ok. me and my ex was best friends before we hooked up we was together for 2 years before we broke up now we are friends because she felt that it's best if we stayed friends which was cool with me, heres the problem I finally found the woman i want to spend the rest of my life with but she dont accept my ex as a friend i gave my ex the number to the house and she called looking to talk to me but my current girl answers the phone and hell broke loose they got to arguing and stuff i tried to tell her that we was just friends but she aint tryinn to hear that when we first got together my current girl told me that she dont want me to have any female friends but my ex was my best friend and i didnt tell her that wen we first got to dating so now she knows and she is mad as hell at me am i wrong or what thats my best friend now should i cut it off with my ex or should i tell my current girl that she needs to accept her or its over between me and her I LUV MY CURRENT GIRL ALOT THOUGH
2007-10-14 18:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by Rose J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That was STUPID!!!! Why the HELL would you want her to call there! Sounds like you like drama. Maybe you like it when two females fight over you and you use your X to start trouble for your entertainment. How many times have you done that!. I mean have your so called X interfere?
2007-10-14 18:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have been honest with her from the start and maybe set up a lunch date w/ her and your girlfriend to meet. That would have been better than having another girl call the house without even realizing that you had a female best friend. Also if she can't trust you to have any female friends then how is she gonna trust you in the long run? I really think that you should talk to your now girl and make it up with her and see if she'd be interested in meeting her. Tell her that you guys are best friends and no feelings are there at all. I hope it all works out for you. My fiancee used to have a female best friend as well until they got into a huge argument and haven't talked since. Me and her used to even talk on the phone together. It's all about trust. And that's the biggest part of the relationship.
2007-10-15 01:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Wendie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who is more important: the girl you say you want to spend your life with or an ex? who's happiness do you care more about? furthermore, if you had to tick one of them off, which one would make life harder for you?
if you're going to marry this one girl, you're gonna need to accomodate her some.
2007-10-15 01:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by lilmamaOH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to date a person that puts restriction on you. you dont need that drama. it would just end in devorce anyway. find a person that is ok with your friend. its hard to find a best friend but lovers are everywhere.
2007-10-15 01:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋