he never talks to me and everytime i try he ignores me or makes me feel stupid wht should i do?
2006-10-29 11:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I lived through the very same thing. I finally, after 10 years, emotionally detached myself and lived my own life. I took care of him when he became ill and when he died, we'd been together 24 years. I'm alone now but not lonely the way I was when I had a husband who ignored me.
2006-10-29 11:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now, this is one of those questions that you should be asking him and not us.
If it were me, I wouldn't give a hoot. I would be out the door doing what I want to do when I want to do it.
Don't talk to him for a while and ignore him. See what he does about that. I don't have enough info about your situation in order to give a better answer.
How long have you been married? Children? How young or old? etc.
2006-10-29 11:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him mine was the same way for 13 years and we are now divorced and I have met a wonder full man who gives me so much love and attention I had no idea what I was missing a marriage can not be one sided now I know what love really means and feels like. Think about it. We tried counseling and talking just we were not meant to be have you done that? He was also cheating with his coworker.
2006-10-29 11:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by yellowrose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allow him to see you showing interest in something or someone else (without cheating, of course)...just to wake him up. Unless the situation runs much deeper and you feel as if you are better off without him. Life is too short to be miserable. If you want your marriage then find a way to wake him up. If you don't want your marriage then leave him...then he will be forced to wake up.
2006-10-29 11:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone who will treat you better! Ignore him for a while and go find someone who can make your heart sing. Shag them for a while and then forget all about your hubby. File for a divorce and take him for all he's worth. He sounds like a real a**hole anyway, so why waste anymore of your life putting up with him?!?
2006-10-29 11:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go hang out with some friends and ignore him.
2006-10-29 11:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends who will appreciate you and your intelligence
and try not to let your husband hurt your feelings. some men just stop careing about people in general.
2006-10-29 11:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling ,,, if that doesn't work something is wrong,, he might be having an affair,, if this is new behavior to him,,,
i would ask him straight out,, what the hell is your problem,,,
you don;t say how long this has been going on,,
but that is no way for hubby to be treating a person,,,
2006-10-29 11:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start writing notes to him. things that tell him you love him and we really need to talk.tape them to mirrors, coffee pots, in the car. just reaffirm the love that you have for him, remind him of the things that brought you two together. try it. if it doesn't work leave.
2006-10-29 11:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be in a marriage like that? He's a pig if you can't talk to him, pack your bags n go.
2006-10-29 11:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by Abs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋