Well I'm in high school,months ago she wrote me letter saying "Hi Travis I've been watching you for a while now and now I'm starting to really like you. You're sexy and I always wanted to tell you that but I'm scared to tell you.Meet me at the gym at 1:30pm, bye baby! love your secret admire. XOXO" That's what the letter says that she let someone pass to me with out me knowing it was her. I kind of knew it was her because she was staring at me for like 10min.I didn't go I had to take a test
How should I respond to this note?
2007-10-14 18:59:24 · 30 answers · asked by travis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
meet her and talk to her
2007-10-14 19:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since it has been..... months, you say, then maybe you should wipe the slate clean as tho you never got the note. After all, you couldn't swear that it was her, but you "think" it was her. I am assuming that you are in favor of pursuing her. If so, then approach her with the idea of starting a conversation and making small-talk. This should lead to the beginning of a friendship between you two. Take your time in the beginning and let nature take it's course. Later on when things are going smoothly, you might casually ask her if she ever sent you a note by someone? Just say that someone slipped you a note and you never knew who wrote the note; you had the test to take and didn't get to take care of the situation properly.
I don't see any need to bring in the person who handed the note to you.
2007-10-14 19:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's too chicken to give you the note herself, then she is a pansy. Why would you want someone so insecure? You should go for the girl who will approach you and tell you to your face, not pass a note and then expect you to meet in a gym. Sheesh. Just ignore the note, and do not write back. Make her come to you personally. If she won't approach you face to face, then she's not worth you.
Am I the only female in the world who has balls? I think I am, because I have never beat around the bush about telling people that I like them and want to be with them. I've also never been afraid of rejection.
Cheers
2007-10-14 19:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Travis! If that was months ago and you never met her at 1:30 without an explanation of having to take a test, you blew it baby!
I suggest whether you like her or not, you explain now that you had a test. Then see if she'd like to go out for pizza, or whatever.
2007-10-14 19:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends are you intersted in the girl you think it is?? If so just go up to her after class and tell her you wanted to talk to her about the letter but you couldnt make it that day cuz you had to take a test. Then just let it go from there. If your not inersted then dont do anything. Your in high school she will get over it. Right now your just eye candy. :)
2007-10-14 19:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she uses the Internet - find out her mail id and send her a mail or chat with her. If she does not use technology - just send across a note to her saying you are sorry that you can not make it at the given time because you have a test to attend.
And Do let her know if you are interested or not interested in her.
2007-10-14 19:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by haria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I can not help you get "on" that girl. You have to do that yourself I think. And do you know she wants you "on" her. I mean shouldn't you like date first before you starting going at it or whatever?
Secondly she said she was scared to tell you but she told you, so she's not really scared she just pulling that standard hard to get crap girl's push around. I say forget her... if she can't be upfront about and has to be all sneaky with notes (that is so 6th grade) then she ain't worth. It just means she plays games, probably lots of games. I never meant a decent girl through a note.
2007-10-14 19:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by windowtreatmentofdeath 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her why you didnt' meet her first of all, and if you like her, write her a note, asking her to meet you. just make sure she knows you didnt go because you had a test, and just didnt' ditch her. But be honest, tell her you dont, or do like her. But its been months ago, and you still havent wrote her back?? I think you really just need to sit down and talk to her
2007-10-14 19:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by tiffany w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have waited too long to do anything directly in response to the note if this was months ago...she could be over you...but u could try just doing the same thing back...write her a note and tell her to meet u but dont let her know it's you
2007-10-14 19:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by kkldng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most important thing - do you like her?
if you do, sweep her off her feet, surprise her bring her flowers take her out on a great date. it's obvious she likes you but if you wait she might not anymore
if you don't like her, let her down gently. i know people say it's better to tell someone to their face but honestly in this situation where there's no history between you that just makes it more hurtful and embarrassing, I'd tell a friend and have them let her know or they could steer her towards liking another guy.
2007-10-14 19:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Falstune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write in a letter in response saying "i would have made it if only i knew who you were, secret admirer." and give it back to the girl that gave it to u. hey its sexy for a guy to play wt a grls mind, they go for that like bread and butter
2007-10-14 19:05:48 · answer #11 · answered by f8isvir2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋