I already asked this but i didnt get much response/
Last saturday out of no where my fiance whos in the army texts me and says Ive been talking to my mom and my brother (whom hate me) & they made me realize I dont need a relationship right now then sunday morning he said that he had a new girlfriend and she makes him really happy, then that night someone stole his phone and pretended to be him and texted me saying we arent ever getting back together and sent me a picture of her and honestly shes not prettier than me, ive asked random people and no one thinks she is. anyways, the next morning he apoligized and said he still loves me hes just confused because she cheers him up when hes sad but just to give it time. WTF?!? you dnt go from wanting to marry someone then the next day I cant be with you & he comes home this friday.
should I just wait it out and see if we get back together?
why would he do this to me if he loves me so much?
and please please nothing mean.
♥
2007-10-14 18:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long has he been in the army. He probably misses you and has females around him he could have now, and doesnt realise hes got the one he wants back home waiting for him. When he gets bak he'll realise his mistakes and you'll sort this out. He also needs to make his own decisions not be swayed by others. (family)
2007-10-14 19:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by alicia w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the "stolen phone" crap is, well, crap. I think the whole situation is crap. He sounds like a child who is jerking you around. I don't want to say "dump him" because I don't know either of you nor do I know much about your relationship. However, if he's pulled stuff like this at any other time, you might want to seriously think about it. If he's a jerk all the time, dump him! Whoever you are, whatever you look like, you're capable of finding a good guy . . . or at least a better guy.
2007-10-15 02:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Sephiroth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be with him then I would tell him that you love him and u will wait for him to figure out what he wants to do with his life. i am assuming when u say he is coming home friday that he was overseas. He probly saw some crazy **** and now realizes how precious life is. I think you should just give him time.
2007-10-15 02:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by kermit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me he doesnt know what he wants and he is playing childish games with the phone and the texting. how is he going to let someone else determine his feelings for you and what HE should do. soounds like he is still a child. you need to go find yourself a MAN that knows what he wants. dont sit around and wait on him. talk to him about everything and ask him what he wants and let him know you are not going to be his puppet or play childish games with him, its eaither he wants to be with you and you're going to work everything out or eaither you two should stop waisting both of your times and move on because you deserve so much better then to play with a child honey. move on! good luck
2007-10-15 02:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has commitment issues, i think you should reconsider getting married to him for at least another 6 months, just so you can be sure he will not bail on you in the near or far future.
2007-10-15 02:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by mc_maybe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've just gone through something similiar, only it was my parents and my mother in your position.
The reality is, you are best to cut your losses now, because in the future it could likley fall through again, and you will find yourself getting hurt twice. This other woman is not going to easily go away.
2007-10-15 02:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, he sounds like bad news. if you know about all of that stuff just imagine about the things you don't know. he sounds like he's going to try to string you along, if you don't end it now it will just hurt more when in does end and the many times before that that he hurts you. I know it will be hard but walk away and don't look back.
2007-10-15 02:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Falstune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need for him to be absolutely honest with you (without influence) before either of you can move forward - whether as a couple or as separate people.
2007-10-15 02:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.....I think what you are looking for is someone to out and tell you what you know you already know....Hello....wake up!! You're not even married and he's pulling this sh*t.....think when/if you marry him.....if he does this to you then it is over....you should move on. Staying is wasting time.
2007-10-15 02:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by jill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. this is such a very...odd situation...and y would e hav a girlfriend if u are getting married to him? well i say break this relationship before he does...because this is just messed up..
2007-10-15 02:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋