how can you get an ex gf back, she dumped me about 2 weeks ago told me she still loves me and that if it was meant to be it will happen...I talked to her last week and she says she will reconsider it and to just give her, her space...what should I do?? i'm so lost without her she is the love of my life, we've been dating for 2 years...I know I can't force her to love me, but she hardly answers my text messages and doesnt answer phone or nothing but says she'll call me with an answer..?? this is so hard to do for me
2006-10-29 21:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by digdoggy299 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Chill dude. Give her space. If she comes back she comes back. If she doesn't there is nothing you can do to force her. Pestering her is doing you no favours.
The only contact you should have is to woo her again. Slowly slowly. There must be sometime soon coming up you can send flowers. Find some excuse. if she texts you. you can text back. When you see her, be nice and complementary but be careful not to sound desperate. It is in the lap of the gods but your behaviour towards her will show her what sort of man you are. If she still finds that man attractive ...whey hey. Good luck matey.
xxB
2006-10-29 21:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess your seeing each other all the time. Maybe your stifling her, closing in on her, she needs some room. Give her a break or your going to lose her.
Even a married couple can't be stifled that much, they need room to breathe, expand.
Give her a few days, instead of asking her if she's ready for you again, stay away an extra few days.
She may just want to see someone else if you don't give her a chance. You have to keep in mind she's a person and that person may want time to herself for a period. Give it to her. If, after some time she still wants time, maybe you'd better think about a different proposal like maybe she's just tired and wants a change. There's nothing you can do about this.
Find something else to do with your time, keep busy, find another person to date. It won't be easy but you'd have no choice.
2006-10-30 05:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to give her the space she has asked for. If you stop contacting her so much then she just might realize that she misses your attention.
Send her a card or something thoughtful (not romantic, though), and leave a message in it telling her very briefly how you feel for her, and then let her know that if she ever needs anything she knows where to find you.
Then leave it at that and get yourself involved in work, school, gym, whatever, to keep your mind off of her until she's ready.
Good luck!
2006-10-30 06:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not giving her space. what you are doing is driving her farther away. Send her flowers and let her know you will be waiting for her answer. After that no contact until she contacts you. But do not wait forever if she does not call you in 2 weeks then you need to move on and find someone else. Good luck
2006-10-30 06:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not sure why you guys broke up, but give her space. Don't call or text message. Give her a chance to miss you. I know it's hard! It's probably the hardest thing for you, but you need to respect her and just give her the time she has asked for and she will call you.
2006-10-30 05:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. I know that it hurts right now, but she has been explicit in stating that she needs her space. If you want to have any chance in getting her back you need to give that to her. There is no guarantees that she will come back and it's not healthy for you to wait for her. She is trying to figure herself out right now and during this time period why don't you do the same. Again it can be painful, but this is a good time to strengthen your resolve and yourself. If things don't work out between your girlfriend and yourself at least it has given you time to get things in perspective. Good luck to you.
2006-10-30 05:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you leave her alone and let her decide. My ex did that to me and it pushed me further away, hince the word ex. I told him to back off and give me some space and he didn't. He would call or get me on messenger and tell me how much he missed me and it turned me off, big time. I suggest you just leave her alone, she will decide when the time is right, don't push it or you just might lose her good. Good luck!
2006-10-30 14:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r being dependent on this girl and maybe she feels so too,u need to give her some space if she loves u she will come back to u.for the time being try to find yourself
2006-10-30 05:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by smiley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know the circumstances of the breakup. But stop calling and texting. She will call you!!!!!
2006-10-30 05:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to call you
2006-10-30 05:30:54 · answer #10 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋