lets say a guy broke up with you once, then you wanted to work things out and did, then 3 days later he said he was cheating and still engaged. then u say u hate him and never will speak to him again if you can help it, then w eek later he text you sayin he loves you and wants you back you say you dont know, then he sends you flowers and says text me tomorrow if i still have a chance, you do. then he wants to meet but you are reluctant to do so, so he gets angry and calls you fat ugly stupid smellly, verbal abuse.then he brings a girl to your workplace and you hang around for a bit then just get up and leave work. then he says sorry and wants to work things out but everytime you want to give him another chance he fs it up. then he keeps sayin he loves you and misses you, then he asks if relation is too damaged you say yea, ut then he says let me fix things, you say ok but things will be diferent im starting fresh. i shouldn love someone like you. what do you hink of the sutuation?
2007-10-14 15:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy needs to move on, because he doesn't deserve the girl. The girls needs to pull her head out of her butt and see that she's just making things worse by not ending things with the guy.
2007-10-14 15:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Milly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never be that stupid enough to keep running back to the same guy time and time again after all that. I really don't know anyone that would do that. Maybe a second time and that would be it. You obviously have problems if you do that.
2007-10-14 16:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both of these people need serious help - - they suffer from severe low self esteem, inability to make and keep commitments, passive and aggressive behaviors, abusive, and controlling. They both are extremely dysfunctional, so they could NEVER make any kind of real relationship work.
What a waste of time and energy.
2007-10-14 16:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your hat mister, don't let the door hit you in the rear on the way out. If it does, find someone who cares to give you sympathy. That is what I would tell this guy. If you don't, then you deserve what you are going to get with him.
2007-10-14 16:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by poopsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lacking of love from childhood, he needs your great attention, and you are probably cold. your above message sounds rational, but he is probably very emotional and demanding of your attention, so he gets angry, and he tries to make you respond to him, but you respond in a calm way. Ask him not to do this again, and tell him you understand him, you want him to be a better person, and if he still acts like this, you leave him completely.
2007-10-14 16:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like the girl doesn't deserve that abuse or dishonesty and the guy doesn't deserve her love. if he's just gonna keep lying and messing around, then he doesn't deserve anyone. if he really cared, he would've made it work right the first time. she's much better off without him.
2007-10-14 15:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by HilaB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you get rid of him and stay friends (if possible). there is way too much drama in that. he is also unfaithful and a jerk. if he abuses you verbally, then there will be a lot of pain in ur life. he might just want you for to do 'it'. he is not worth it.
2007-10-14 16:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Smiles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you need some help because you dont go back with someone who treats you like that guys come and go, and i am pretty sure he is not the only guy you could find.
2007-10-14 15:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I think you are dumb for going back to him. Its almost as if you like the abuse. Can you not get anyone who will respect you more then that or is this all you have going for you?
2007-10-14 15:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by beachnerjl2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like this girl has very low confidence about herself because most girls would not go back to such a sleeze. so guys dont think you cna play girls over like that because most of them wont take it.
2007-10-14 15:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by bebe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋