please give some advice. especially ladies over 20years. u can even write an email. i am really troubled with this issue.be honest guys.
2006-11-01 22:13:58 · 39 answers · asked by dj lenp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is ok, age does not matter, as long as both people are old enough
2006-11-01 22:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It would help you know your age. Perspective changes as you get older. If you're rather young, you may be attracted to her now, but as you grow, you may see her differently. Age IS just a number, but it seems less a factor after the age 35-40. I am a 54 year old widow. I thought only an older man might be interested in me. Even that seemed doubtful when so many older men want really young women. When I met someone last year, I just knew he'd run the other way when I told him my age. He's 8 yrs younger than I. He didn't. When people are supposed to be together, it just doesn't matter.
2006-11-02 01:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in there, women get better and better as they mature.
Older ladies are HOT!!! They know what they want and generally do not have the same emotional "issues" that can spoil some younger women. They generally have a place they can take you to so you don't end up doing it in a car or something. Just make it plain from the start that you only want sex- don't get dragged into any "relationship" malarky. At your age, It's not worth it.
2006-11-01 22:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its ok to be attracted to a person older than you!I was seeing a guy 14 years older than me(me 27 him 41)and it worked well.It doesnt matter what ages you both are, if you both feel attracted to each other then go for for it.Your heart will tell you if it feels right,with this lady,or any other.best of luck pal**
2006-11-01 22:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always been attracted to older women.
When I was 21 I was seeing a married woman of 29, not a huge difference, my partner now is the same age as me, we marry next month, but I still find older women attractive.
There's nothing wrong with it at all, as long as we're not talking about grandmothers etc...
2006-11-01 22:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by RRM 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 39 and I am 51, we've been married over 7 years, the age difference has never been an issue, infact when we first met he wouldn't believe me that I was 43, he was 31, it's really no problem at all.
2006-11-02 02:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age really doesn't matter. My wife was older than me but 18 years and we had 16 wonderful years together. It only ended because she died from a brain tumour, I still wish she was with me now and that we could of had at least another 20, 30, 40 (etc.) years together.
2006-11-02 01:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by spear_1021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women are naturally more mature, and know more of what they want? There is nothing wrong to be attracted to them..just be careful about relationships. Too many years difference, you will be looking for a "mom", not a girlfriend.
2006-11-01 22:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by janet r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think every person has there own desires, i personally have always gone for men older then me and it has never bothered me to do tha or the guys that i meet. so i would't be to worried about it in some people it's just normal some younger girls are very imature that might be a reason why you like older ladies.but i don't think that there is anything wrong with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
good luck
2006-11-01 22:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by punky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an older woman and have just married. My husband is 28 and I am 54 but luckily I don't look that old apparently. we are very happy and we have such fun. So go for it
2006-11-02 01:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by sweetiesweetydarling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's OK. It's normal as far as I'm concerned.
Also, I think that men reach full maturity earlier than women so biologically you are probably going about things the right way.
2006-11-01 22:17:07 · answer #11 · answered by C T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋