Its very complicated, but my ex broke up with acople of weeks ago for some other guy...the reason being is that she moved and i cant see her, but now she is saying she still loves me but doesnt want to get back together with me. But that really doesnt make any sense to me, so i asked her why. And she said thats she doesnt want to be dating anyone right now, then i get even more confused cuz she keeps saying she loves me and she wants to hug and kiss me but yet she doesnt want to get back together with me yet...she also said that if she did, it would be in awhile. The problem is i dont want to wait, being away from her is killing me. so im asking how do i get her back? for sure.
2007-10-14 18:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by rawrcanucks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i really love her... i tryed dating other girls but, it just doesnt work. so confusing
2007-10-14 18:38:20 · update #1
You don't get someone back unless they want it also! Sounds way too simple, but unfortunately it is that simple. Listening to you leads me to believe that she has a for sure thing and is taking advantage of it. It is called playing games.....don't you really believe you deserve better than that? You are her security while she is out having a good time.....most women don't respect guys they can walk all over...use them -Yes but respect them - No. You deserve someone who wants you just as much as you want them. Start dating and soon you might find you were killing yourself.
2007-10-14 18:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol this sounds familar from my past. sounds like you just need to move on sweetheart. because you are her puppet and she is playing with you by the strings. she knows you want her and shes just playing a game. tell her you dont want to play games and tell her to leave you alone. if she wants you she wants you, she doenst need to put a time limit on being with you. obviosly she doesnt really want you if she leaves you for another guy and now shes single and doesnt want to date..that guy she though so highly about might have broke up with her or it might not have worked out and now shes back to tagging you along..that doesnt sound right. you should stop entertaining her and find someone else who is worth your time and respects you not to tie you along like a puppet. good luck. hope i helped. shes playing too many games and tell her you dont want to play.
2007-10-14 18:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that was me[ur girl] before..i know i do still love my ex-bf that time but there are reasons that would make not want to stay with him,not even if love is there for us..
simple tactics followed:he showed me how honest he is with me and how things will be better if he is with me and that how much life is more colorful when there is love around. he never stopped giving me flowers[my favorite] and making me happy all the time..he became my slave if that is how you call it..but believe me,i am more happy with that scenario.for making me believe that he can be trusted at all and love for me is all he can give... good luck,dude! =)
2007-10-14 18:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by rHai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is crazy. She loves you but she doesn't want to date you? It sounds like she's keeping you "in reserve" until she needs you. Yuck!
You can try to make her jealous. Let her know you're seeing someone else, and don't contact her.
Or just cut her loose. It doesn't sound like she's worth the worry. She can't give you what you want, so find someone else who can.
2007-10-14 18:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by slishou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's an ex for a reason. she left you. and it seems like shes playing a lot of mind games. tell her to make up her mind or you need to move on. dont wait around for someone who cant get their stuff together.
2007-10-14 18:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by colostomy_punch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't...Sounds like your ex picked up the"Player Manual" and is using it on you..Examine what you told us....Doesn't it seem fishy to you? So while your ex is looking the "BBD" (Bigger,Better,Deal), she's also caging you down just in case it does not work out for her...I say drop her like a bad habit and find yourself a lady who is going to be true for you...I know they are out there..Good luck.
2007-10-14 18:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, are you desperate or what? This girl just dogged you out and you are begging for more punishment???
2007-10-14 18:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋