I know this women love me very much, if i don't contact her she would be really upset, i don't want to hurt her feelings. I want the best for her, thats why i have to make her not fall for me somehow. So ladies out there, what does a guy do that turns you off, or even hate them? To a point where you don't want them to contact you anymore. Or guys anything like that happen to you too?
2006-11-02 10:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be smelly..pick your nose and eat it..be rude to her..swear..pick your bum....just be revolting ..she will run as fast as she can.
2006-11-02 10:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and don't play games with her. It will just make things worst in the long run. Plus playing games and acting in a way that isn't you could backfire on you down the road.
Just let her know how you feel. That you don't feel the same way about her and that you wish her the best but that you need to move on and that she needs to do the best thing for her and find someone that is into her as much as she is into him.
2006-11-02 10:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by James C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all just tell her out straight that you dont love her but she is a very nice person, dragging it out isnt fair.
Things that put me off men, hmm! how long do u have...
sayinlg they will do things and then not doing them
lying
bragging about themselves
smelling bad
playing up to your friends
pretending they r more genuine than they really are just for an image.
being lazy
eating too much
drinking every night till they fall asleep
expecting you to get in the mood when they have been a total pig b4.
being too loud.
thinking they know it all
spending longer than a woman in the bathroom getting ready
buying too many skin creams
not sticking up for their woman
lol i could go on but you have a good start :)
2006-11-02 10:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sam k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean you want to make he fall OUT of love with you, right? Let me guess.. you slept with her, right?? (It kinda shows..sorry, bub..ya left that one 'eensy teensy bitty fact' out..)You want to bed her, then dump her, right? not a nice soundin' guy here! (Man, she ought to be writing us about YOU!.. lmao.) (Big of you to 'want the best for her..' man.. UR a real hypocrite..) (Give me her E addy.. I'll tell her what you are up to, okay? ) alright then! But, seriously.. (let me think.. I'm not coming up with much serious constructive advice to break a 'conquest' of yours' heart for ya, tho..) You can't hurt her any worse than you have already.. She'll mend.. (but shame on you for being so hurtful to her, to anybody! It will cost you, being so cruel & callous...hell we all know about ya now, right? right!) you can't just 'not contact her' anymore. (She'll find you? If I were she, I wouldn't .. but I wouldn't have screwed around w/you in the first place .. er, I am hoping! lol) You need to be a man. Sit down. Tell her "we had a fling. I did not get attached. I am cruel. You must MUST move on.. away from me.. I can not think of anything else positive to say to you." (oh come on now.. and tell her you are 'sorry.' )There.. That's not so/too bad now, is it? (Maybe there is some hope for you ..if you are remorseful here a bit.. I mean you broke a woman's heart! It's not good..) sad.
2006-11-02 10:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends. I have only been in love once and am still in love with him even though he's with someone else now. Can't get rid of it. It started out as a friendship and grew. Definately wasn't love at first sight. But now it's love at every sight, every sound, every breath, every touch. But he's with someone else. It sucks. That's true love.
2016-03-19 02:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make everyone happy all at the same time. Just by not contacting her is probably the best way to help her move on. You don't want to feed the fire by continuing communication, cause then you're leading her on, communication shows interest.
2006-11-02 10:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you NEED to do is go on many dates with her
and most of the time get drunk..or at least act like you are..fall off the chair, pulling the table clothe right off the table with the food and all hitting the floor..get up and yell for the waiter to bring you another drink and hurry up about it too..and when some one comes over yell at them telling them to replace the drinks and food.because the table clothe fell off the table...then ask her to borrow some money to pay for the dinner...
and ask her to drive you home..because you do not think you can drive..get to your house..get out..lock the car up and walk off ..go into your house...when she rings the door bell..say something like..hey what are you doing her..you can not stay here my girlfriend is dew home any minute...then close the door..and do not answer it..
the next day call her up and act like nothing at all happened last night..and you do not remember it at all..and ten ask her to go out tonight again...
and if she says your an alcoholic and you need help..tell her to mind her business and your doing OK in life...
and well I have a lot more..
smile
good luck
2006-11-02 10:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you have reached a crossroads in your life just now and will have to go away to think about what you want from life. ask her not to contact you while you are going through this emotional dilemma but you will contact her when you have sorted out your feelings. Don't contact her again then when she next sees you out with another girl she will realise that the path you have chosen is not to be with her.
2006-11-02 10:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by wildflower23000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are hurting her by not telling her the truth. You should let her know the way you feel. Just because you might be afraid and nervous about telling her that you are not interested, does not mean that she doesnt deserve to hear the truth. She might be upset, but that is better than being decieved.
2006-11-02 10:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Act like you are God's gift to women- just like the question you posed above.
2006-11-02 10:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stare at other women and and lie a lot talk about your ex all the time. that would put me off. why do you not like her? what ever you do you will hurt her in some way so why not tell her you do not like her in that way be honest
2006-11-02 10:32:27 · answer #11 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋