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how do i get my husband to listen to me and choose me over his mother?

2006-10-29 22:23:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

18 answers

You are never going to make him choose so don't try. Pick your battles and let the other differences fall. You will be much happier. good luck

2006-10-29 22:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1 0

Quote the marriage vows first forsaking all others but in a sensitive way to him and you two need to set some boundaries a man will always listen to mom no matter what so maybe you two have to talk communication is the basis of healthy relationships all over!

2006-10-30 06:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Danette 4 · 1 0

Move far away from her.
And, you cannot change the way your "man" is. He is obviously a mommy's boy. You picked the wrong type of guy to marry. There isn't much you can do to help this. He has to change. Take my word for it.
You could be the nicest, sweetest, sexiest woman ever for him and he would still be tied to his mother.
He needs to learn on his own, and so the best way possible that you can do is to move you guys far far away from her.

Good luck!!!

2006-10-30 06:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

by showing him that Ur view is not very much different than his mothers

try to win her in Ur team instead of being her enemy

remember , if U think that Ur vag**** and boo** are giving him pleasure , remember that using the same things , she gave him birth and food when he was a baby

and also try to think it in her way , imagine , would U raise Ur kid to listen to his wife over U ??!

2006-10-30 06:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by BekO 2 · 0 0

My advice would be dont do it! If he is really ignoring you then talk to him tell him how you feel. Dont argue with him over his mum coz making him choose might push him further away.

Good Luck

2006-10-30 06:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0 0

Tell him you are his wife and he lives, eats, and sleeps with you not his mother so you would appreciate it if he would pay attention and listen to you a little more instead of mommy.

2006-10-30 06:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0 0

If he hasn't done it yet then he never will. You have on;y been in the picture for a minute. His mother has the entirety of his life. Its not right but you can't make him change.

2006-10-30 06:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mia 2 · 0 0

Simple...first of all don't make it a competition between his mother and you....he'll buck you for his mommy everytime.....just pull him off to the side and tell him what SPECIFICALLY(women tend to beat around the bush)is bugging you then tell him EXACTLY what you expect of him

2006-10-30 06:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Scratch-N-Sniff 3 · 0 0

ask him will his mom be over tomorrow to cook brekfast and do all the things you generally do. this is an age old question. i doubt if you will ever get him to stand up to her ,he has been dfriven by her all his life and you won't stop it now . tell him it's you or her , he can't have both

2006-10-30 06:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0 0

Believe me get closer to his mother and listn to her you will make him to listen to you and believe in you and most important respect you

2006-10-30 06:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Abbas A 1 · 0 0

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