Are we truley meant to be together?

Question

Okay i like this guy and we've had this on going thing for about 1 and half years and we really grew close. He was flirtatious, we hugged alot, we hungout every weekend, called each other and talked for hours, and very into each other but then out of nowhere it all vanished it's 11/2 year gone in one week. He began to ignore me, he always seem to make me feel stupid, and he always shot down my happiness, hasnt called or texted me , we never see each other. I really like him but it's all changing and it scares me and depresses me. (this entie weekend i've been watching tv, eating junkfood, shedding very small tears, and thinking might i add.)

and everytime i ask about it he just replies were not dating or he'll say a rude comment that makes me feel stupid!!!

Answer 1

ask him whats wrong...he could be having a rough time...or maybe he's upset with you about something.

otherwise, i think you know that he's possibly no longer interested..if he's not you need to move on

Answer 2

Ignore him back. Do not call him, do not talk to him. Instead live! Tonight, make a list of all that needs to be done tomorrow. Do It. Don't answer every phone call either or text message. Try and get things done. Remember the size of our world, it's huge! You just need to know that you are worth it, hold your head high, smile ~ a lot! People do smile back. Take a walk, no sunglasses, you need 30 min., a day so the Vitamin D gets going in your body. That prevents depression! Eat Right aren't you worth it! If in a couple days you feel a little sad, then write him a letter, don't send it. Instead when ever you feel like saying something to him, pull out that (same) letter, cross things off, or add things. Eventually you will not have it anymore, you'll throw it away, and you will have moved on without sheding another tear. Do not ever let someone upset you so much that you don't remember who you are.
Although it is seems hard, it is actually a gift: you see you've learned a little more about what you like and what you do not like. When you meet someone else you will know a little more about what you are looking for in a MAN. Good Luck to you!
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Answer 3

I'm sorry that your bf changed so abruptly. Looks like he wants to break it off, but he doesn't have the courage to tell you, so he's mean to you and distant. I've been in the same situation, and the exact same timeframe (1.5 years). It hurts like hell!

He changed so fast that he doesn't sound like a mature person capable of sustaining a relationship. I know you're sad, but this guy's fickle and cruel. You'll be sad for some time, because this ended so badly. Try to get busy with friends and treat yourself well. You'll meet someone who is much kinder.

Answer 4

Sometimes relationships just get to the stage where ur fighting are arent getting what u want out of the relationship. The BEST thing to do is talk it out with the person ur dating. Let them know str8 up that u still care about them and that u felt that they've been changing and want to do whatever possible to make things right. Let him know that u love him and want him to treat u how he once did.

Answer 5

doesnt sound like its meant to be, you have to talk to him and ask him why he has changed all of a sudden..he couldnt have woken up one day with everything fine and said todays the day im going to act like this for no reason. so theres something behind his intentions babygirl. you need to talk to him like adults and see his reasons. dont be depressed they say a man isnt worth your tears and if he was he wouldnt have made you cry, dont let it depress you, you deserve better. it must have BEEN happening likei said it just didnt happen over night. maybe hes not in love with you, maybe he found someone else. you need to figure it out and talk about it and let go and move on if thats the right decision. good luck

Answer 6

When people are "meant to be together" they work out there diffrences no matter what,they forgive and forget,and they work together to get things done