Marriage & Divorce - 2 November 2006

He lays on the couch from the minute he walks in the door watching T.V. and dozing off. He gets up to go to the bathroom and when He eats dinner. He falls asleep on the couch and hardly ever sleeps with me. If me or the kids talk to him he is so into the T.V. he don't even hear us.When I wake up to go to work he is still on the couch watching T.V. I know that it is a man thing but damn man is he lazy, addicted, being inconsiderate for not talking to us, and not considering that we do need him to associate with us? When I tell him about it says that I am jealous of the T.V. and puts it all off on me. He does work at a hard job in construction.

2006-11-02 23:57:49 · 37 answers · asked by jjkk 3

Yesterday, I asked a question about being ready. With the addvise of others, we've made our minds and hearts up!! We are gonna get married!! I'm so excited. The thing is after he offically asks me, What is the next step? We dont have alot of money, but we want it to be something to remember. Not a wedding day where we get dressed up and go to the chaple on main! (no offence to anybody) We want a church wedding!! That is kinda small, but really nice!!! What is the next step, once he offically asks me to marry him? Help Please!!

2006-11-02 23:56:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Save your jugemental comments if you would... lest you be judged some day yourself

2006-11-02 23:53:50 · 20 answers · asked by who me? 3

I have just found out that my ex wife forged my signature and took a loan out in my name, this occured while we were still living together, we have been separated over 4 years now, the loan was never repaid, the company dealing with this have said that if confirm that it is not my signature on the agreement they will persue here for fraud, myself and my ex dont owe each other any favours but my 2 children live with her and her new partner, i am not in a financial position where as i can just settle this myself, i'm just stuck to know what way to approach this as i'm not in a position where i can discuss this with her

2006-11-02 23:51:58 · 28 answers · asked by JAMIE H 2

Hi,
My husband and I just bought a 3 bedroom house. My husband has 2 kids from previous marriage (boy 9 and girl 4). Originally we thought we'll have the master bedroom and each kid will get a room. But my husband thinks that maybe because the kids usually come in every other weekend, we can put them both in one room and then use the extra bedroom as an office, and also in the future, as a bedroom for the new baby that we are planning to have.
I am not too sure about this because I thought that the kids will feel more at home when they are with us if both have a room. So my husband is asking me: What are you planning to do with the new baby.
Any thoughts what the right behavior is in this case?

Thank you!

2006-11-02 23:48:35 · 11 answers · asked by Ladybug NH 2

I've been here for 8 months now and she told me she cheated on me just once so I told her we can make it through this so I gave her a second chance but I think she is still talking to him how can I tell if she still is I go home in a month how can I tell if she is when I go home I've search for answers every where this is my last chance to get some I hope you can help me thank you

2006-11-02 23:42:32 · 5 answers · asked by rwfrnk 1

My nun wife is weird and getting weirder. When I get too close she reaches for any sharp object, usually a letter opener, scissors, or a knife, and jabs at me to keep me away. I tell her she has problems and needs to get professional help, and that what she is doing is not normal, but she says that she is normal and I am the one who has the problem. Is she more normal than I am, or am I losing my mind? Is this normal behavior for a married woman?

2006-11-02 23:30:24 · 11 answers · asked by Kokopelli 7

what signs should i look for.he keeps saying he hope am the one he has been waitng for.he says he hoe am his easter like the easter of the bible

2006-11-02 23:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My nun wife has developed a new weirdness. Now she has taken to turning the heat off in the house. It probably has to do with her strange notion that air that is blown through ducts is "artificial" and bad for you. Now that it is getting closer to winter and the temperatures are getting colder I am afraid our pipes are going to freeze. What can I do to stop this before the pipes burst?

2006-11-02 23:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by Kokopelli 7

you intend to cuddle with a guy and a girl friend and he rubs your stomach and attempts to touch you but you stop him and then he leaves, nothing distinctive went on.

2006-11-02 23:20:37 · 17 answers · asked by malgirl 1

is it possible... share your experence or options....

2006-11-02 23:05:18 · 36 answers · asked by Soman R 1

How can we really say that we have make someone really happy. Does love makes it complete? Or maybe money?

2006-11-02 22:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by Joey 1

ok, where do I start?! I have been seperated from my ex-hubby for 2 years, I am not in a relationship yet but have been on a date. My work requires me to go away for wk/ends sometimes and my ex refuses to have our 2 kids when i do. He wants to control my life and constantly accuses me of telling lies about what i do! I know it's nothing to do with him, but if i upset him he "hints" at suicide. I don't want to push him over the edge by denying him access to the kids, but he really is causing huge problems in my life! he says he can't deal with me moving on with my life and when he heard about my date he said he could no longer see me or the kids as it hurts too much. I really don't know what to do anymore, i have tried reasoning with him, talking to his parents, etc, nothing seems to work! I'm not sure if i should be taking his suicide references seriously, as he has made them for so long, i have taken it seriously in the past, but there seems to be nothing i can do about it! any help?!

2006-11-02 22:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were together during our teen years but the timing isn't right for neither of us because both of us were involved with other people. It's causing me so much sadness. I want to talk to him more and I miss him so much that it hurts. Help. I know that there is no future for us because I'm determined to keep my marriage and yet it's also tearing me up inside. He doesn't know that I feel this way. I would rather appear to be cool about it. I just wish that he is always alright and happy with the life that he has. I never thought I could ever feel this way towards someone. I tried to forget about him before and I'm going to do it again. I hope this time I could.

2006-11-02 22:33:37 · 18 answers · asked by janice 2

Due to the number of marriages that end in divorce, and the bitter legal battles that follow. Women marrying wealthy(usually very old) men, simply to get their hands on his fortune, and celebrities marrying each other simply for publicity, and then divorcing two minutes later.

2006-11-02 22:29:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

if love is so great why then should we suffer so much for it.i am a victim of the pains of love and now iam let wondering why do we love.should we even both getting married or are we afraid to grow old alone

2006-11-02 22:18:36 · 13 answers · asked by ladykash 1

2006-11-02 21:56:19 · 17 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

I found out about 8 months ago that my husband cheated on me. He was working out of town and met a girl where he was at. I had been 100% faithfull to him. I found out April 17, I asked him not to lie to me and to tell me the whold truth, I can try to forgive if I know what happened. Anyways, he lied to my until July 26 about sleeping with this girl, even though he knew that I knew. Even then I still stayed with him, but again I asked him to please tell me the truth. He told me more things but I still thought he was lying about things. about a month ago he finially admitted some more things to me. It was just to much to take. He told me how he was talking to this girl about ther break up with her boyfriend, then they started hanging out, then they had sex.. The whole time I am sitting at home with his two kids trying to call him, and he was out with her. The thing is after this last time of finding out things, I told him that I wanted to seperate. We are still living together.

2006-11-02 21:48:25 · 34 answers · asked by knlsmommy 2

I am a married woman with children and in love with my sister's husband. He feels the same. how is it all going to end?

2006-11-02 21:45:38 · 19 answers · asked by Dippy 1

when i called i was only told there was a 61.00 marriage licence fee never was told the judge would charge. this is in the state of Georgia

2006-11-02 21:44:09 · 8 answers · asked by tina_brandenburg 1

I suppose this is more or less directed to those who are/been married or is/getting engaged, however everyones opinion is welcomed.

I'm curious to know if you knew that they were 'the one', or did it not come to you until later? How did you know they were the one - was it feeling, instinct, or...? Did you ever feel as though you weren't in love with them at one point or another? Or maybe that they weren't the one?


The overall reason in writing such a topic is basically I thought he was what I wanted, and I would've given everything to make it all work. Now I'm sat questioning if that's what I really want, and if I even love the guy like I had thought I did -- yet I still want him (maybe I'm emotionally addicted or something?), but I don't know if thats my own guilt in the fact he never did anything for me to suddenly change my feelings. Has anyone ever experience such a feeling?

2006-11-02 21:42:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 21:42:38 · 19 answers · asked by charu t 1

2006-11-02 21:34:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 21:32:00 · 10 answers · asked by jh452004 2

we dont know what to do and it's getting worse and worse.....we cant stop......we are both very good looking, young people too, thats the weird part....what should i do....we are crying alot because we are so scared.....

2006-11-02 21:12:50 · 20 answers · asked by bingo84 1

2006-11-02 21:09:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am with my partner for 8 years we have a daughter together i get along with his 3 children iam younger than his daughter

2006-11-02 21:07:56 · 17 answers · asked by bella 28 2

2006-11-02 20:58:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man, doubts me, why becoz i emailed one of my old male friends living 1000 miles away that he dint aprove, why becoz i posted a question on yahoo very similar to wat he did, giving a our profile n asking for a chat friend. He calls me s lut n cheater. I stood by him defying the world, against the wishes of my near n dear one's and lost many relations in that process. I love him and only knew him as my world. He loved me too but humiliated me every now n then out of his suspicion. We called it of yesterday on his insistance as he says he doesn't aprove what i say & do. The problem here is I cant think of a world w/o him, I love him like crazy, I am on sedatives just to forget the break up but thats not the solution, I knw. How do I live? Can any one suggest? reconciliation is not possible, I think it wont work out, i have my limits to take humiliation & he has his to hide his suspicion, its thu for good now. Pls help ......

2006-11-02 20:56:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i donot know from what mistake he is not talking with me

2006-11-02 20:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous