Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2006

We've been married 11 yrs,and we have 3 kids.We hump like rabbits still,we can't keep our hands off eachother,is this normal?

2006-10-29 23:57:36 · 26 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3

Honestly I'm not happy at all in my relationship.He has a sorry excuse for everything that he does and lately he hasn't been coming in until it's an hour or so before work.It all just sucks.
He's so stupid for his boss lady that it's not normal, he's very anal
and can always tell you how to handle you business but ,he can't handle his own.

2006-10-29 23:55:02 · 17 answers · asked by cwallflower32 3

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but broke up for 6 months as I was having health problems and I didn't feel that he was supporting me enough. After getting over my illness we got beck in touch (Big mistake) We have only been seeing each other for 6 months and already I feel he is not the man for me, but we have applyed for a house together and bought things for the house (Which I have paid for) as he has no job but is going to college. I don't feel relaxed in his company. I want to break up but dont know the right way to go about it, with out him turning hasty.
The things for the house are at his parents house, how do i get them back with out him being hasty and he says I not getting the things back?

2006-10-29 23:51:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 23:50:28 · 44 answers · asked by cc 1

I love her very much and am shocked and confused as what do do next. I have questioned her as to if something is going on with her girlfriend and she denies it. What should I do? Is there hope I feel like I can't compete with this?

2006-10-29 23:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by keyhole 1

im worried about this on a personal level. while i was out of town, i let m ex-wife come to my house to watch my children. its a long story, but im wondering if she is trying to see what i do. shes an extremely jealous lady. i regret letting her in my house now, i was wanting the kids to b where they lived more comfortably. Help pleez

2006-10-29 23:36:06 · 12 answers · asked by rom s 1

I am married for last 22 years and have two children. She also had an extramarital affair but I got over it. Her poor interest in sex has caused me a lot of trauma.

2006-10-29 23:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by romantic_v 1

My husband wants to share sex with another couple or woman just for sex.But, he knows i don't want to, he looks dissapointed and he says i'm not an opened minded person.

2006-10-29 23:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by marielle 1

I live in the United States of America and why is it that so many women are not virgins until they are married? Why do they want to prove their independence and not need a man? Why do these women think that it is unfair for them to be a traditional wife? Don't they understand that it is the man's job to take care of her financially and her job to take care of him emotionally and feed his ego?

2006-10-29 23:11:04 · 17 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3

I am divorced but still use the surname of my ex husband as we have a little boy together and it is easier for our child to understand.

I am now pregnant with my second child with a different father, who is not going to be involved.

Am I able to give my baby my surname which is my ex-husband's even though we are divorced or will the baby have to be registered with my maiden name?

2006-10-29 23:09:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont ask why but think mayb anorexia. never eats. btw, i also loved her extra weight and thought it was sexy, but all in all, i want he rto b healthy. what should i do

2006-10-29 23:00:24 · 11 answers · asked by Diender 1

to kick her out of her own house and take her baby away from her.What can she do?What can I do?She is a good Mother,the baby is only a month old and he said he is going to say she is a bad mother.(she is not)and take the baby away.I feel I cant do anything but support whatever she does.What can she do to get him out and keep her baby?

2006-10-29 22:53:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I tried and promissed allmost everything in the past to her and got a lot of chances from her but i messed them up, and now i miss her so badly but she told me had fallen in love with somebody else, right at the first sight,ad he is her dreammate, what do you think will there be chance for me in the future to get her back, i even asked her to mary me on our last meeting , she told me she just returned from an other man, and shes gotta do to hurt me even more by telling ,me so, what is your suggestion, even if i know that i am maybe foolish but i miss her so badly and would do anything to proove my honesty to her and get her back , makes it sense to stay in contact with her somehow and wait maybe she changes her mind, or shall i let it go and never make a try, what try could i make...to proove that i truly love i appreciate your answers , i know i act like a fool but i dont what to do i made up my mind too late but i know now she is the only woman of my life, but she turned her back o

2006-10-29 22:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who among here slept around on the one you were marrying within the final week of your marriage?

2006-10-29 22:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by l800sexaholic 2

2006-10-29 22:30:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Herbal remedies?
how does herbal remedies work when it comes to magic? for example if a husband and wife are having problems and the husband gets some sort of herbal thing from the witch doctor for his wife. isnt that wrong? or will it be ok if it is going to save the marriage??

2006-10-29 22:30:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 22:27:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get my husband to listen to me and choose me over his mother?

2006-10-29 22:23:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there a way around this? i do love him a lot though? and he is crazy about me.

2006-10-29 22:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by vini_lang 1

2006-10-29 22:12:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 22:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by ajanta d 1

I posted a question about my bf's problem in the bedroom, and tried out some of the advice to no avaial, i tried a relaxed atmosphere, lots of foreplay from myself and was all go til the moment of penatrtion!!
When i tried to talk to him he put it down to tiredness and a headache he didn't want to talk about it! Whats the best way to approach the subject as i think its gonna become a problem very soon!! He's perfect in every other way, and loves me to pieces and can't keep his hands off me so i don't think its a phisical issue with me!! he's 19 and im 21 so we should be going like rabbits!!!!!!!!
Please Help!!!!!!!

2006-10-29 22:06:51 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

She experiances terrible pain, and show no interest,

2006-10-29 21:45:45 · 16 answers · asked by tiny tom 1

how can you get an ex gf back, she dumped me about 2 weeks ago told me she still loves me and that if it was meant to be it will happen...I talked to her last week and she says she will reconsider it and to just give her, her space...what should I do?? i'm so lost without her she is the love of my life, we've been dating for 2 years...I know I can't force her to love me, but she hardly answers my text messages and doesnt answer phone or nothing but says she'll call me with an answer..?? this is so hard to do for me

2006-10-29 21:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by digdoggy299 2

We have been seeing each other for the last 9 years.

2006-10-29 21:15:51 · 45 answers · asked by Hustler 1

My husband says that marriage is one dimensional and is like going to the gym everyday and always using the same machine, therefore you can only develop certain parts of your body. He also compared the problems in our marriage to loving your father but everytime he comes home he smacks you so over a period of time you get to hate him. Funny because I thought I was the one being treated badly by him. He criticised everything I did. He has moved out because I caught him cheating but says he did it because he couldn't get things the way he wanted at home which included having complete control of the finances (my earnings too) and making all the decisions without being questioned, plus having meals on the table on time and keeping the house spotless. But he comes back to the house every weekend and when I suggest we should have complete time apart he doesn't listen. What does he want? I told him I just want my half of the house no more so why not live his life and sell the house?

2006-10-29 21:06:51 · 33 answers · asked by Nancy S 1

I am a healthy, 27 yr old man, she's a very fit 38yr old woman. Been married for just over a year now. We had a bad spellthat caused us to seperate briefly for a few weeks. Five months ago,we got back together but haven't had sex since.

I lost my job shortly before the seperation, moved into a new house, and she left - all within 30 days! At first I thought my lack of interest was because of all this stress, Its now 5 months later...still no spark, still no urge...

Whats wrong with me? I find other woman stimulating, just not my wife!?? I do love her, but she's as sexually attractive to me as a doorknob....

2006-10-29 21:00:08 · 21 answers · asked by BecauseIcan 1

is it love marriage or arrange ? And tell me some important point in my life to whom i can remember.

2006-10-29 20:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by SHARVARI K 1

my husband hates confrontations. whenever we get into an arguement he just gives in leaving me guilty that i am pushing him to do what i want. in turn i become the bad guy. i am not pushy but there are times that i want him to understand my point and not just close his mind about it.

2006-10-29 20:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by z0e 2

I have gone through a lot of hard times in my life and it has caused me to not look at the good in things before the bad. Basically my glass is always half empty. This has affected my husband to feel like he can never make me happy no matter how hard he works at it. In this past week we have almost gotten divorced twice. The truth is I am thankful for what I have. A great husband who provides for his family, a beautiful baby girl, and a home to call our own. I do tell my husband I love and appeciatate him on a regular basis. The problem is that on any given situation I can find something to complain about even if its not how I truly feel inside. This is beginning to take a toll on our marriage. I feel like I'm almost a robot when it comes to complaining, it comes out without effort. I want to stop this and save my marriage and live life and be happy. I just need advice on what I should do to stop this ugly behavior.

2006-10-29 20:08:47 · 15 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1