my bf &i have been 2gether 4 8yrs &we have some kids & have a great sex life.Recently we have been talking about having a 3some but we are afraid it may cause problems down the track can anyone give us some advice we are talking 2 women 1 man
2006-10-27 21:02:37 · 15 answers · asked by letmeno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't advice it. If you need someone else involved to enjoy each other. You don't need to be together. As a couple you should be able to keep your own sparks flying.
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2006-10-27 21:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Three somes can be fun, but be careful. Sometimes it appears everything is O.K. but later on your spouse or boy friend may use it against you. Jealousies, resentment and going behind your back are some of the problems. Only the strongest relationships survive as they can separate love and recreational sex. Many people don't understand the difference. Have a set of rules and follow them. Know and understand what you and your partner expect.
2006-10-28 04:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is sot great why change? Would you consider 2men 1 woman or is this solely a single minded idea with the other partner just wanting to please. You hve to remember if you are the guy you are running the risk of her liking women more than you.
2006-10-28 04:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by pepisfrugil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your partner, 3 some; but 1 woman and 2 men. He will be bound to think again.
2006-10-28 04:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him he gets 2 women i man if you get 2 men 1 woman. see if he still wants to play. better yet tell him you want the 2 guys first.
2006-10-28 04:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can YOU handle it? That is the only question YOU need to answer.
I've done this and the woman always gets upset. It has ruined every relationship I've done it in. Seriously.
2006-10-28 04:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say ditch that idea and go to an "adult" store together and buy some things if you want to "spice things up". Threesomes are really nothing special.
2006-10-28 05:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will cause problems hell worry that you will want girls instead of him and if he pays more attention to her than you you will just wonder if he wanted to cheat on you with your permission so even if you do have a problem with that you cant say anythin cuz you were up for it too
2006-10-28 04:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by lv23smurf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it,,,, your oking him to have sex with another woman,,, so he can have affairs anytime he wants,,, it will break you up,,, why not get married,,,, if you been together for 8 years,,,,
2006-10-28 04:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right,it will definitely cause problems between you too.
2006-10-28 23:21:23 · answer #10 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋