i have prayed, stop talking to the people i flirted with. no matter what i do , i feel the need to flirt with guys knowing i have a boyfriend. its like i dont wanna lose my boyfriend (well at the moment im so mad at him, i dont care at the moment) but i cant stop flirting i have even told people that im tryna stay commited so leave me alone, and the next thing u know. i flirting again. what should i do?
2007-10-14 16:24:45 · 18 answers · asked by onesensitivepoet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u were a fish would u be kept or thrown back ?
2007-10-14 16:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by dawn666annapolis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be ready for a relationship. Ask him to help you with it, it will allow you two to become closer. Tell him, you want to be with him but things in your past object and you want his help. It may bring you closer and you may develop that extra ounce of liking him to put you over the top of wanting him and no one else and stop the flirting.
2007-10-14 23:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by regisivjosh7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your boyfriend in mind when you see another guy. Or if you still can't stop flirting then you probably don't really love you boyfriend.
2007-10-14 23:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by SeraPhim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between flirting and cheating! FLirting is fun and fine as long as you don't let it get too far! Just have fun... You only .live once.
2007-10-14 23:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by rend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a continuing need to flirt and be recognized by other men, you are not as committed to your relationship as you may think, tell your bf and the two of you talk about it.
2007-10-14 23:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by onyx1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i would say that this is who i am i cant change who i am because that's me i love me and girl that's all that's to it u should stand up and fight in hat u believe in and be strong in your decision u will be just fine and if you bf does not like it say that's the way i am if you don't like it be gone with you. That's what i would do. If you ever wanna talk my e-mail address is johnsonstasha@yahoo.com you can talk to me when ever
2007-10-15 00:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by Stasha J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it gone past flirting?You should probably talk to your BF about it....would you like it if he was flirting with other girls?I had a BF who was a flirt....it always leads to more.
2007-10-14 23:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by flexduty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In truth, we (girls) want ALL guys to like us and not somebody else...I think that you're really just wanting attention...and all of it!!
It's a hard subject - we're creatures of habit - and what a hard habit to break!
Good Luck!! : )
2007-10-14 23:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by bessiedarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant help but flirt.
I have talked to all my girlfriends about that and they say the same thing.
Guys have that problem to its quite funny.
You can't help it its healthy.
I know what you mean.
Just try to do it when they are not around.
2007-10-14 23:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Leahhh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, u need to figure out if u really like ur boyfriend enough. and u need to be honest with him, and then if that doesnt work....then should probably be more disciplined i guess
2007-10-14 23:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just like being desired or you want to be wanted or chased. maybe you like the attention but you have to get to the root of it before it does get out of hand.
2007-10-14 23:28:27 · answer #11 · answered by antswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋