Well I am falling in love with this guy, I am not ready for relationship. I know that this would be a distraction to me because I busy now (school, work, etc). I told him before but I contacted him two week later to see how he was doing. Now I feel I am not ready. I told him to lets be friends but now I don't want to because I know it will be something more later.He tells me that he loves me and wants to at least be my friend. I don't want to talk to him anymore because I afraid things will get worst.
I called and told him this but he told me he will always be my friend at heart. I changed my mind now. I going to at least be his friend
However, now I have not been able to concentrate on my school work. I thinking about letting him go
2007-10-14 18:14:48 · 17 answers · asked by * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TELL HIM YOUR IN LOVE W/ HIM DON'T LET A GOOD THING GO YOU MAY LIVE TO REGRET IT IT SEEMS LIKE YOU ALREADY ARE SO JUST TELL HIM DON'T BE AFRAID HE LOVES YOU SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT GUY DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE YOU BOTH CAN WORK THIS OUT GO FOR IT...........IF YOU CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM YOURRRRRR IN LOVE......GIVE HIM A CHANCE .................YOU CAN'T FIGHT IT SO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT AND JUST TELL HIM YOU HAVE STUDIES I THINK YOU WILL BE HAPPIER AND PROBABLY DO ALOT BETTER HE WILL UNDERSTAND DON'T LET HIM GO.........FOLLOW YOUR HEART...............LOVE MY ONLY COME ONCE IN A LIFE TIME IF YOUR LUCKY TWICE OR THREE SO YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO I'D RATHER LOVE THAN NOT LOVE AT ALL...................................
2007-10-14 18:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It seems that you don't know what you want. If you are falling in love with him then you should at least give it a try. You probably can't think straight enough to study because you are worried about making the wrong choice. If he loves you he will help you continue doing well in school. You can make this work. It won't be easy but you won't know until you give it a shot. Don't live with regrets.
2007-10-15 01:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by kpatterson7 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You put a hard question out there, the best answer to your question could truly only come from you. You need to way all your options, are you more serious about a relationship or a career, which ever is most important to you follow it. If he is that special one he'll be there when you're ready. Is his goals for ambition the same as yours. Make sure he is somewhat of your equal.
2007-10-15 01:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by deneansmith@att.net 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you think that he'll be a distraction to you, and you really want to concentrate on your studies and on you job than let him go. if it was meant to be than maybe later you'll get together with him. Good luck! you're really going to need it 'cause it's a really hard decision you have to make.
2007-10-15 01:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that you should stay as his friend. Unless you are really busy and can not afford any distractions (in which case you should tell him nicely that it is best if we do not talk to each other) still be his friend. Hope it helps.
2007-10-15 01:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok, it sounds like you're already trying to let him go but thats not going so well if you can't stop thinking about him. So maybe you should just give it a shot and see where it goes. but make it very clear that you still have school and work.
Good luck!
2007-10-15 01:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Desi♥KayKisses 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stop all this drama and just be friends with the guy. You can set the limits for yourself. Take charge of this situation and make it work for you and stop all this on/off stuff since it only makes things worse for you.
2007-10-15 01:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes
2007-10-15 01:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Hottie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either you want to be in a relationship or not. You can't have the in between when someone has feelings involved. Your instincts are right to let him go.
2007-10-15 01:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nooo. r u crazy. if he really loves you that much and u like him get together. if you leave him u will be even more distracted. just tell him that he needs to give you space for you to do your work. just hang out on weekends and stuff.
2007-10-15 01:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by CommonTurtle 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋