My ex broke up with me (it'll be a week this coming Tuesday) but I am still so much in love with him. We've been talking on and off on the internet and now I haven't heard from him in almost these past 2 days. I've been talking to his friends and now they won't answer my ims. I'm worried he's telling them not to talk to me...
I really want him back...I feel like he's the one...I've im'd him with talking over coffee and just being face to face and haven't gotten any replies...I'm thinking of calling him just to see how he's doing...Is it wrong that I want to see how he's doing? This is what I typed to him today: ...i just wanna say that I really want to keep you as a friend...i love you and still care alot about you...i think us staying friends is the first step is overcoming what happened between us and starting off fresh.
He's told me he misses me and wants to be close to me...so then why is he trying to push me away? (i feel he's trying to push me away)
Please help...
2007-10-14 16:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the rest of what I typed to him: i know it's going to be difficult to get over...but i really think we can pull it off....and i'm not going to get my hopes up for us to start dating again but i've realized my mistakes as they have been told to me by you and my own mother so I am deeply sorry for all of the mistakes I made for us not to be together....I was wrong...
I just need someone's opinion on who's gone through this and what they did and if they got their guy to come back. I really really love him...it's killing me that he's not talking back and I miss him so much....
Please help...serious answers only please...
2007-10-14 16:57:09 · update #1
I would like guys to answer too...what would you want your ex to do if you knew she loved you and wanted you back....
2007-10-14 17:03:45 · update #2
The reason we broke up is because he said he just couldn't do it anymore...and then he went into how I borrowed money from him and never made any intention to pay him back...I told him that I was planning on paying him back when I had the full amount and then tells me that he wouldn't have accepted it anyway...I ask him if maybe he thought I didn't appreciate it and he says I know you did...
He wasn't really forward with me though...I did things that he didn't like or said yes to when he should've said no and kept it all inside of him and then exploded it all out at once...He said that instead of being a nag and bringing it up every 3 days it seemed, he'd keep quiet and get used to it...and I guess he couldn't...
2007-10-14 17:07:03 · update #3
The only way to get someone back is not to harass him. He has to make his own decisions. If you give him time and he doesn't come back he wasn't met to be yours. You ex sounds like a jerk. You really should give him up. There are better men out there and they are looking. You just have to live life and let them find you.
2007-10-14 17:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean, the real question is what did you do to him that was so bad?
2007-10-15 00:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tia08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋