Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

Well I'm in high school,months ago she wrote me letter saying "Hi Travis I've been watching you for a while now and now I'm starting to really like you. You're sexy and I always wanted to tell you that but I'm scared to tell you.Meet me at the gym at 1:30pm, bye baby! love your secret admire. XOXO" That's what the letter says that she let someone pass to me with out me knowing it was her. I kind of knew it was her because she was staring at me for like 10min.I didn't go I had to take a test

How should I respond to this note?

2007-10-14 18:59:24 · 30 answers · asked by travis 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm torn between wondering if all of this work I'm putting into wanting my ex to remain friends with me is worth it and between waiting for him in case he starts to miss me a lot and wants to start hanging around with me again...

I don't know what to do or what to think...

I'm 20 but I'm so sick of looking for the right guy...I thought he would be the one...but my luck sux like that lol

What should I do? I'd just hate to think that he'd be happy without me in his life(well it's apparent because we're not dating anymore) but that he wants to throw all of our memories away by not being friends...

I'd hate to think that one day he'll be saying, "Thank God I got rid of her."

2007-10-14 18:58:58 · 1 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1 in Singles & Dating

I already asked this but i didnt get much response/

Last saturday out of no where my fiance whos in the army texts me and says Ive been talking to my mom and my brother (whom hate me) & they made me realize I dont need a relationship right now then sunday morning he said that he had a new girlfriend and she makes him really happy, then that night someone stole his phone and pretended to be him and texted me saying we arent ever getting back together and sent me a picture of her and honestly shes not prettier than me, ive asked random people and no one thinks she is. anyways, the next morning he apoligized and said he still loves me hes just confused because she cheers him up when hes sad but just to give it time. WTF?!? you dnt go from wanting to marry someone then the next day I cant be with you & he comes home this friday.

should I just wait it out and see if we get back together?
why would he do this to me if he loves me so much?

and please please nothing mean.

♥

2007-10-14 18:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Singles & Dating

Help me to earn the love of the prettst girl in school.

2007-10-14 18:58:20 · 27 answers · asked by Jayden R 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it feel different if you have sex with someone who has brazilian wax done? I am asking because my boyfriend doesnt even notice the difference and I dont wanna go through all that pain if it feels the same anyways!! sorry so graphic i just need to know =(

2007-10-14 18:57:13 · 14 answers · asked by queenofpop 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with this girl for 8+ years. She is now recently divorced and dating another guy. Recently, she told me she has always had feelings for me and asked me to tell her my feelings. I didnt spill my guts, but I told her I had a crush on her for a long time and really enjoy spending time with her. Suddenly she stops returning my calls and calls me two weeks l8r to tell me that she broke up with the guy she was dating. We go out again and have a great time. I told her that it hurt me that she avoided my calls, and she said the other guy was threatend by me, but she thinks about me all the time. When I was with her last I noticed he called, and now she will not return my calls or texts once again. what gives?! Wouldn't 8 plus years of knowing someone command more respect? I dont know what to do, but I am very heartbroken over the whole thing. I don't know weather to just be myself (polite and understanding) or get pissed and tell her how mad and hurt I am.

2007-10-14 18:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of her stupid friends got her into smoking and getting drunk every once in a while. She'salways telling me stories about it like "you don't understand it makes you feel good" and i tell her she is a living example of what morons would say. She keeps calling me a wimp because i dont join her and her stupid friends. I've known her my whole life and no matter what i say she wont stop. She thinks there is nothing harmful to smoking and drinking a whole bottle of tequila every week.
help!?!?

2007-10-14 18:53:27 · 22 answers · asked by :| 1 in Friends

2007-10-14 18:50:59 · 17 answers · asked by cuteness 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 18:50:52 · 13 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-14 18:50:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok. me and my ex was best friends before we hooked up we was together for 2 years before we broke up now we are friends because she felt that it's best if we stayed friends which was cool with me, heres the problem I finally found the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with but she dont accept my ex as a friend i gave my ex the number to the house and she called looking to talk to me but my current girl answers the phone and hell broke loose they got to arguing and stuff i tried to tell her that we was just friends but she aint tryinn to hear that when we first got together my current girl told me that she dont want me to have any female friends but my ex was my best friend and i didnt tell her that wen we first got to dating so now she knows and she is mad as hell at me am i wrong or what thats my best friend now should i cut it off with my ex or should i tell my current girl that she needs to accept her or its over between me and her I LUV MY CURRENT GIRL ALOT THOUGH

2007-10-14 18:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by Rose J 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to think of some ideas for a romantic gift for a guy. I want it to be sweet but not corny or cheesy.

2007-10-14 18:47:17 · 17 answers · asked by heatherdazy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

between knowing something in your heart/inside of you and hearing something you want to hear? (wishful thinking)

if there were opinions/rumors about someone you know very well...and you're not sure b/c you don't have alot of "evidence"...people will tell you what they think, (don't have to listen but keep an open mind) - how do you know when to draw to line and believe what's right? How do you know when you stick up for someone b/c you know them or listen to others?

(bc i thought if you were to listen to what you know deep down inside about the person...that could be wishful thinking...could be not...)

2007-10-14 18:47:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night my friend Kandi and I went out and had a little fun. She talked me into staying the night at her boyfriends house with her and another guy named Chris, which I have known most of my life. Kandi and Donnie, her bf went into their bedroom, and Chris and I went into his bedroom. Well we wasn't going to do anything at all, it hadn't even crossed my mind. We sat on his bed and talked for about 3 hours. We talked about countless conversations. He had been drinking, but he wasn't drunk. Our legs was interlocked and one thing led to another and we did oral and was about to go further, but we both lost interest cause I wasn't completely into it. I just found out today that he didn't think it was a mistake. I want to be so much more than friends, but I'm not sure if he wants the same thing. It felt so right to be in his arms. I just feel like its a one night stand, and I really don't want that. What should I do to see if he feels the same way I do about him?

2007-10-14 18:45:30 · 3 answers · asked by rebel_chick425 2 in Singles & Dating

Can anyone suggest any good outdoor places to have my May wedding in or near Waterford, MI?? Acceptable surrounding places would be: Clarkston, Grand Blanc, Davisburg, Lk Orion, Holly, Milford, Highland, Fenton...etc.

I want the ceromony at dusk out side and then the reception possibly out side with nice lighting and nice canopy tents....doesnt have to be at the same place but it would be a plus....and budget is a factor as well....

2007-10-14 18:44:51 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Weddings

He gave me a chance to explain, but because of my pride, I acted like I didn't do anything wrong and that it wasn't important enough. He probably thought I didn't care about him or value the relationship to fight for it, so he broke up with me. I didn't cheat or anything like that, just a bad habit that he has continuously forgiven me for. After the break-up, I thought long and hard about myself and our relationship. I'm willing to change for him, whatever it takes and to make it work. He also doesn't truly know that I'm in love with him. The thing is, I want him to come back on his own, then I know that he honestly wants to be with me. I don't want to push or pressure him. He should feel it for himself, but he needs to know that I can change for the sake of what we had together. I know he misses me and is very sad without me. After giving him some time, I called to ask if I could talk to him later. He said "probably". Is this a good sign? What should I do?

2007-10-14 18:43:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay i like this guy and we've had this on going thing for about 1 and half years and we really grew close. He was flirtatious, we hugged alot, we hungout every weekend, called each other and talked for hours, and very into each other but then out of nowhere it all vanished it's 11/2 year gone in one week. He began to ignore me, he always seem to make me feel stupid, and he always shot down my happiness, hasnt called or texted me , we never see each other. I really like him but it's all changing and it scares me and depresses me. (this entie weekend i've been watching tv, eating junkfood, shedding very small tears, and thinking might i add.)

2007-10-14 18:40:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this girl who I've been going out for about 3 months with, and I she's the best girlfriend I've ever had. I've gone out with many girls and never have I connected the same as I do with her. The problem is she has a huge self confidence issue. She's very pretty and intelligent, but she thinks i'm to good for her. Apparently she was a real ***** in the past to a her family,friends, herself, and she had a couple of very bad boyfriends. She was really depressed and drank alot and even cut her wrist. But she stopped after about a year before we started going out. I feel like i'm losing her becasue she won't listen to me when I tell her she is good enough, and that we can work thorugh it just give us a chance. But,it's like talking to a wall, and i've said everything I could think of to convince her. She thinks I treat her too well, and I'm to "pure" for her. What should I do?????? Treat her badly????? I feel if I fail she'll go into a deep depression, and not come back.

2007-10-14 18:37:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he thinks he might be in love with me (I think you either are or you aren't), he says he has no attraction whatsoever for any other female, and yet, he says he is still very attracted to other guys.
I think that if he wasn't dating me, he'd be completely gay.
I know I can trust him not to mess with other guys, I'm just scared he'll leave me because he "decides" he's gay.

Today is our 8 month anniversary and I am in love and we are completely happy together. We have never had any arguments or fights and we talk about our future together all the time.

I don't know what to do and I don't know how to help him.

2007-10-14 18:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by Skillet 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm gonna make this as short as i can. Yes, i love her with all my heart. Yes, i think we're taking our love for granted. I want her to see other guys (I don't think this will affect her love for me). Yes, i think this is one of the long-distance relationships that has a good chance to work out in the end. And no, i do not plan on leaving her (disguised as this break).

Yes or no to the break?

2007-10-14 18:30:32 · 4 answers · asked by cardinalsrule00 2 in Singles & Dating

Its very complicated, but my ex broke up with acople of weeks ago for some other guy...the reason being is that she moved and i cant see her, but now she is saying she still loves me but doesnt want to get back together with me. But that really doesnt make any sense to me, so i asked her why. And she said thats she doesnt want to be dating anyone right now, then i get even more confused cuz she keeps saying she loves me and she wants to hug and kiss me but yet she doesnt want to get back together with me yet...she also said that if she did, it would be in awhile. The problem is i dont want to wait, being away from her is killing me. so im asking how do i get her back? for sure.

2007-10-14 18:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by rawrcanucks 2 in Singles & Dating

You'd think you'd grow out of these things, but there's no shortage of mindblowing women out there. What makes them so special?

And if you hang out with someone you're crazy about but you are sure she isn't in to you, is that just masochistic? Or is it some sort of higher-level healing that makes you a bigger person?

Need some fun and some serious thoughts and advice here, thanks all.

2007-10-14 18:27:04 · 12 answers · asked by imperialism 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a bridesmaid for a wedding happening in December this year. (Its my Fiancee's sister, i have only met her twice as she lives in New Zealand and i in South Africa), she has chosen her cousin (who is roughly the same age as her & also one of my closest friends) to be maid of honour.

My problem is that the brides cousin professes that she loves the bride so much and they are soooo close and she is really happy and honoured that she is the maid of honour! But get this (I HAVE BEEN DOING ALL THE MAID OF HONOUR DUTIES) and she is just sitting back taking all the credit for it. I have told the bride and the brides mother so that they are aware of it. it took me 4hours to make the hens party invites and i handed them out on Saturday she politely turned around and said "i'm the maid of honour and she's doing all the work"!!! I really dont mind doing it as i have flexible hours but she needs to do some of it at least? Otherwise i should rightfully be MAID OF HONOUR? Please give me advice?

2007-10-14 18:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by Shannon 1982 2 in Weddings

Do you love someone so much it hurts, but you cant be with that person for some reason? what would you do just to be with him/her? Why can't you be with them? what is it that makes you love this person?

2007-10-14 18:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by yafathomiejt 3 in Singles & Dating

Does marriage between same-sex individuals bother you? Why? I am not passing any judgements...just curious.

2007-10-14 18:22:10 · 23 answers · asked by mccael01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so my husband is in the army and we are stationed at Fort Irwin, CA. This is the national training center so they are constantly in and out of the field. This week and next he is spending in the field and he is not supposed to have his cell phone, so I never get to talk to him. I guess it could be a lot worse, like him being deployed, but the biggest thing isn't him not being here, it's the fact that we are from NY and I have absolutely no friends or family here. So I am completely alone. To top it all off, I am 5 months pregnant and hormonal and moody, my needy dog drives me crazy 24/7 and I'm new to post and have NO hobbies. lol... it's a mess.

2007-10-14 18:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Brittney 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, the story goes. I been with my girlfriend for 5 1/2 years. She went over to study in Ireland for a few months. We both agreed to date other people and nothing in a relationship. So I'm talking to her and all the sudden she really became cold hearted and shady. So one day I go on Facebook.com and seen that she was in a relationship. So I asked and she told me that she has been dating this guy for 2 weeks and she wasn't even gone for 3 weeks. I tell her I miss her and all that and then she comes out and says ( I don't think we should be talking like this) and I ask why then she says ( because my new boyfriend deserves some trust too). That hurt me so bad and it feels like 5 1/2 years down the toliet. I know we had our fights but I don't know what and why it ended the way it did. I know she loves me but if she did none of this would of happened. I don't know if I should wait for her return or move on. I'm so lost and out of place. I can't go to my friends so please people help me out.

2007-10-14 18:20:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it a good idea for a couple, going to seperate colleges, to be involved with such a relationship. We have been together for a year and we feel we may be able to do something like this, but not sure what the outcome could be. we go to seperate colleges, but they are less than an hour away and we still see eachother 3-4 days out of the week.

2007-10-14 18:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy online almost six months ago and we talk regularly. I think we've become "friends"......the thing is i'm really starting to like him despite the fact that we have a love-hate relationship....we make fun of each other all the time...but at the same time we can talk about politics and other stuff that matters. And its not like hes always "mean" or anything he can be very sweet as well. Also he asks questions like Did you miss me and what not. I could be totally paranoid.....and it could turn out that he just sees me as a friend. Help?

2007-10-14 18:17:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I am falling in love with this guy, I am not ready for relationship. I know that this would be a distraction to me because I busy now (school, work, etc). I told him before but I contacted him two week later to see how he was doing. Now I feel I am not ready. I told him to lets be friends but now I don't want to because I know it will be something more later.He tells me that he loves me and wants to at least be my friend. I don't want to talk to him anymore because I afraid things will get worst.

I called and told him this but he told me he will always be my friend at heart. I changed my mind now. I going to at least be his friend


However, now I have not been able to concentrate on my school work. I thinking about letting him go

2007-10-14 18:14:48 · 17 answers · asked by * 1 in Singles & Dating