Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

2006-11-01 06:16:28 · 5 answers · asked by catch22 1

I think only half of people read WHOLE response! I am not asking did I overreact about the dang porno ( cause all i did was ask) I am asking am I overreacting for feeling he might lie about other things. He has lied about going to strip clubs (found the truth) he lied about his ex (found out he wanted to have sex w/ her) he lied about a letter from a co worker. He lies about alot of things until he gets CAUGHT then he tells the truth. he has looked at porno before and I told him if you do not want me to do those things then you shouldn't also. He agreed!!! That is why i was hurt when I found the porno site on the computer and he did tell me he was looking at the women!!!! So please do not respond unless you read the whole page!

2006-11-01 06:08:15 · 53 answers · asked by amberrenae1979@sbcglobal.net 2

My mom called, and for once it was me that picked up the phone first. I noticed a "handset in use" warning on the phone, indicating the other phone was off the hook.

After the call I ran upstairs to check and I'm pretty sure I caught my wife eavesdropping.

I'm wondering how to confront her about this. We've been separated off and on over the course of our marriage.

2006-11-01 06:02:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know if there will be any problem due to our age difference.

2006-11-01 06:01:26 · 21 answers · asked by joke_fr 2

I have a pretty, loving wife, a great new job that I like (and i like the poeple i work with, more importantly), and yet I feel like i'm friggin miserable. Why? Why am I never happy with anything? Why is nothing good enough for me? Does anyone else feel like this? What did you do? (And please don't tell me to find God. I know - he's always in the last place you look :) )

2006-11-01 05:58:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a 33 year old man when it comes to protecting my family or if its only a night out if an arguement starts i am bold and will kind of argue back but if another man puts it up to me i shake and try wriggle out of it i feel so ashamed what can i do to help me with this fear besides going to the cops.so fed up

2006-11-01 05:58:34 · 3 answers · asked by bigbin 1

My husband is driving me nuts! We are in a bind financially. We were doing okay until he quit his last job. He has recently found a new one, which pays well. Between us, we have seven dollars, and owe his mom over a thousand. I am almost 8 months pregnant, and will not be able to work much longer. He is planning to use his paycheck (which he calls "our" money) to fix things on a truck that ain't tore up. We have many bills and no money. I hate having to ask his mom for cash, and my parents aren't able to help out. I recently lost my job, and have no prospects in sight. My car is dead on empty, and he will have to get a ride home from work today. My four year old doesn't understand why Mommy can't afford to do things that grandma can do. Talking to him don't work. I guess what I'm asking is this: do I set a budget and demand that he stick to it. We live with his mom, and have no bills. She always pays for groceries, so the only thing we have is gas and his stupid skoal habit. HELP!!

2006-11-01 05:56:40 · 33 answers · asked by I_didn't_do_it 2

2006-11-01 05:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by upatfour 1

has Eric Szmanda going out with a fifteen year old?

2006-11-01 05:53:48 · 6 answers · asked by candygirl 1

I am happily married but I was on myspace the other day and found my first love that I have not spoke to in over 6 years and I emailed her. I do not intend on doing anything with her or even meet in person. I would like to tell her how much she changed me for the better when we broke up because I realized what an AS$ I was. I did not tell my wife and I still feel a little weird about the whole thing. Should I tell my wife or because I have no intention of doing anything more than a few emails should I not bother, because I’m sure that me talking to an X is not something she would like.

2006-11-01 05:53:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

It all started when my fiance broke up with me last year. I begged for him to stay with me and he said no he wasnt 100% commited. So I moved out, I was heartbroken, and I was mad and hated him because I felt that he betrayed me. After a month he is already sleeping with a couple of girls.I hear through the grapevine. So I decided I better get back in the dating scence because we are never going to get back together anyway.I happened to get back in touch with a "friend of a friend" of his.We started dating and eventually have sex.
a few months later me and my fiance get back together.I told him what I did and even though he was the one who didnt want to be with me and he was sleeping with multiple other people he calls me a whore and says he will never forgive me
It wouldnt have happened if we didnt break up.I feel so horrible and guilty for what I have done.How can I forgive myself?
we are still together but I feel our relationship will never be the same. what do I do, who is wrong?

2006-11-01 05:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife stuck it out with my when I was very ill with an abdominal sickness, through a very major surgery, through very tough financial times (we could hardly make rent) and through 3 major bout of depression. Personally i think she's the greatest mom and wife a guy could ever hope to have. I'm just curious to see how many women would have stuck around.

2006-11-01 05:50:12 · 32 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

Last night my husband stayed at home while i took the kids trick or treating. When I got home the food was not put up and he was sleep. I felt sorry for him, thinking he must not feel good. Something told me to check my cookies which I have never done before. Whwn I checked there was this site called my.break.com. When i went there half naked women were popping up. So I asked him if he was looking at women on the computer. he got mad first and then said yeah I looked at one picture, then felt bad and turned it off. He claims he went to the site to look at something else and happened to click the pic. It broke my heart because I never thought I would have to deal with this from him. he is normally the best hubby, alwasy spoiling me and such. I told him he hurt me and my trust. he also has issues with telling me the truth unless I found out also. This makes me wonder what else is he "doing" I do not know about? Am I overreacting or should I be concerned?

2006-11-01 05:43:31 · 38 answers · asked by amberrenae1979@sbcglobal.net 2

and why do you think that is?

2006-11-01 05:39:09 · 22 answers · asked by Ant O 2

My sister asked a friend of hers to go out with me and she said yes.I love the girl but I have the feelings that this girl would be thinking that if not of my sister I would not have muster the courage to approach her,and this make me uncomfortable.How do I start such a relationship?

2006-11-01 05:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by isidoreoe 1

I help with the dishes, cooking, cleaning and laundry that sort of thing. I do it so my wife isn't so tired and it also shows how much I love and appreciate her. We've been having sex more often and more intensely. Am I wrong in seeing a direct relationship between the two?

2006-11-01 05:38:57 · 28 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS, 2 KIDS should i confront him

2006-11-01 05:38:44 · 28 answers · asked by SouthernBelle504 2

I personally don't care but a lot of people that I know don't approve of it.

2006-11-01 05:35:09 · 30 answers · asked by butterfly*princess 2

Why is it so important that we have something or somebody by our side?

2006-11-01 05:35:09 · 9 answers · asked by shy_grn_eyed_blnd 2

i have nothing to hide. he recently told me that he opens my mail also. i've asked him not to open my mail before but he keeps doing this. also, i confessed to him that i have a crush at work for about 3 weeks now. what do i need to say for him to understand that i need a personal space.

2006-11-01 05:33:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am, very, why? because the person i am with is just a very negative miserable person who does nothing for me except take care of the kids, 13 years now. only with her for the kids.

2006-11-01 05:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best way to tell your husband of 4 months that you want the Divorce We had a bad relationship and should have never gotten married?

2006-11-01 05:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by kittykitty 2

I look good and am educated (school )M.A. and street (teen f-up) but moved my child to the middle of no where because I did not want him in the city. I can not leave this town for a few reasons. I met one guy and dated on and off 7 years. He has serious commitment issues ( never married , no children, partys very hard (days) but only around 6 times a year, workaholic (I think) but gave me a ring recently. We are engaged.

I love him but do not really have anything to campare it with, am I selling myself short, I never really dated , and I know that I am loyal and strait forward. Should I be thinking these things. ??

I work with children so my job does not present any dating opportunities. I was the youngest parent and oldest college student so those places were out, I do not drink so no bars.

Question, am I setteling due to lack of experience or am I fortunate and should not think of these things?

2006-11-01 05:22:39 · 12 answers · asked by sweet pea 3

2006-11-01 05:18:46 · 12 answers · asked by Mother of Tae Kwon Do 2

I mean it's a bit tricky for women- should I just wait?

2006-11-01 05:16:09 · 39 answers · asked by angivictoria 1

2006-11-01 05:10:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husand steadfast7 and I are moving cross country to live and we are excited.

He wants to leave in December no later than 12/15. I dont feel a peace about it because we dont have jobs just yet ( we took a trip to hand out resumes and make contacts). He wants to get out from where we are living.

I believe that if we wait until Jan 2nd we would have more money for the move be with our family for the holidays< and at that time more people would be hiring in 2007. what is your suggestion about this?

2006-11-01 05:07:15 · 20 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

I am thinking about putting plastic underneath the bottom sheet to keep the love fluids from staining the mattress. What other item should I use besides the plastic, since the plastic makes noise. I dont want to interrupt the children during our physical nights....

2006-11-01 05:07:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a realtionship for 5 monthes on Nov.7 and my boyfriend has been telling me that he wants to me to have his baby,marry me and that he loves me. I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart but are we rushing things. But i am under the age of 21 and I really dont wana loose him but we i kinda dont wana get married so soon. Well half of me dose becuase I love him but the other half says no im to young and I need to enjoy life. I dont wana have a baby so early (my grandma tells me wait untill u have been married for two years to know if you are comfertable with living with this person. But should I do....

2006-11-01 05:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by I_Taste_Like_Candi 2

but i can or couldnt say no to crack cocaine its hard i have dreams about it i have been clean now for 4months and its hard but i went to prison and stayed there 3mths ive been to jail 5 times and its all over the drugs for boosting or what ever it took for me to get the next high i tryed before to quit and iwas clean for 2mths then i got a job and i begin again and i nearly lost everything i had even my family what should i do to stay clean i think i have the willpower this time i hope cause if not im afaid the next time will be death

2006-11-01 05:05:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous