Pls help? I feel like dying?
I once had a good and close friend. I told her abt my feelings for her last year. And many incidents happened since then and it made me gave up on her. Five months have passed and i havent talked to her yet. She hasnt emailed me or texted me. But once, I wrote her a sms 5 pages long and at the end i said love,
( my name)
But there wasnt reply. Now i have blocked her for 5 months and i dont know what to do. Pls help
What if the sms didnt went thru? Im not sure. WHAT DO I DO???I really need help cause its affecting my studies. Pls help
2007-10-14 04:37:50 · 14 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've tried getting in contact with her and it hasn't worked, just move on. Start concentrating harder on your studies, if you're meant to talk to her one day you will...if you're not meant to, you're just wasting your time and letting stuff bring you down and affect your future. Just leave her alone.
2007-10-14 04:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ashton theKID 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you blocked her out how can she e-mail you.
5 months and no one else has caught your eye, you sound too young for that. You went about it the wrong way perhaps you wore your heart on your sleeve a little too much and that scared her she must be young too. Concentrate on your studies become what you are wanting to be life has a way of reconnecting once the madness of learning is accomplished. that is what makes life living. You won't die I promise but start being social again maybe you will see her again, she probably won't have been waiting like you don't expect it at least, so you don't get another throw back. Just relax and enjoy these years they only happen once have fun while you learn there are ways to do this, and emotional hang ups should not be distracting you from your studies, so keep a mindset that you are not going to get emotionally attached just make a lot of friends some good, some bad, some you will keep in touch with some you will never hear from again. Peace
2007-10-14 04:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? CHILL. I know every other person here is going to be telling you the exact same thing, but if you sincerely like her, then your freaking out isn't making anything better. If anything, it'll scare her off. Go walk up to her and talk to her in person...she has to listen to you then, and she might even reply. Things over the internet aren't personalized.
And if you feel like dying, you're being a bit too obsessed. Chill.
2007-10-14 04:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you expect to get an answer if you blocked her? You obviosly came on to strong, a 5 page letter was way overbored. You definatly scared her. This is one of those situations that you can't rebound from, it will be a long time before she feels comfortable talking to you again. I still can't believe you blocked her, that's just like saying F YOU!
2007-10-14 04:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by The Greatest One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. I know the pain you're experiencing and it's sad as heck. Have you tried to call her? Have you tried to confront her in person and just have a casual encounter? There are several ways to pursue this issue but it will 'help' considerably if you're not ill from being 'stressed out' prior to your approaching her. Also, as you know, your studies are affected because your mind keeps wandering off to thoughts of her. Try to keep your mind busy with other thoughts and when thoughts of her try to sneak in...try to counter it with other thoughts about something 'way' off course. Good luck friend.
2007-10-14 05:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by happy dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not give us an age reference, this would have been a great bit of detail for us.
Without it, I have to assume that you are fairly young, possibly still in school. If so, then the best advice for you is to let it go.
Even if you do not want to hear this, Let it go and move on.
It takes two to tango but only one to be lonely, THAT is IF you choose to be lonely.
Obviously your friend is not interested, so the tango is out of the question.
2007-10-14 04:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by wi_saint 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need 2 get over her..things are just not gonna work 4 u 2
2007-10-14 04:44:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.calm down
2.you might have made her jump and scream with the word love
3.well what you should do is try to talk to her up close and then let her know or maybe she will but in any case stay calm go to her and talk to her then maybe things will work out
2007-10-14 04:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Josiah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for her and ask her why she is behaving that way, telling her how u feel for her is not a bad thing. if thing dont work out then u should find a way to moved on and also hope for the best.
2007-10-14 04:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by gift d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let go and do not hang onto this friend she has oviosly gotten over you not you have to get over her. Sorry the truth hurts
2007-10-14 04:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋