Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

I am currently seperated from her by 7K miles for another 10 months. She still loves me and feels we rushed into our marriage and wishes we could just go back and take our time. She also has feelings for another guy from her past that just re-surfaced. I know she is lonely and thinks getting through this year is too tough and I know that this wouldn't be an issue if we were together. Just last week we were talking about making a baby in May and taking a cruise. Then we got into an arguement this weekend about her going out all night and not calling me to let me know she made it home. That is what got all this started. I admit I have been a little jealous since we have been apart but it's tough being 7K miles apart and having full trust. I know this may have been my downfall and pushed her to the edge a little. This all just happened so fast and I don't know what to do. I love her with all of my heart and want to save our marriage. What can I do? I will do anything, ANYTHING

2006-11-01 23:37:40 · 10 answers · asked by hurting and confused 1

2006-11-01 23:30:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

you thought you already found the greatest love of your life and get married,but oneday you went to a place where you did not expected to met someone and found a new love,wich is more intense and really got inlove, what will you do?

2006-11-01 23:21:11 · 12 answers · asked by AmandaNikolah 3

This other guy is not the reason for the seperation, I know i have self respect but morally how long should i wait before i jump into bed with this guy? Besides my marriage was dead long ago Just need a few answers to see if my answer is on par

2006-11-01 23:13:58 · 22 answers · asked by jules 4

My husbands family lives pretty far away, too far to drive so we are flying there for Thanksgiving. His brother lives in the same state as us but 3 hours away. A plane ticket is going to cost us about $300 each, for him myself and our 1 yr old. I just found out this morning that he wants to buy his brothers ticket and his brothers fiance. We had a huge argument about how he makes these decisions without even consulting me first. How do I make him see that we really shouldnt be buying these tickets for them? Also, we don't make more money than them, we have a child, a mortgage a car payment etc. they have nothing but a car payment. He thinks he should do it because hes the older brother. Why do men always act like there is something to prove?

2006-11-01 22:57:05 · 4 answers · asked by Mommy to One 2

Can someone please share experience. What is life of women in India after divorce with one child? Do they remarry? what is life like in Indian society? Is it better to stay single or remarry?

2006-11-01 22:54:38 · 11 answers · asked by hi123 1

2006-11-01 22:39:20 · 48 answers · asked by bella 28 2

My b/f and I have lived together almost two years and still do it every day....sometimes twice and even on weekends more than that....do you think if we get married that would stop? Do you think that we are normal? (either way I'm gonna keep on doin it! LOL)

2006-11-01 22:36:17 · 30 answers · asked by Shae 3

please give some advice. especially ladies over 20years. u can even write an email. i am really troubled with this issue.be honest guys.

2006-11-01 22:13:58 · 39 answers · asked by dj lenp 1

i have to present this topic in my college
please justify this statement

2006-11-01 22:08:43 · 20 answers · asked by kapil g 2

I love my husband so much I certainly know that..I am happy with him.. But..when I do make love with him I do not ***.Yes...and why if he kiss me I dont feel the tingle feeling I used to feel with my exbf before? Its like I dont like to kiss him on the lips..He is bad breath though..Why is that?

2006-11-01 22:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by mean z 1

if given the opportunity...would you have one if your present relationship was over but things were too complicated to just leave. knowing that your other half would never know...? i just think that given the opportunity....all of you would give up your holier then thou attitude and go for it.

2006-11-01 21:56:56 · 51 answers · asked by canada grl 4

She is going to view some venues today and over the next couple of weeks.What questions should she ask at each venue?

Cheers

2006-11-01 21:52:14 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle 3

Im Indian wife is Chinese. Im 60 & she 40. We have 9 yr boy. She started chatting on Yahoo a year ago & knows many young men. Nw she wants divorse. We r together si 18 years. This has disturbed my mind too much. I love my kid too much. She also loves him but
she gives more time to chating I give more time to kid. Kid loves both parents n feels that he
needs both parents. If I divorce, I can take care of my emotions very well I do not know
my kid's emotions whn he will be away from mum. Since two months, my wife is insisting for divorce but I am
avoiding, telling that the kid needs both parents. Im away from India since 30 years though oftenly visit India. In India, I have social support but life is much more easy
where I live presently. Im afraid kid can adopt a new atmosphere or not who is born and brought up here.
If I take my kid to India, I have no confidence if I can take
care of him very well or not. I need adv fm matured people
faced similar problems.

2006-11-01 21:47:32 · 5 answers · asked by La Kho Kho 2

My husband told me very recently that watching porn does nothing for him. Last night i found porn that he had downloaded over the weekend. He knows i dont like him looking at other women like that and i am so upset. Why do men need to look at a flat screen when they have a living and warm thing in their beds. Makes my stomach sick to think what he was doing while watching other women. We have had a very rough year and i thought things were going great but now i just feel like ****.

2006-11-01 21:42:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 21:41:39 · 11 answers · asked by Nita 2

Recently, while at the Johnson County (KS) Courthouse, I looked at a brochure on domestic violence. As usual, the brochure was designed only to be read by women. It listed a number of ways to determine whether a woman is a victim of an abusive man. It said you are a victim if one or more of the items applied. Two items caught my interest.

Has he demanded sex from you?
Has he refused to have sex with you?

Is it my imagination or is this a damned if you do and damned if you don't situation? If she has an intimacy problem, physical or mental, and he wants to have sex, she's a domestic violence victim. If he has an intimacy problem, physical or mental, and won't have sex with her, she is a victim of domestic violence.

2006-11-01 21:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is in a relationship that is coming to an end. she says she is finding it really hard to convince her other half that it's over. i'm trying to help her but have run out of ways she can tell him to move on.
she fancies someone and is feeling that she she may have an affair..........should she?
i've told her to go ahead.
oh ya, she still lives with the guy and has kids with him, too.

2006-11-01 21:39:10 · 49 answers · asked by canada grl 4

2006-11-01 21:27:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 21:23:08 · 18 answers · asked by matrimony x 1

You marry, but your not in love with her, then she gets pregnant and you stay in the marriage until the child is grown...now what do you do?

2006-11-01 21:18:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met pakistani man online over 14month ago,we fell in love ,and want to meet,he is married, his wife left him almost 3 yrs ago.and returned to her family.he applied for passport to visit me ,she found out he was coming uk ,he said to visit friends and relatives ,she thinks hes going to look for work here and probably send for her so she decided to return to his home.he has a good job in pakistan ,and after visit will return there to it .we love each other very much and want to marry . i would be a 2nd wife , he can provide for us both .would we be able to marry either here legally , or if i went to pakistan ,could i marry him there and bring him here as my husband,he is muslim and can take 2nd wife, i have converted to islam and now regard myself muslim. please help

2006-11-01 21:10:30 · 8 answers · asked by jean d 1

my mom and dad are getting devorced after 23 years of marraige.
I am the oldest and am not handeling it well. how can I learn to cope with it?

2006-11-01 21:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he really hurt you, what would u conclude???

2006-11-01 20:53:27 · 23 answers · asked by genieejj 3

What are the possible causes of these relationships emerging?Are they longlasting?Who benefits from this?

2006-11-01 20:38:11 · 19 answers · asked by aquarian 4

It is my friends b-day on Sat and we have not known each other that long, not quite a month...she is turning 23 Have no CLUE what to get her...not spending much at all...any ideas?? THanks much

2006-11-01 20:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Justcurious81 2

before my husband married me, he was talking to another girl at the same time he was talking to me but unfortunately, i found this out too late...after i got married. he simply married me for a better future and he said he rejected her for me .. I wonder why he rejected her because he couldn't get a better future from her as she was living in his own country, asian country like him and how she benefit him like me as i come from a western country, usa. i think he married me to get to usa and he probably wanted to divorce once he got his green card and then marry her back home because he still kept talking to her after our marriage.. he never accepted it but i knew he was talking to her. he always said she was prettier than me and when i felt bad, he said he was simply joking. sometimes he says he feels regretful why he married me because his life has ended up into more problems after marrying me. and i know why he says it because he could not get his green card. i'm not bad looking eith

2006-11-01 20:16:00 · 18 answers · asked by mind 1

the details in brief were he takes long to call n when he does he calls wee hours of the nite and he want is a shag thou he would tell me if he didnt love me he wouldn't be coming back to me,,,,, and we have been dating for nine month, not married and we do not leave together and he leaves with the girl friend,,,

Most anwers were telling me to kick him out and i thought they were right, i sent him a mail immdiately letting him know that it over and he has not responded for two days now! DO YOU THINK HE'S HURT, GUILTY OR WOUNDERING WHAT TO DO?

Just wish i knew how feels not that am regreting or still love am proud of my decision but just because i was too open with him and told him how he's been using me for that long.

Ur views are humbly welcome,, thanks folks.

2006-11-01 20:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by kiss me. 3

2006-11-01 20:09:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm so confused. I married a cheater but i can't get over him. I'm still with him. Sometimes he acts so nice that it is hard for me to imagine the real side of him. i know i should dump him but its not easier on me. I feel if i leave him, either he will get hurt or i will regret my decision later.. what is it? is that i love him? i'm so confused. i'm not happy with the present situation of my life. i feel i will never able to trust any guy.

2006-11-01 19:47:12 · 17 answers · asked by mind 1