Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2006

My husband an I have been married since 1994, an we have two children. I noticed for the past two times that we have had sex, he has did some new things during sex. I said something to him last night about the new things that he was doing an he said that he didnt know what I was talking about. Ive said something one othertime about something new he did in bed an he said just wanted to try something different. These are things that he has NEVER did before. He isnt interested that much anymore in some certain sex postion like he use to be. IS he cheating? He is three years older than me Im 34. Are could it be his age?

2006-10-29 12:53:39 · 41 answers · asked by Kimberly A 1

i told my husband a couple weeks ago i want a devorce. we agreed that it would be better over all to wait untill after the holidays for him to move out. sinse than hes been nothing but nice. he helps cook and clean and helps more with kids. i think hes trying to kiss up. the problem is he still wants sex and gets mad at me when i refuse him. how do i handle this? i dont want to have to live with a lot of tenstion for the next couple of months. r we just making a bad choice by living together while seperated or is it possible to get through it without hating each other in the end?

2006-10-29 12:49:46 · 20 answers · asked by momof4 1

2006-10-29 12:43:29 · 22 answers · asked by xxreshdollxx 1

2006-10-29 12:36:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

they are getting a divorce and he keeps calling me and telling me whats going on and my daughters a s*** an w*** I know how he feels how do i keep him from calling 15/20 times a day

2006-10-29 12:21:49 · 22 answers · asked by furby_lost 5

and it works out great- Got any good stories...?

2006-10-29 12:19:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 12:19:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 12:16:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 12:13:36 · 42 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-10-29 12:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by truli u 1

my "fiancee`" and I have been living together for over a year. I met him online three years ago, I moved from far away to make a life with him. We have a almost two yr. old daughter. We are both divorced, have three kids each from the other marrige. And he has one more child from a short relationship while we were apart....(he was sleeping around)
Ya, Eight kids together.

I thought we were happy until I went to the pc today and his account was still open to yahoo's personals.
I read his profile and it seemed innocent enough, but now he's getting girls that are answering his add.
What should I do/think after he has had two women pregnant, but he is living with me and has asked me to marry him. Are we just "playing house" or is he looking for someone else to move on with?

2006-10-29 12:06:19 · 17 answers · asked by talk4now2006 2

My parents have known since the day I received a call from her state appointed lawyer, but I haven't told my boyfriend yet. I am madly in love with him and we've been together for almost 2 years. We are both in our early twenties. Even though I can see myself married to him, and often dream about it, I am extremely anxious about telling him about this just yet. How can the money affect our relationship? Will it impact his love for me by virtue of securing his future? PLEASE HELP!! Any advice is welcome. Thank you very much :)

2006-10-29 12:04:40 · 45 answers · asked by sickofhierarchy 2

I am 28 and my husband is 39. I realize that this is a private matter but since none of you know me personally it doesn't bother me to ask an open question like this here. We have been married for 8 years and I have noticed that the closer to 30 I get the more I want it, and the closer to 40 he gets, the less he wants it. The only time anything can happen between us is on weekends because we both work opposite scheduals during the week. (He works nights/I work days). It seems to be that by the time the weekend comes around I have to REALLY coax him to get in the mood, then I have to do most of the work. Maybe I need to make him take vitamins or something. I don't know. lol

2006-10-29 11:58:37 · 24 answers · asked by americandream1 2

your husband/spouse only last 3 minutes in bed?? What can I do to make it last longer?He's only 24 and he say's that the reason it "happens" so quickly is because "it's just so damn good"...am I supposed to feel flatterd? I think it's selfish and a total turn off..but what can I do?? I've told him about it and it still didnt help.What next?

2006-10-29 11:55:58 · 49 answers · asked by FLORIDA 4

I have split up with my husband, and I am filing for divorce because of his verbal and occasional physical aggression towards me.

I want to know how the custody of our five year old daughter is likely to work. We both agree that I should be the primary carer, but I would like to know your experiences of how often is reasonable for my daugher to see her Dad and what worked best for you?
What is the difference between custody, residence and visitation and what is normal in cases like this?

2006-10-29 11:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We get along great but i am not happy living with her anymore. We have so many outlooks in life and I am going in a completely different direction in life than she is

2006-10-29 11:47:41 · 15 answers · asked by rcspaint@sbcglobal.net 1

My boyfriend and i have been dating almost two years and have been talking about getting married for a while. He's a sophmore in college and i'm graduating high school. I really love him and i know he'll stick by me. We wanted to get married after we were completly done with school but now we're going to be moving in together, out of state. Is marriage before college a good idea?

2006-10-29 11:46:48 · 21 answers · asked by Tara 2

2006-10-29 11:41:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

plus i m in love and me and the one i love have to wait because he is still studying to wait for a year only to get engaged also i can not think of something useful to do

2006-10-29 11:36:01 · 6 answers · asked by heba2035 1

I had a friend of mine (who the ladies tell me is hot as hell) to hit on my girlfriend to see if she would cheat on me. She didnt cheat on me. was this wrong of me to do. i have been cheated on many times and im tired of it so i think it was justified. how bout you.

2006-10-29 11:34:09 · 16 answers · asked by 571234 6 1

to find out if they truely love you or will cheat on you? I had an ex do this to me one time by having a nice looking woman try to seduce me. Did I pass? Sure did, have never cheated on anyone nor even thought about it, but after she told me what she did I broke up with her for doing it. I hate playing games or being tested, don't you?

2006-10-29 11:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

let me correct my question..i am married to this man and he neevr mention the ***** of an ex he got...and he lies..darn i wanna nail this loser so bad for hurting and lying to me grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

2006-10-29 11:28:46 · 20 answers · asked by sweet&sassy 1

he never talks to me and everytime i try he ignores me or makes me feel stupid wht should i do?

2006-10-29 11:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you stop caring and loving a person that you been with for20 years of your life mary for 11 years and you had to leave him because of mental abuse. how do you turn the love and caring complete off. I left but my feeling was still there . I need to stop loving him in my heart because it is tearing at me daily. I think of him constancly and it hurt . He hasn't told me he stop[ loving me but his action tell it all. he doesn't ( ifeel) want to be bother with me it been 5 month since we seperated and I tried to talk to him but he hangs the phone totally no communcation at all. I want closure be I need for him to tell me in words I tried of action speak louder than words saying I need to hear it. It that wrong? I don't want a divorce but i will get it just for not being with a person you are not with., I am going to counseling but it doesn;t help. I feel there is no way out but to get me out of pain with is death., please give my me some sound adivce. I do need it.

2006-10-29 11:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1

My husband and I were watching a show on msnbc investigates, where husbands or wifes hire hit men to kill their partner, Kindas got me a little scared, I hope my husband never hires a hit man or something. How well do we really know what our significant others are capable of

2006-10-29 11:21:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-10-29 11:16:41 · 6 answers · asked by van 2

marriage is so pointless. i mean seriously who needs it.

2006-10-29 11:16:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married to a canadian man, i live in the caribbean and he lives in canada, he went back and living with his ex gf whom is living on welfare of canada and also he is commiting adultry on me,,,wat do u ppl think i can do? can i jail him and sue ?

2006-10-29 11:11:27 · 16 answers · asked by sweet&sassy 1

2006-10-29 11:10:22 · 14 answers · asked by Kemma 3

2006-10-29 11:08:43 · 13 answers · asked by henrys709pad@verizon.net 1