Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

he is a worker,scientist engineer.his reasoning is this=== sex is not all thing. our semon is final result of our food,our power.why we waste it for joy.i can use my young life in other constructional work.sex in once in life is best.min period-15 day less then this periodical sex is poision. you think that how any one can sex every day.if i do it i have two major loss-power and life loss oppurtunity loss.if i in under limit use this power in social work.then i have a credit.so i want to leave my super sexy wife. is he is right or wrong.

2006-11-01 03:13:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to argue, or send mixed messages so the best way for me to communicate is by writing. I don't think this marriage is going to last, Im sure it won't. I get the impression that you are going to strive to make my life hell. But you must see this is not a functioning marriage. I'm not myself when you are around and I miss being myself. Contrary to what you think I'm not sneaky, I don't have a bad temper. Although sometimes I think you push me into those corners. I often times feel lonely being around you. With all the arguing(from both of us) it is tough if not impossible to push that aside and feel comfortable. I'm the first one to think I'm a failure, because I don't think a marriage is supposed to be desposible, however there are sometimes bridges which are burned that can't be repaired.You should know that Pj is always first on my priority list. I would cut my own leg off if he needed one. I know you proabably see me as a work aholic,but if thats what it takes thats what i do.I know you're nosey and concerned about my emails, however trust is a huge deal to me and basically youhave proven time and time again you don't trust me.
Thats just a couple thoughts im able tocome up with right now

2006-11-01 03:11:25 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6

I promise I won't tell. To what degree are you fooling around? How far is "cheating"?

2006-11-01 03:08:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by she_wah_dee 1

2006-11-01 03:06:39 · 19 answers · asked by judy f 3

2006-11-01 03:06:31 · 6 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

Help plz...?
Ok, Ppl i really need help on this, i hate this, ok, i been with a guy 6 years he cheated on me and ive cheated on him. he hit on me, been like that for awhile, but the last 3 months he has changed, but there another guy i think i love, he loves me and would do anything, im trying to work things out with my boyfriend i been with 6yrs for my lil boy sake, because i want things to work. but then agian i find myself thinkin about this other guy alot, what do i need to do.i really want things to work out i dont wont 6 years down the drain

2006-11-01 03:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by pennyluvchris 1

2006-11-01 03:02:36 · 17 answers · asked by idwill 1

Im finding that my husband is connected to myspace and friendster.com and putting "not married" in his profiles. and he just now got a message from some girl in his email about wanting to talk. what is it that he is doing? should i be concerned? i try to talk to him but he flips out and gets mad and doesnt want to talk.... about anything. thanks for your opinions/answers.

2006-11-01 03:01:32 · 16 answers · asked by jessnclh 3

If my husband lies to me about little thing of no importance, could it be that he lies about things that can really hurt me?

2006-11-01 02:58:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, Ppl i really need help on this, i hate this, ok, i been with a guy 6 years he cheated on me and ive cheated on him. he hit on me, been like that for awhile, but the last 3 months he has changed, but there another guy i think i love, he loves me and would do anything, im trying to work things out with my boyfriend i been with 6yrs for my lil boy sake, because i want things to work. but then agian i find myself thinkin about this other guy alot, what do i need to do.i really want things to work out i dont wont 6 years down the drain

2006-11-01 02:56:47 · 13 answers · asked by lil_one_penny 2

After my divorce, i numb myself to find boyfriends online...and end up falling for a married man. I know it's impossible but i just want to hold on to him as i really need that kind of love to heal my wounds...that caused by my ex-husband. I know it's wrong but i really dun know who to turn for help.

2006-11-01 02:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Rainbowgal 1

i don't really like my sister-in-law...she's pretty much poison and i just have no idea what to get her for christmas!

i was thinking about a nice peice of faux-jewelry. like simulated stones set in real gold...

p.s. my husband isn't being very helpful...soooo...it's pretty much up to me...yuck!

thanks!

2006-11-01 02:49:17 · 26 answers · asked by joey322 6

I have been dating a guy for 2 years now and he has been separated from his wife for 3 years. They had two 5 year olds from the marriage. The wife filed the divorce about a year and a half ago when she filed for child support. She followed through with the child support case, but not the divorce. Both have moved on. The wife said that she spent enough money on attorneys that she is not going to re-file the divorce, but he could file for the divorce and she would sign the papers. I have mentioned it to him about filing for a divorce a few times, but it never gets to far. He talked to an attorney and he said that it will cost about $ 400, so he didn't do it because he didn't have money, but promised he would when he had more money. He just got a big bonus from his job & he still didn't file. He said he wanted to pay off some stuff first. I printed out info on do it yourself divorce, but nothing! now when i mention it he changes subject. how do i mention it without making him mad?

2006-11-01 02:45:02 · 6 answers · asked by flowergirlsdy 2

can you love someone and cheat on them? me and my boyfriend been together 6 years we havea 5 year old lil boy and i found out that he cheated on me 3 time in the begin, and about 10 months i cheated on him. i regret it so much, and wish i didn't do it, Can people change?

2006-11-01 02:43:28 · 36 answers · asked by lil_one_penny 2

2006-11-01 02:38:27 · 5 answers · asked by Fifi1220 1

How can I get my boyfriend to be more aggressive sexually? we have sex about once a week, and only when I initiate it. I'm 30, he's 44. Is that normal? I am tired of always being the aggressor. Besides just holding out and not getting sex at all, what can I do? I want him to ravage me sometimes instead of the other way around. Any suggestions?

2006-11-01 02:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by Lotus 6

Here is what seems to be going on - I don't think my X, who originally was representing himself & retained an attorney at our last court date, is paying his attorney. After our last court date his attorney imm. asked for us to provide discovery, we asked for an extention and for them to provide his discovery to us for 1 mnth later. We since provided to them our discovery but his attorney has not and when my attorney contacts her she said she doesn't have it and not to contact her office again on this matter!

Do you think she is stalling, isn't that a strange reply to a perfectly legitimate request? Do you think perhaps she has not been paid by him and that is why she is being evasive?

Perhaps my x is trying to play games and has no intension of providing discovery and plans to play poor-man at our next court date - can he get away with that? If this is the case could we ask our next court date to be rescheduled once we actually receive his discovery

I would love your input

2006-11-01 02:30:58 · 3 answers · asked by Bluesky 1

If you have been married more than 10 years...

2006-11-01 02:24:22 · 37 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

if i live until i am 85. actually, the shorter lifespan seems easier. i am married with kids and want them provided for but in the big picture it really isnt too important to me to be on this earth a long time. is this a strange outlook on life? how do other people think about this outlook or what is their outlook on it?

2006-11-01 02:22:49 · 16 answers · asked by Mark 1

2006-11-01 02:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by mulumengesha 1

Why am i like this any ideas please help me out. Thanks So Much..

2006-11-01 02:19:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going threw a devorce and custody battle and my 15yr old son has been going to a counsler to help him deal with everything. my husband is not his father and never adopted him yet his lawyer is trying to get me to sign over so he can get all the records from my sons counsling. the custody battle is not even about my son its for our 5yr old girl can they do that

2006-11-01 02:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by wendy 2

How would you want your husband to tell you he is affair. I know this is not an easy thing to say or even bring up, but rather he told you than finding out, right.

2006-11-01 02:17:55 · 30 answers · asked by hazmat1424 1

Hi,

I recently got married. Then last week I met an old and trusted friend after work. I was just taking my name badge when my friend looked shocked. It said Mrs Laura ......... She told me she was suprised I had changed my name and the fact that I had used Mrs etc. I said I had not really thought about it and was happy to take my husbands name, and why should I hide being married etc. apart from the hassle of getting ID's driving licenses reissued and just adjsting to having a new last name. I can't believe such a trusted friend would make such an issue and I feel really weird about it all now. What do others think?

Laura

2006-11-01 02:11:24 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean most women convert Islam because the way it treats her im a women and in Islam im treated the best...men open car doors when im going in, they help us, they don't let us stand in lines for stuff in markets for example, they let us pass first. if a women is carrying something heavy they help her with it, sometimes i wake up and my car is clean, because my old man neighbor cleaned it while cleaning his i lived my whole life in Muslim countries. Palestine, Jordan, Saudi, Egypt and went to the USA and Britain but never found a good way in treating a women , only in Islam When a women is married, she can not work if she does not want, but she also can, both ways the HUSBAND is the one to spend money on her, the money she gets from work is hers When she is hurt even by a touch she can go to court, Islam gives her the right to divorce and have money too my mom and all Muslim married women i knew in my whole life are treated LIKE QUEENS. Why do people say that Islam is against women?

2006-11-01 02:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by candyness 1

2006-11-01 02:06:08 · 13 answers · asked by olin1963 6

2006-11-01 01:57:04 · 17 answers · asked by Bob M 1

but i want my future husband to believe that i am one .what do i do i am 25yr and i hope to get married in 5-10yrs time pls help me

2006-11-01 01:54:30 · 39 answers · asked by abenabox 2

i'm not sure why people use the word so loosely, especially when you agreed not to tell each other anything you do not mean...

2006-11-01 01:53:47 · 18 answers · asked by vicki_g02 1