Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2006

the words that its his heart and that it should stay between the two of us. He knows that you don't own a mobile earliar. Later he agrees to let you share it with your parents and his parents. But he keeps checking it regularly. And he keeps repeating that its his love and that when he is away this mobile will keep us together. He wouldn't let you have another one. What would you do girls?

2006-10-31 23:54:21 · 14 answers · asked by 28March2007 1

Decided to divorce her. I've been a Mr. Mom and she's been the sole supporter to this family. He's cut off all my credit cards and has completely pulled herself away. i sent her separation papers. And she came unglued and said she wanted everything. I've never known someone to be so mean. I guess she thought after six months she could just come back like nothing has happened. I've moved on with my life. We have so many assets I know it's gonna be a battle is there any suggestions. She has left and started a new life. For no reason will I guess she was just board. It's been very hard getting back on my feet. I've decided I want everything possible as I feels she has abandoned us It's not just me our kids have been left to their both adults just starting out and her being the sole supporter. we've all had hard times without warning this happened two days after my 24th anniversary I would always love her but I no longer even know who she's become is a wrong to want revenge.

2006-10-31 23:47:05 · 25 answers · asked by unsure 1

why is it us mothers spend every second of the day bringin our kids up makin sure they well looked after an happy,yet its the fathers (lots absent) who get all the praise from the children hmmm?

2006-10-31 23:44:00 · 27 answers · asked by Jane Louise B 1

Me and my husband has an arguments last night because my baby is crying so much and we dont know why..My nanny came to me to get the baby, I gave it to her because maybe to her she will not cry. My husband told me like "What you/we gonna do if the nanny is not with us? He said it was just a joke, but to me, I feel I am insulted because it seems to me that I am incompetent mother and wife to my son. Am I really too sensitive? What do you think about it? We came from a different nationalities.. he is american I am asian.. But eventhough, we are happy together, just the language barriers sometimes causes problem. He thinks this I think that way...

2006-10-31 23:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by just me 3

just famous people please, fathers, mothers, siblings dont count....

i have thought about this one and i really cant think who i would choose...

2006-10-31 23:40:27 · 16 answers · asked by arrrthelifeofapirate 3

i feel frustrated and ignored .he does not have time to talk to me. any free time he has he spends exercising. i do not think he would brteak his exercise schdule even if i am dead . what do i do
p.s. i still love him

2006-10-31 23:39:50 · 17 answers · asked by SJM 2

Its a guy she works with, and she said that she wants to be with me, and that she isnt going to talk to this guy anymore, but then I'll catch her again. I'm not the jealous type, but the stuff I have heard them talking about isn't innocent. The only reason I am still with her at this point is my 15 month old son. I guess the real question is,"When is too much too much"?

2006-10-31 23:38:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married. I love the man I married. But I just started my new job and I found a guy that is giving me way alot more attention then my husband is doing now. And as hard as it is to say but my husband and I's relationship and still going down hill. What should I do?????????????

2006-10-31 23:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by jjfabls69 1

2006-10-31 23:33:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

The divorce papers are signed the fialing fee was paid and he turned them into the court today. how long till the divorce is final (oregon)

2006-10-31 23:19:31 · 7 answers · asked by mnm4213 2

Has anyone ever experienced the creepy Mexican?

I'm half mexican, so to me this isn't a discriminating question, but regardless, has anyone?

You know, that guy in wal-mart, the mall, or a restaurant who looks like some psycho killer who happens to be hispanic and has that dead on stare at you. And your thinking "wtf is this guy looking at!". There is a difference between a casual glance and a dead on pyscho killer stare.

2006-10-31 23:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by kurious kat 1

2006-10-31 23:00:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband are both young, I am 18, he is 26. And every 3 days I ask him if he wants to make love, and he turns me down every time, or acts like its a chore... and it hurts like hell

He won't allow me to masturbate, but sometimes I secretly try to because I feel like he isn't being fair, and I deserve it.. but when I try, I can't get in the mood because I start feeling guilty... and I have also been having dreams about having sex with other guys, ... ugh

2006-10-31 23:00:06 · 27 answers · asked by Pook 2

can one live and even sleep in the same bed with a guy that has crush/intrest in you without making luv?

2006-10-31 22:50:25 · 8 answers · asked by fantasy 1

and we decide to get married we are talking on the phone 24 hours we never sleep is that love? do i need to marry him?

2006-10-31 22:37:53 · 11 answers · asked by dollface 1

My husband has a really low poor sexual appetite, and he thinks mine is too high (if you call every three days high). When he refuses me and doesn' t feel like it, I start having real dreams about having sex with other guys.... ugh, and I hate it......and trust me, I've talked to him.

2006-10-31 22:31:31 · 16 answers · asked by Pook 2

2006-10-31 22:31:29 · 18 answers · asked by sweet 1

I have 4 kids all boys, my eldest is 20, 18, 14 & 6. I,m 39 yrs old born july 28, 1967 at 9 pm. I really need to know if my relationship with anthony would last. It's been always a rough life for me.

2006-10-31 22:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by masopiensrizenriquez 1

2006-10-31 22:18:25 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really need an advice badly,please?
I asked the same question before but nobody answered it why?

2006-10-31 22:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by rochelle 1

I have two choices of two men and two states.

My first choice is in colorado with the father of three of my children in a house that he has recently bought for me and the kids. He is financialy stable but emotionaly negecting me and the kids. He is a workaholic always gone. He can't stand my first child he wants him to live with some one else. I told him that if my son goes any where then i will go with him. He said if im not happy then i should leave.

My second choice in Texas with the father of my first child whom i am married to legaly( i never could afford a divorce) He is not finacialy stable but he is very emotional. Even though three kids are not his he still cares for them. He used to be abusive to me when we first got married. He says he has changed it has been 5 years since we first split up.

What would ya'll do if ya'll had to choose? I know it's up to me but i need some other opinions on the subject. Any help would be great!

2006-10-31 22:08:39 · 17 answers · asked by mystic_rage879 2

2006-10-31 22:07:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 22:04:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wont let me use his cell phone unless hes in the room with me. When i ask him if hes cheating on me he gets really mad and fights with me. One time when i had to go to school hes best friends Girl friend was at the house before i left and i was gone to class for 3 hours and she was still there when i got back but he tells me nothing happened. Another time was this is bad but i recored him and im not sure if it was a porn movie thats what he says but he never never watches porn before i bought the movie but it sounded like him on the recoreder and i set the recorder in the same spot put the movie on and it was two different sounds i could tell that the recoreding that i did the 2nd time was a porn and the first time i couldnt tell i dont understand will some one help me please

2006-10-31 22:04:27 · 19 answers · asked by sweet_angel180 1

2006-10-31 22:03:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im getting married in 1 months but i dont know if im doing the right thing i love him, but we never saw eachother we mate on website and he wants to marry me but i dont know is that right thing.he wants me to come to usa but i leave in mosocw. please help me

2006-10-31 21:58:57 · 18 answers · asked by dollface 1

This is a hard one. She is 6 and a half month pregnant with our second. Things started to get strange early July. I thought she was having an afair at work she told me i was crazy! I started to monitor her more closely. We went to marriage counsilor and she suggested we see a doctor about bipolar because od her actions. It all happened pretty fast, she was diagnosed,no meds because of pregnancy. I hacked into her laptop diary yesterday at 5 am and found out that she is sleeping with a guy at work and all she can think about is him abd screwing him. I am devistated to say the least. I confronted her with my evidence today. It did not go well. I know the guy, we all work for the same company, very complicated. I cant get my head around how a man could cheat with a pregant wife of someone he knows? I took my son of 2 and went to my moms. can't sleep with all the thoughts going thru my head. Is it the bipolar? need some kind of help . please how can i be with her again?

2006-10-31 21:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by t b 2

im interested in chat (just for fun) but my husband tells me dont go to chatroom what should i do?

2006-10-31 21:53:35 · 21 answers · asked by shila 1

How do you know if your man is cheating on you?

2006-10-31 21:43:40 · 11 answers · asked by sweet_angel180 1

What if you have been married for 20 years, have fights about everything and have lost respect. Can it survive? Have tried counseling many, many times but nothing works. Suggestions? When do you say, "that's it?"

2006-10-31 21:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by outtahere 3