No... she will find out the truth as time passes.. what ever he did to you he will do to her.. always remember ' Higher form of justice'
2006-10-31 02:27:53
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answered by Anonymous
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My guess is that you're speaking of your ex's current girl?
If it would be damaging to stay with him, for example like he beat you, or cheated on you and gave you a STD then if you feel you HAVE to tell her in order to PROTECT her and not just an "in your face" thing then in my opinion by all means, help a girl out.
If you're doing it to hurt him or her then no, take the high road and let her figure it out on her own. By acting vindictive you're only allowing him control over your emotions and that will make it harder for you to move on.
2006-10-31 02:29:07
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answered by Heather S 4
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Well I can tell you my now X's first wife tried to warn me about him. I honestly thought she was psych. of course she wanted to tell me all these terrible things about him because she was being spiteful. I loved him and she was certainly not going to change that!
Of course in hindsight......which by the way is ALWAYS 20/20.....She was right about him. She actually knew him very, very well and everything she said was true.....But I had to find that out for myself.
So go ahead an tell her if you want to but she probably will think you are nuts and not listen to you.
2006-10-31 02:40:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Keep out of it. Grow up and move on. You got divorced and the reasons that you did may or may not affect her. Let her find out on her own.
He isn't yours any more-get a new life!!!
2006-10-31 02:28:28
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answered by gagam 5
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If it's all water under the bridge why bother? But if on the other hand it's giving you a bad name then yes tell!
2006-10-31 02:41:21
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answered by Aero 1
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Why?
He has moved on, found another girl and it i none of your business. If he is a problem she will find out for herself.
Spilling the beans will only make you out to be a witch and you will not be thanked for it.
Leave them to make their own mistakes.
2006-10-31 02:28:35
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answered by steven b 4
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stay out of it, once you're divorced then it's not your business anymore. Move on and be happy
2006-10-31 03:33:30
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answered by sparkleythings_4you 7
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To clear you hart and to feel better about yourself so that you can move on, I would. Many people would say let it keep unknown, what they do not know will not hurt them, but I say different. You just have to follow your heart on this one. Bless you....
2006-10-31 02:30:18
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answered by ACE 1
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Not sure what the whole story is, but being honest is always key. You don't want to live with this, as it seems to be bothering you.
2006-10-31 02:39:26
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answered by Carey L 3
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If you divorced him why is his life any of your business now?
2006-10-31 02:27:20
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answered by ~Gate~ 5
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