy" had told him he had two dads. I did a DNA test and found out that the child wasn't mine. I went to court by the judge (a women mind you) ruled that I had to pay child support, give up my house and my car (my wife had her own car that i paid too) and give 60% of my money. How is this fair? What i do? Im nearly broke.

2007-10-14 04:59:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 04:57:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 04:48:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 04:48:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband who I am already having major problems with and we are already in counselling was supposed to get up this morning with the kids.Well he got up with the baby(8 months) and put her in the bouncy chair and didn't even bother to change her diaper and went back to bed.She was covered in pee.So I came downstairs realizing this at the same time my 10 yr.old son was cooking eggs in the frying pan and he didn't know what he was doing and used up all the eggs and threw them in the garbage and there was egg all over everything and everything was greasy from the oil he was using.I FREAKED OUT on my son who had made a terrible mess and my husband because none of this would have happened if he got up like he said he would.This whole situation could have been really bad if my son caught something on fire.I am so upset and don't know how to handle this situation.How should I discipline my son?At the same time it was not all his fault.

2007-10-14 04:45:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My good friend is no longer spending anytime with me or the rest of our group of friends because she spends ALL of her time with her new boyfriend, who is a complete idiot!She says she doesnt want to come out with us anymore because we have started hanging bout with a couple of boys, who are by the way very nice and mature, unlike her immature boyfriend. But this isn't really the reason, because she doesnt come out with us even when the boys arent with us. She spends 24/7 with her boyfriend.
What can I say to her to make her realise she is slowly losing all her friends, but not to hurt her feelings?

2007-10-14 04:45:52 · 2 answers · asked by Mia xoxo 1 in Friends

PS: We're like friends now.We talk, laugh u know..But I'm sure he is thinking about me in a different way.

2007-10-14 04:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by Irmak 7 in Singles & Dating

A person calles me BEST FRIEND, but then stoods me up all the time. calls me stupid and stuff...
should i be offended?
Cause she doesn't wanna talk normally she thinks i'm stupid and don't get her fragile world.
Should i forget her? HOW?

2007-10-14 04:44:57 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet_summer_breeze 2 in Friends

My best friend found out that she had lucemin when she was 13 and everyone thought she was pregnant. when i found out i cried and cried. she died on the 26th of april and was only 14 a week later on the 2nd may it was going to be her birthday and my oldest friend necer told me she was in ICU n was in a coma so i harldy saw her and now i feel guily and miss her so much and i cant concentrate on my school work. also my scool counceler wants me 2 go and see a phycologyst cut i dont know. what shall i do.

2007-10-14 04:44:46 · 4 answers · asked by Mshel 1 in Friends

My daughters father lies about where he is taking her, and takes her to his girlfriends house (which he agreed with me that he wouldnt)! We both agreed that we didnt want our significant others around our daughter!! But he brings her around anyway's! What can i do about this! And do i have a right to know where my daughter is going all the time. I have her everyday! and he takes her sat, sun and mon, but she is not allowed to sleep over! He is really immature and doesn't really know how to take care of her. we just went to court! what can i do about this situation! HELP!!

2007-10-14 04:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by HopelessRomantic 1 in Family

please help cuz my parents are away and im freaking out.

2007-10-14 04:41:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We were married for six years and have a son together and things went bad in our marriage so we got a divorce. After about six months we started seeing each other again and it just didn't work again. I'm still in love with her but I don't think she sees me the same way. Should I completely move with the exception of issues that come up with my son or should I try to at least be friends and hope that someday she will want to be more than that?

2007-10-14 04:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just very angry and frustrated. My dad bought a store for my cousin to work, my cousin worked there for a few months. He then threatened to leave if my dad doesn't sell the store to him for the same price my dad paid for it. My dad couldn't handle a store since he is actually doing some other businesses, and he had bought this on the side to help my cousin. So my dad sold it for face value. But I just found out today that my dad had actually lost money.

So basically, my cousin completely screwed my dad over. This was about 10 years ago. How can I destroy or atleast hurt my cousin financially (legally)? I'm very frustrated because my dad doesn't want to ever fight with anyone and that he let himself get screwed over. But I love my dad and I want to get my cousin back for my dad. I'm a finance major and a junior in college.

What would Donald Trump do? Please realize that i'm frustrated and saddened but NOT crazy. But I want my cousin to feel the financial pain.

2007-10-14 04:38:21 · 7 answers · asked by RockiesFan 2 in Family

Pls help? I feel like dying?
I once had a good and close friend. I told her abt my feelings for her last year. And many incidents happened since then and it made me gave up on her. Five months have passed and i havent talked to her yet. She hasnt emailed me or texted me. But once, I wrote her a sms 5 pages long and at the end i said love,
( my name)
But there wasnt reply. Now i have blocked her for 5 months and i dont know what to do. Pls help
What if the sms didnt went thru? Im not sure. WHAT DO I DO???I really need help cause its affecting my studies. Pls help

2007-10-14 04:37:50 · 14 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Singles & Dating

ignorned me all day friday at school, and a really close friend of mine told me she said it was because i never let her hang with any of her other friends.
Now, the only time i see this "friend" is during my spanish class and then lunch right after. i dont talk to her at any other point in the day.
So doesnt it seem that she is contradicting herself by ignorning me...saying i dont let her talk to her other friends, but she cant handle talking to more than one person at a time?

or is it something different?
Advice is greatly appreciated

2007-10-14 04:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by italiana 3 in Friends

like if u had a long lost love, etc.
i just need tragic love stories, with a happy ending please:]
thank you<3

2007-10-14 04:29:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of my girlfriends cheated on her husband. My girlfriend told me a long time ago about this. Recently I caught my G/F provacativly chatting online and showing on webcam with other men. I told my G/F that I was hurt by her getting on webcam with other men and provactivly playing. She told me that they were not real people. When all this came up I asked her about her friend that cheated on her husband - and i questioned her on how she thought all that ended up happening. She told me that her friend had told her hubby that she had cheated on him and that they had worked through it. This is her best friend and i never heard anything about anything as far as her friend 'comming clean'. Now Im concerned that there is a lot of devious things going on around me and I am scared of what may come in the future. What do i do ?

2007-10-14 04:29:02 · 28 answers · asked by untrusting 1 in Singles & Dating

I and my partner have been together for 6 years, lived together for 3, we own our place of residence and all our goods in common, we have a joint bank account, I am on his health insurance plan, neither of us has ever had the slightest desire to not be in the relationship, we a fully accepted into each other's families, and we have no wish to ever have children. Is there any logical reason for us to get married? Please don't as if I want to get married because that is not what I'm asking. I'm asking outside of my possible personal desire for a wedding is there a logical/symbolic etc. reason for us to marry?

2007-10-14 04:28:46 · 23 answers · asked by KazaKu 2 in Weddings

I was asking my wife if she would like a nice set of pans with a set of the rubber cooking utensils (so the pans don't scratch) Is this a good gift to get her for her birthday? She said no most all women dislike this as gifts. She would rather have perfume or jewlery or something of that nature which I can understand but is the pans as well as some other gifts a bad choice? Thanks for opinions and answers

2007-10-14 04:18:50 · 18 answers · asked by Sandy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I wish my parents didnt drink. yeah i understand its okay once in awhile, but sometimes it goes to far.When my mom drinks shes becomes totally opposite of what shes really like. I mean she goes from a caring loving parent to a complete B****! Then the next day she expects me to love her like nothing happened. Its not just that fact of drinking that really gets to me. Like this morning I woke up and my mom was still listening to music and singing. I went downstairs to use the restroom and grab a bowl of ceral. She ends up chasing me around the house into my room. It gets worse from there. The sad thing is that we are supposed to be in church right now. I may sound pathetic teenager who hates her parents, but I had to get it out somewhere. I love my mom a lot but she doesn't understand how it feels. I dont know how to help her. shes always says the next day that that was going to be the last time she drank, but here we are.
Thanks

2007-10-14 04:18:00 · 4 answers · asked by gmsgurl13 3 in Family

What is your biggest secret?

2007-10-14 04:14:31 · 6 answers · asked by Sparky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships