Marriage & Divorce - 2 November 2006

So here it is we have been married almost 13 years he could not keep his hands of me when we were dating now he never wants to make love. what should I do?

2006-11-02 11:54:14 · 21 answers · asked by christine z 1

2006-11-02 11:53:58 · 28 answers · asked by jakel07 1

2006-11-02 11:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by lucy p 2

Would you allow your Husband or boyfriend to Gag you? Tie a bandanna into your mouth to keep you quiet? I have ,it was such a turn on to bite down into my Gag! Has anyone else done this?

2006-11-02 11:47:35 · 14 answers · asked by Sami 1

Are we the "do it all" generation? I am 34 and knackered. My kids are great, we have just moved to a fabulous house, and my husband is a fine and good man. Call me mad, but this is not what I imagined life to be

2006-11-02 11:42:16 · 19 answers · asked by himalayas2198 1

Can love be sustain for in marriage?. Do we practice socializtion or model in love or love is for ever?

2006-11-02 11:38:36 · 22 answers · asked by omaofe 1

2006-11-02 11:32:03 · 9 answers · asked by kel 1

2006-11-02 11:24:04 · 34 answers · asked by linda E 1

My husband is in jail on violation of probation which he never did, and I cant come up with the money. I have to come up with atleast $700....and so far nothing. Can't get a title loan on my car b/c the mileage is too high, and his family wont get him out. Any ideas is appreciated......

2006-11-02 11:19:44 · 22 answers · asked by rollings83 2

Got married for all the wrong reasons. We really are better friends than anything. What should I do?

2006-11-02 11:16:35 · 20 answers · asked by Susie V 1

ok, my ex just got married, We have a 4 year old daughter together which he has nothing to do with and tells no one about, and not he did not tell her, even though she was a planned pregnancy, his new wife has my space, so I just created a page and sent it to her, mean or not mean enough::

2006-11-02 11:06:53 · 32 answers · asked by stephaniencurtis 2

Really, because I am really into this girl and isnt it enough to say that i love you and that i want to spent the rest of my life with you? What do you get out of it?
People can get Health insurance from being a partner and not married, people can have shared benifits w/o being married, are we getting married for love or discounts? Why have the debt from an account for the wedding ceremony and reception. If its for the party and the dress, buy a nice dress and throw a party for fun, rent a building, it would cost less too right, i mean if we care about the discounts. so again why?

2006-11-02 11:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by emilio9382 2

My husband and I have been married for over 2 years, and we have one child together. I have a very low sex-drive and he has a very high sex-drive. Up to this point, I have accomodated him as best I could... but now I'm in law school and I'm just too busy with the baby to worry about taking care of him all the time. We love each other very much, but he's getting frustrated. Should I let him have a mistress, i.e. someone he uses just for sex? This is possible if he can get into a swingers club (women there are very clear about having sex with no emotion attached).

2006-11-02 11:03:49 · 42 answers · asked by Karen H 3

2006-11-02 11:02:55 · 7 answers · asked by kiki 1

I am astay at home mom with a 3yr old and one on the way.While I'm at home,Iteach our child,cook,clean,and take care of ANY business that there is.All my hubby does is go to work and come home( literally).He doesn't even bathe when he gets here!He works 4 days a week stocking shelves with soda.He is paid a reasonable amount for this work and is allowed to work overtime whenever he pleases.We would like to get into a housebut need to save money to do so.If he would work an extra 1-2days,we wouldbe able to save 4-800.00 extradollars each month with just those days alone...and still have extra money!He refuses to work even one extra day a week(bringing him up to 5 days of work like the average joe).Tells me today I need to put our kid in daycare and get a job...daycare will take a good 30-40%from my monthly income and I wont have time for our kid(I'm also 6weeks pregnant and a high risk pregnancy).Also says if I want to get into a house,I will need to get a job and save the money to!

2006-11-02 11:01:21 · 5 answers · asked by Direktor 5

he has no _______

2006-11-02 10:54:41 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

are ukranian women good devoted wifes to their husbands?

2006-11-02 10:54:13 · 3 answers · asked by jim w 1

2006-11-02 10:45:26 · 13 answers · asked by aneesah m 1

This is the reason why i want her to not fall for me or even hate me. To keep the story short, i am 23 lesbian. The women i fall for is 15 yrs older then me. Her husband is my best friend. I always have some sort of feelings for her, but she is married and i didn't think it would be possilbe she would love me back. Well, i guess nothing is impossible now, she ask me one night if i like her, i didn't response at that time, but she said because of the way i treat her, she is starting to fall for me, i was shock. We did have a chance to sleep together, but i stopped her, especially when she had a bit to drink. After 3 month i decided to leave and came to England. I really lover her, therefore, i don't want to destroy their marriage, she told me once if something happen between them is not my fault but i feel like it would be. We still keep in touch and talk on the phone everyday, we both care about each other, i never cross the line though. one is someone you love, one is your best friend

2006-11-02 10:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me a year ago and we are supposed to be working on it. but i'm not sure if i want to keep trying. i forgave him for it but i don't feel the same about him, like i did when we first got together and married. i know it takes time.but we are almost in another year and i feel like something should have change about how i feel.

2006-11-02 10:35:55 · 13 answers · asked by not sure what to do 1

I am an America Women. My husband is English. He gives constructive criticism. Some of my friends think he’s an ***. They say “I don’t know how you could be married to him.” I think he’s nice and honest. Does anyone else have this problem?

2006-11-02 10:35:30 · 8 answers · asked by Nastassia 2

I'm the new girlfriend, my boyfriend has a child and is paying child support. My boyfriend and i are thinking of getting married and startinng a family. But I'm concerned because he is paying a lot for childsupport right now. Will it go down once we start having children? I just don't see us making it financially. We live in CA so you can imagine how much his child support is.

2006-11-02 10:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really miss hanging out with him but I don't want to leave the baby with a sitter just yet. How do I make my husband feel loved and special?

2006-11-02 10:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by huntersterlingsmommy 1

I know this women love me very much, if i don't contact her she would be really upset, i don't want to hurt her feelings. I want the best for her, thats why i have to make her not fall for me somehow. So ladies out there, what does a guy do that turns you off, or even hate them? To a point where you don't want them to contact you anymore. Or guys anything like that happen to you too?

2006-11-02 10:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 10:14:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does his child support go down? I just don't see how he would be able to survive and take care of a new family? Any thoughts or comments would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-02 10:14:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 10:12:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of ours recently told us that she had been spiking her husbands drinks w/ Zoloft. It was her perscrip . she and her husband have had some problems but nothing drastic.( married 18 yrs, she is little overweight , low self esteem.. he is a good looking guy, has been told more lately that he is and been chatting w/ ladies on line, which she has done also w/ men and introduced him to web chat) In her opinion she thought he needed to be on it because of his behavior. we think her perscrip is warrented but he seems fine only a little whacked because of her.
we told him about it after she told us and he said he already knew when he found pieces in his coffee.
what is your opinion..crazy ? deperate ? unlawful?

2006-11-02 09:59:27 · 19 answers · asked by m t 2

2006-11-02 09:58:57 · 11 answers · asked by Asia 4

I am married and have been for the last 4 years. While I do love my husband very much, and am a christian woman who believes in the bond of marriage, I can't help but feel that my marriage is not a good situation for me. We both are very strong minded individuals which we OFTEN CLASH. In the beginning it was physical, names had been called (by him towards me). I'm more laid back , whereas he's more attacking and doesn't like to be challenged. Recently, I gave myself over to GOD to try better myself as a person. The day before I was baptised we got into a VERY heated argument that compelled me to leave our situation. I stayed out of convience of our housing arrangment and the children (step) involvled and with the understanding that we would communicate better. Well... It's been a 3-weeks and while I haven't seen the same patterns as yet, I can't help but feel like I don't want to do this anymore for fear that things will go right back to square one. Please give me your insight

2006-11-02 09:56:04 · 22 answers · asked by Cherry 2