Marriage & Divorce - 31 October 2006

Is there a way to test if someone cares about you? My boyfriend got drunk a week ago and after his hole "episode" he said, "Theres something wrong, listen to me... stop, theres something wrong... I don't care about you"

There is a kernel of truth to everything a person says.

Our relationship has become dry, boring... im not looking for a way to spice it up or anything like that... communication just spreads us apart. He just starts tripping about everything and I slip farther away.

How can I test him? Find out if he cares anymore??

2006-10-31 02:41:35 · 20 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

I rescently found out from a friend that she had sex with both her father-in-law and sister-in-law... And wondered how common it was...

2006-10-31 02:30:43 · 17 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

What is the point, if there is one???
Does it mean anything anymore???
Do we need THAT piece of paper to prove anything???
Does it mean more to women, than to men???
If it is so important, why do so many people cheat on their spouses???

2006-10-31 02:27:56 · 17 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

Cheating spouses - They tell you you made them do it, they tell you what they need and want you to do to make the marriage to work when they do not do anything to save the marriage. Im tired of being played the fool - are you as well?

2006-10-31 02:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by ACE 1

2006-10-31 02:25:55 · 25 answers · asked by mollyk 1

Also, considering the quality of life and afordable housing???

2006-10-31 02:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1

Men are like fine wine.

They start out as grapes.
Then it's our job to stomp them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something we would hopefully like to have dinner with.

Thanks for sharing.... : )
And have a great week!

2006-10-31 02:21:12 · 15 answers · asked by DiL 3

My husband knew before we were married that I would never get along with his friends, that was clear from the beginning. Their lifestyle isnt one that is the least family orientated. Now, some still call and some call only when they need to borrow money and it is a constant source of arguments that we have. They are the only problem our marriage has and I need help getting the issue resolved. He is also in total agreement that they are no good and also agrees and understands that they can't visit or be around our children. HELP, how do I get them to just go away?

2006-10-31 02:16:19 · 9 answers · asked by sammie 2

What is the right age for a boy to get married?

2006-10-31 02:03:38 · 27 answers · asked by tej 1

What should I get my husband for our anniversery? I want to be kinda creative.

2006-10-31 01:57:55 · 14 answers · asked by luvmymustang5speed 2

2006-10-31 01:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by dominicaquilino 3

2006-10-31 01:43:04 · 25 answers · asked by ilovemythreewonderfulkids 1

2006-10-31 01:41:39 · 17 answers · asked by wartytoadjody39 3

A friend of my wife came over last night to borrow some makeup from her. During a discussion with my wife she said that she was going on a date with someone from work. When my wife asked her, "what if your husband find out?"...her girlfriend said, "he already knows...and it is ok". Has womans rights and modern dating evolved this far?

2006-10-31 01:40:24 · 18 answers · asked by Ricky 2

I met a guy when he was married. We were friends. He moved out of his home,, away from the wife and three kids, 6 months ago. He still attends church with the wife and kids, gave a party for his son with the wife, has dinner at his father's house with the wife and kids and goes to school meetings with the wife. These events total about 10 times over the last six months. He wouldn't invite me to his son's birthday party even though his son and my son play together sometimes because they are a year apart. He says that he doesn't want to cause a scene with his wife and that she may make a scene if I come. Am I stupid or what?

2006-10-31 01:30:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's work only consists of three people in the entire department.He and his supervisor do not like the other girl in the office because she doesnt always agree with them and makes suggestion on how to better the department.They have started making things up to try and get her fired.They erase her voice mail messages so it looks as if she is incompetent.They hide and watch her to see what time she comes in and what time she leaves.They completely fabricate lies about her then they back each other up so it looks like the truth.I dont know what has gotten into my husband this is so unlike him he is usually such a sweet soul.I think this is so mean and I want to know if I should go to the "BIG BOSS" and tell him what is going on.Would this be a mistake?I feel that even if he loses his job at least he lost his for a reason, his co-worker is going to lose hers for nothing.I think him and the supervisor need to be put in their places?WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-31 01:27:58 · 22 answers · asked by Gabrielle's Mom 1

I've been married for about two years now. Things have been great except for the past 6 months. My husband has developed an alcohol/substance abuse problem. He's been in and out of the hospital. He was diagnosed with a mental disorder and is on medication for it. He does really well for a while then has a relapse, but it can be very bad. I love him and i want to stick by him and help him. But am i crazy to have continued to put up with this? He tells me he plans on going into a rehab center for help, but i'm scared he might be like this for the rest of his life. Can anyone give any good advice?

Serious Answers only please!

2006-10-31 01:23:35 · 23 answers · asked by Sara 2

should i have a threesome with my ex boyfriend?let me not 4get to mention that he is married and the girl wont be his wife but somebody else

2006-10-31 01:22:54 · 32 answers · asked by mina 1

Ever since I lost weight (I lost 100 pounds by working out, eating right, etc) people started telling me I look great and I look more attractive, which makes me feel good. The problem is that my wife can't handle it when people give me compliments since she wasn't used to it when I was obese. My wife is already an attractive woman and she's used to people giving her compliments and men whistling at her or what have you. Now that I'm on the same level as her, she's gotten more competitive and trying to sabatoge my diet and lifestyle so I can be "fat" again. I love my wife and I tried to talk to her but she gets defensive. I don't like the way she's behaving. What Do I Do???

2006-10-31 01:19:29 · 17 answers · asked by bubbalicious 1

and now I smoke on a regular basis there, so I have been able to make him think the smoke smell is from the bar..but, now I want to smoke regularly in front of him...I am tired of sneaking...I want to light up whenever I want...when we are together....need suggestions....he is a nonsmoker and I respect that, but I am not a non-smoker anymore.

2006-10-31 01:14:36 · 21 answers · asked by julie s 1

Will I have to go without power or will they just leave it on and change the name thats on the account. I'm 3 months behind he is doing this so they wont cut off our power.

2006-10-31 01:10:11 · 9 answers · asked by SR 76 2

There seems to be two types of people in marriages. The first type is a person who can have friends of every sex but it never dawns on that person to have an affair. Even when the going is tough, the first type just says, well, that's life, no one is perfect" and continues in the relationship. The second type believes that a relationship is like shoes. When worn out, get a new pair or if it rains and your shoes get soaked and squeaky, throw them away rather than put them out in the sun and let them dry out and become your favorite shoe again. Maybe you have a better analogy.

2006-10-31 01:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what happens when a divorced couple with children remarry? Does the stepparent have implied access or rights due to the remarriage of the biological parent?

2006-10-31 01:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by bsweat1058 1

2006-10-31 00:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by Intellithug 3

My parents don't like my boy friend we love each other and plan to get married and start a family. My parents hate his guts . We've been going out 4 2 years. What should i do is there anyway i had sign a marriage licence my self i don't care what my parents think about my boyfriend. all that matters is that we love each other a lot. Im adopted and am 17 is there any way i could live without my adopted parents .like divorce my parents and live with foster parents.

2006-10-31 00:56:44 · 15 answers · asked by Flaca 1

My wife and I have been seperated for about six months but still live in the same house. We sleep in different rooms and she is the one who asked for the seperation becuase she has somethings she has to figure out. we have been together for 11 years married for 2 of them. I just recently started going out with friends and returning to feel like i use to. since i have been going out i have been talking with a co worker who is attracted to me and knows a little about my situation. she just wants to hang out nothing more but i cant get past the guilt i feel for hanging out with her. I am i wrong? should i not hang out with her? My wife has told me many of times that the physical and romantic part of our relationship is done and that we are just friends. But for some reason i feel so guilty and stressed out to talk with this other woman.

2006-10-31 00:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by lost 1

2006-10-31 00:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 00:47:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

A threesome with you, him, and the guy of your choice. Why or why not? Has this already happened with you? How did it go? Be specific.

2006-10-31 00:39:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is always horny in the mornings. But I can't "perform" during that time because I'm always so tired and I need to get some rest before I got to work. And when I can't do it, she gets mad and she doesn't talk to me. What do I do?

2006-10-31 00:37:14 · 23 answers · asked by bubbalicious 1