the details in brief were he takes long to call n when he does he calls wee hours of the nite and he want is a shag thou he would tell me if he didnt love me he wouldn't be coming back to me,,,,, and we have been dating for nine month, not married and we do not leave together and he leaves with the girl friend,,,
Most anwers were telling me to kick him out and i thought they were right, i sent him a mail immdiately letting him know that it over and he has not responded for two days now! DO YOU THINK HE'S HURT, GUILTY OR WOUNDERING WHAT TO DO?
Just wish i knew how feels not that am regreting or still love am proud of my decision but just because i was too open with him and told him how he's been using me for that long.
Ur views are humbly welcome,, thanks folks.
2006-11-01 20:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by kiss me. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he hasnt gotten back to u cos he does not care. i guess he expected u to get wise before now, but since u didnt he kept coming for shags without strings attached. d best thing u have done for urself was let him go, and pls if u can don't get in touch with him again for watever reason.
be strong girl and good luck
2006-11-02 00:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn’t matter anymore.
I used to sit and wonder to myself,
what it was, I did so wrong.
Could I have treated you different?
or wrote you, a beautiful song.
I loved you with all of my heart,
and I believed, you truly loved me.
You used to say, I was your true love,
and there was no place, you’d rather be.
How could a love so wonderful and pure,
change, from the day we first met.
Was it I, who did you wrong,
or a friend, I will never forget.
But now, it truly doesn’t matter anymore,
why, you hurt and cheated on me.
Because I know, deep in my heart,
It wasn’t I, who cheated on thee.
So I just want you to know,
that if you ever, think of us two.
My life was truly changed, my dear,
and I deserve, a lot better than you.
By: Kenny P aka- Cobra
2006-11-02 04:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's probably thinking up another slimey way to get u back on his wave length and get u ready to bed him again...
u did right to ditch him and i respect u for taking all of those answers as the right way to go. its not easy making any decision.... but urs was the right one.
good luck and i hope u find a nice guy who treats u well.
x
2006-11-02 04:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a similar situation, i think he's taking you for granted , you need to get him sitting down so you can talk and ask him straight what he wants, if he says he doesn't know then tell him to leave you alone til he does. it's not fair on you
Good luck and i hope it works out how you would like it to
2006-11-02 04:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving him the boot was definitely the right thing to do. He's probably just been stunned into silence, forget him. Get yourself a guy who'll want you on your terms too, not just a quickie when he feels like it.
2006-11-02 06:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he probably is waiting for you to get back in touch so don't make the first move or he will know you want him just for the sex let him come back to you stand your ground
2006-11-02 04:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by colin050659 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think uve done the right thing, if he really wanted you he would have put up more of a fight, just put it down to experience and make damn sure no other man treats you like that again, good luck you will find someone that deserves your love xxx
2006-11-02 05:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by claire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he will be looking for someone else to cheat on his girl friend now you told him to get lost. do not wast your time thinking about him find a nice fella that wants to be with just you good luck x
2006-11-02 06:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he cares for you as much as he says he does then he will come back tail between his legs, begging for another chance, if hes not even making the effort then your better off on you own and meeting someone new
2006-11-02 04:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by sweetness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you and he's a cheater and player why do u care if he never emails or calls you'd be better off.
2006-11-02 04:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋