Marriage & Divorce - 27 October 2006

married man 33, well settled have 2 kids, family is back home for some time....i work in another country where my X (who cheated me b4 in our relation)is also working...i wish i can go back to her to lust/sex ......i am finding diff to stop myself from going to her...she wants me...to use me..for...money & sex ...how can i be bold enough to make myself stay away or get convinced that sex is not everything in life...outside marriage it can be trouble as well...I know all this....but still i wish i get her....please advice ....

2006-10-27 23:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 23:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by festivus64 2

2006-10-27 23:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by Shyamala R 1

1. Sex: whenever he feels like it has to be no matter what. if i suspect something then i say lets do it he will say wrong timing.
2.Family: We are married and he does not want to balance the two families he is still so much on his side and when i talk about he will be like marrying u does not mean that i should stop supporting my family!
3. House: He controls everything my clothes, buying furniture for the house, beddings, kitchen every thing u can think of color of the curtains and this makes me to feels that he take me like i dont think.
Respect: He does not respect me at all he says iam dull,helpless and lazy but i really work for this man in the bedroom i finish my energy, kitchen i cook ideas i bring them up and he has never agreed to any idea i bring and this demoralizes me badly.
I will be telling a story he will just say u know u iritate me how can i be irritating to my Husband?
I have got a lot i can say about this man i just do not know what conclusion can be made.Help

2006-10-27 23:57:48 · 9 answers · asked by Poki 1

Wife & I intimate yesterday tells me she loves me.
Tonight she at party with some guy whose been txting her .
I know right now if she asked to come back i would take her.Married 10 yrs separated 12 months .
I want to regain my self respect i want her back i want my family of 5 back.
Im dying right now shes at party!!!
I know i need to pull back so she cannot rely on my support But i dont know how.One look from her & im back in the vortex.She is the only woman to control me before her I was the original male nothin & nobody bothered mr but when I met her WOW it all changed instantly.
However this is affecting me at work, at home with my kids im not eating ive lost heaps weight perenially down .
I want to be able to let go but dont have the willpower to do it.
Some helpful advice would be appreciated no yobos or dickheads please

2006-10-27 23:46:21 · 7 answers · asked by 69frustrated69 1

She is my first cousin.and its not against the law to marry first cousin in my country.

2006-10-27 23:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by Blade 1

2006-10-27 23:41:41 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 4

my boyfriend's game was cancelled friday but i told him i was goin to mine.his phone got disconnected the other day so i couldn't call.he never called me that night so i don't know what he did.could it be that he didn't have a phone?could he be cheating?he's never cheated on his girlfriends before?i'm very very very jealous.i accuse him all the time.but i can't help it.what should i do????????????should i assume that he's cheating?

2006-10-27 23:40:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know alot of married women chat pretty intimately with guys on the internet behind theyre husbands backs,but i dont think theyd actually cheat,or would they?

2006-10-27 23:30:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 23:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by serene 1

2006-10-27 23:11:42 · 21 answers · asked by suneeti w 1

2006-10-27 23:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by suneeti w 1

I want to know how many women out there feel this way about themselves. In other words, you're not going to meet someone going clubbing, because you're not into that. You're not going to meet someone on-line, because it's just weird and you can't subject yourself in this way. Your divorced or single, but not by choice; circumstances beyond your control led to your being alone. Please email me a brief story about yourself and what emotions you go through each day. I have some interesting stories that I'd like to share as well. Thanks for your time in advance

2006-10-27 22:57:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-27 22:55:48 · 23 answers · asked by drgurdev 1

2006-10-27 22:54:46 · 13 answers · asked by johnny 1

2006-10-27 22:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by randeep s 1

i want to know how the marriage is(from many points of view). couse i am about to get merried within a year. CLARIFY IT TO ME

2006-10-27 22:35:34 · 6 answers · asked by Hisham 2

My wife of 6 years left me after i came home from work. She is from the U.S and moved back there with her family. I live in London, U.K, but she says she does not want a divorce, she still loves me but wants our marriage anulled. I was not a good husband, but she was not a good wife, I still love her very much and offered to go to coucelling etc to sort things out. How can i win her back, even though she says she wants to start a new life.

2006-10-27 22:31:18 · 17 answers · asked by Joeyjo75 2

I need to make comparisons between one year and a more recent year, eg 1996 and 2006 for couples in Germany, whether they have children, whether they are married, whether they have been divorced.... and I can't find anything helpful online! Do any of you happen to know any of these statistics?

2006-10-27 22:28:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since 3years i am in love with a boy who is in U.S. i met him through online became best friends then turned to love soon. He asked me to do nursing i have tried a lot after finishing my degree, so i plan to join for nursing next year but in todays news paper i read that nursing diploma courses are going to close. i cant do Bsc nursing coz i did 12th commerce and i am a graduate in commerce, if i want nursing i can take only general nursing diploma but indian central govt passed an act to stop general nursing course. so i am not seeing any other way to do nursing, my boy friend is saying if you are not a nurse i wont marry you. I am so mad about him, i will die for his love but he is not trying to understand me, he want me to do nursing he is not interested in another course. his family will allow only a nurse to marry him also he is interested only in a nurse. i hail from a financial sound family with educated back ground, i dont know whether my dad will support for this marriage but

2006-10-27 22:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by ann m 1

i was married at a young age to a graet man with a huge family, life was too worst and is still and i cant come out of the marraige coz my husband is a darling.,i have 2 kids,i am not educated,only 10 th, my parents dont support me ,my husband does not want to seprate and i am sick of living a life in a jail,i dont have freedom nor friends to help ,and i am confused where, if i have married my husband or his family ,god can u please help me to come out of this jail unfortunatly i too good took at so i can run away too and then my kids are there too

2006-10-27 22:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by rita 1

I am married to a woman because I impregnated her. I felt that I needed to take responsibility for my irresponsibility and now I suffer. I live with a woman that loves me and yet I am apathetic in every form toward her. We have a daughter, whom I feel nothing for as well - I am not a good father. I feel lost in a fog encircled path with no future in sight. I do not love her and it is tearing apart what little humanity I have left in my tired body. In addition, I bought a house and am scared to break it off due to financial reasons as well as my own cowardice. A day does not pass where I regret my decision. Should I sell my house and pay off our new car first? She can have everything, I do not care; I just want my life back. Even though I am a horrible person, I am entitled to living a life worth living on my own terms - right? Although she is a great person, I cannot find it within my power to love her like a husband should. She deserves someone that will truly love her, for her.

2006-10-27 22:00:53 · 14 answers · asked by Unfortunate Soul 2

I fell in love with his guy who was 5 years older than I when I was 15. We were together alittle over a year and it ended becuase our long distance relationship wasn't working out. That was when I was 16. Now that I'm 19 we've still kept in touch all this time and I did see him last Thanksgiving and am planning to see him again in November. I still have feelings for him and he says he cares about me a lot and that he does in fact believe he loves me. Should we get married? I've realized I'm never going to find the "perfect man" and that there are things about him that I don't like and vice versa... I still want to risk it.

PS) Should I worry about family? I know my family doesn't approve of him since he's older and I don't get along too well with his family... should it matter?

2006-10-27 21:56:19 · 18 answers · asked by Isabel G 2

its driving me crazy not knowing the truth,i found condoms in her purse and im fixed we never use them.i feel like dying.she says she will try to work out our marriag but since she told me shes not as lovey dovie as she was no kissing or hugging like before.should i just end my life or stick it out?

2006-10-27 21:47:25 · 19 answers · asked by bob m 1

2006-10-27 21:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband spends way too much time on the internet...its affecting his job and life in general. He gets on here and plays Counter Strike and Yahoo answers and U-tube and stuff like that. he usually gets home around 6 and stays on the net until 12 or 1 or so in the morning...knowing that he has to be up at 6:30 to go to work. i just recently sat down with him and told him that i wanted us both to be off of the net by 10:00 p.m. every night. i'm just trying to help him. i want him to have a good nights sleep and turning the computer off at 10 seemed to be a reasonable answer to my problem. is he going to resent me for this? i dont have a problem with him being on here....its just that he spends too much time on here. am i being harsh and unfair?

2006-10-27 21:12:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband i just worked things out instead of a divorce i had filed on him and i had promised him i would never get with another loser but while he was at the carnival theses same people made him think i had done something and never did- that is what i dont understand and he said i could blame the co- worker for us splitting up this time,i dont think its fair for me take the punishment when i am not quilty of doing wrong- is he not the one to be guilty of his actions believing i was with someone and was not he then turn and went to another the same co- workers daughter that they both started this break up??Knowing we had just gotten back together with one another and was trying to save our marriage?

2006-10-27 21:11:52 · 5 answers · asked by kdkc06 1

2006-10-27 21:03:31 · 11 answers · asked by lorie n 1

my bf &i have been 2gether 4 8yrs &we have some kids & have a great sex life.Recently we have been talking about having a 3some but we are afraid it may cause problems down the track can anyone give us some advice we are talking 2 women 1 man

2006-10-27 21:02:37 · 15 answers · asked by letmeno 1

2006-10-27 21:02:35 · 20 answers · asked by Lucky 1