they are getting a divorce and he keeps calling me and telling me whats going on and my daughters a s*** an w*** I know how he feels how do i keep him from calling 15/20 times a day
2006-10-29 12:21:49 · 22 answers · asked by furby_lost 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you dont know how strange this thing is really
2006-10-29 12:24:26 · update #1
trust me i do tell him how i feel and ask him to quit he hangs up and calls back later and starts all over again. Im not a mom to hide I fight for mine.
2006-10-29 12:28:11 · update #2
Remind them that they are grown and their marriage is still their business. Tell them you appreciate both of them respecting you as a mother and wanting your intervention, but this marriage is theirs and all that comes with it, including the messy divorce. GO MOM!
2006-10-29 12:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanity planning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can block his number. call your phone company and they should be able to help you. if they don't offer the service you could try a restraining order, but the first approach I would try is being direct politely ask him to leave you out of it. Express your feelings good or bad toward him and then tell him the extra stress is not good for you. Then remind him that this messy situation should be kept between him and her only. also suggest some counseling for him and sounds like your daughter could use some also...
2006-10-29 20:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Keary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to leave you alone and that your daughter is involved in all this and she has your full support no matter what she has done. What kind of mother are you that you will not take up for your daughter? I mean he needs to know that you are going to back her up and not him. Tell him to quit calling you. You are her mother not his and anything he has to say is of no interest to you. Good luck and god bless.
2006-10-29 21:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him to stop calling you, you are NOT getting in the middle, and then stop taking the calls, you must have caller ID so you know not answer. If he leaves messages just delete them don't listen to them.
2006-10-29 20:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not entertain the waist of space your daughter is the 1 you need to stand up for even if she is in the wrong blood is thicker than water who cares what the ex husband thinks he dont count he is just your daughters ex and nothing more tell him you dont care what he thinks of her and stand by her!!!
2006-10-29 20:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't want to discuss your daughter with him and would appreciate it if he would stop calling. If he continues to call, get caller ID and don't answer the phone.
2006-10-29 20:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off what kind of mother lets anyone talk about there daughter like that even if its true?
2006-10-29 20:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you must be a real bit-h for calling your daughter those names. and why the hell are you talking to her soon to be ex . Do you two have something going on the side? if not don't answer the phone.it's that simple
2006-10-29 20:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you understand how he feels as well as your daughter also, but you love them both and that you want no part of it. get both of them on the phone and tell them this. and explain to him that if he keeps harassing you, he will no longer be apart of your life. if he doesn't get the message. file a report on him.
2006-10-29 20:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he says anything awful about your daughter, ask him not to talk about her that way. She is your daughter. He's just the bum that married her. You are on her side, not his.
2006-10-29 20:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋