So my boyfriends parents separated shortly after he was born, his mother says it was because she found out that the dad may of had another son born shortly after my boyfriend. At the age of 20 my boyfriend found out that it was true. He really does have a brother out there somewhere in the world. He has an older brother that he is very close to, and neither of them want to meet him. I have been trying to convince him that he should especially considering we have children now. What do you think????
2007-10-14 16:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by lboogie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I found out that i had a Sister at the age of 13, then at the age of 21 i found out i had two more sisters. All from my Father. I have met two of them and they are good People. Why in the World would they not want to meet their Brother? It is not his fault that they never met. It is not his fault that their Dad was like that. You cannot force them to want to meet him of course.
2007-10-14 16:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would want to meet him. But it might be hard for your boyfriend to take all of that in at the moment so give him sometime and he may come around. If they were meant to meet they will! Good Luck!
2007-10-15 00:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by irish_pixie23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should meet him because that is family and thats your blood you never know it could make his life a lot better when he meet his brother
2007-10-14 23:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tan-Tan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I think this means more to you than it does to him. I can see his point for not wanting to meet him. He never knew him growing up and what is supposed to happen now....they meet and automatically become best friends????
2007-10-14 23:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by just me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your decision to make, it's his and if he choses not to meet his half brother, you will have to respect it. What you would want doesn't really come into it.
2007-10-14 23:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i would want to meet him. but, i'm not your boyfried and neither are you. respect the fact that this is something that he does not want to do, perhaps someday, but not today. focus on your family and be ready to support him if/when he decides to confront his father's past
2007-10-14 23:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by ProudM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to find him. It is not his fault what his parents did. I would respect his wishes if he chooses not to find and meet him.
2007-10-15 00:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me i would want 2 meet him but ur bf may not want 2 so dont push him he may get upset hope this helps God bless
2007-10-14 23:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by raven m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not want to meet him, then respect his wishes.
2007-10-14 23:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by LyndasCa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think he should meet him,but you cant push him it has to be his choice. Also how dose his mum feel about it?
2007-10-14 23:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by kac123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋