Ok so ive just clickd that this guy i was seeing was totaly arsing me about! I told him it was over because i was sick of his crap and lack of commitment, then he got back to me and apologised saying he wanted to see me, yaddy ya! but its jst been the same crap all over again, not seeing me, saying he's gona call then not!
Ive realised that he jst wants to keep me there incase he decides he really wants me back. I wont fone or text him no chance! But i really liked this guy? how do i get over him? and if he texts/calls soon what do i say?!
2007-10-14 08:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks guys, he tells me he likes me but im getn that its bullshit!!
The tough thing is that all my girlfriends are in really serious relationships and it makes it harder to go out n party cos they dont want to...the **** part of being single is when ur friends arent! and u cant get them away from there men!
I know i need to get over this guy...jst needed more people to tell me that I need to!!!
2007-10-14 11:01:51 · update #1
Don't say anything, even block his number, he's messing you around, you have given him a second chance and hes blown that!!!! You are setting a pattern for him to treat you like a doormat, dont waste your time
2007-10-14 09:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Alice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may like the guy, but he is certainly no good for you. What is it with us girls? we always seem attracted to the bad guys LOL!!!
Keep yourself busy with your friends, go to the cinema, shopping trips, a meal out and a glass of wine, and when you feel tempted to go back to him or text him think back to how he treated you and how it made you feel. Make a list of all the things he has done to make you cry or made you upset and angry and keep it in your handbag every day so when you feel low and want him back you will remember how much better off without him you are and that you are that one step closer to finding a real man. Good luck, get back out there and have fun!!
2007-10-14 16:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he texts or calls, ignore the text, answer the call and tell him you're busy but will call him right back, and don't. Let him get the message.
Getting over him is easy. Get out there and start meeting other people!
2007-10-14 16:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. I know you like him but at the end of the day if it's not reciprocated then there's no point carrying on with this. He's never going to change. You're his reserve and that's all. Drop him and move on.
2007-10-14 16:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had that done to me and i completely blanked the guy - he seems to have gotten the message. I'd advise you to ignore his calls, don't reply to his texts and if you see him out and about, act casual, or [my personal favorite], be really really polite, in a sarcastic way, tell him you'd looooooooooooooove to stay and chat but, unfortunately, you'd rather apply thumbscrews to your eyes and walk away calmly and sophisticatedly [is that a word?]
2007-10-14 17:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by ThEvAsTnOtHiNgNeSs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you for when he doesnt have anyone else. hang up when he rings and delete his texts. you deserve better and you are aware of it. letting go is the hardest part. good luck. go out with your friends and you meet someone worthwhile eventually.
2007-10-14 16:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by heavymetalbitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him, dont answer his texts, dont answer his calls, blank him completely
He'll either realise he has to change otherwise he'll lose you for good, or he'll stop pestering you
2007-10-14 16:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by KooKoo Moolookoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you take him back he will continue to do the same.too many good fish in the sea to worry about this loser
2007-10-14 16:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by ADALLEN1952 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋