How tempting are other men to you? Regardless of whether you would act on thoughts of other men, or not....how difficult is it to resist the temptation of another?
2007-10-14 06:50:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am human, so of course I notice and am sometimes attracted to other men. It is easy to resist temptation because I just remember why I am with the one I am with.
2007-10-14 12:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...I feel like I should say no comment here! LOL But when you are in a very unhappy marriage...it gets VERY tempting when you find someone that understands what you are going through and is also going through the same thing himself! When you have so much in common with them and there is an extreme attraction to their wonderful personality and they fulfill your needs emotionally...WOW, you have no idea how tempting it can be!!! But I would never act on that temptation as long as I am bound in marriage...it is a morals issue with me more than anything else...I just couldn't do it...and I don't believe HE would either!!!
2007-10-14 07:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow! I think some men are very tempting. I find it to be a little difficult to resist but its all about will power. Why are there sooo many sexy guys? Why! It does drive me crazy sometimes. "Yay for HOT men." ; )
P.S Don't get me wrong, I love my guy to death and I would NEVER cheat on him but I do feel the temptation from time to time.
2007-10-14 13:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by MissMomma_got suspended 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Other men are not tempting at all. I took a vow when I married this wonderful man of mine and I wouldn't do anything in the world to hurt him or cause problems between us.
And, I am a Christian so even looking at another man in the same way I look at my husband would be a sin. Marriage is a sacred gift from God and I treasure it. I waited a long time to marry so it means even more to me now than ever but even when I was younger, I am the kind of person that once I commit to someone, I would never even look at another person as anything but just a friend.
2007-10-14 07:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be tempted.
I think it's human nature, even in the happiest relationships. What's important is not succumbing to temptation. Which is not difficult if you have a happy marriage to someone you love.
If you do stray, then it's time to re-examine the marriage, because it's obviously not working.
2007-10-14 08:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by cherie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its only human to be tempted-But so far I have resisted the temptations..
2007-10-15 01:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by KAREBEAR 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no temptation and men are not tempting to me!
2007-10-14 12:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking at someone and thinking about doing him is innocent..But if it is getting more tempting then you are not so happy with your marriage..Talk to your mate and if still gets too tempting when you see others then it's time for both of you to go to counciling''good luck
2007-10-14 06:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by dusty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in 16 years i was tempted once.followed through and things have never been the same with us since
2007-10-14 06:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the tempter because after I got married I wanted to know I was still sexy. At a party some things got a bit out of hand and I messed up. But after talking about it, my husband told me that it was kind of a turn on. I guess we are dysfunctional, but we're still married!
2007-10-14 07:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Holly R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋