Marriage & Divorce - 2 November 2006

2006-11-02 17:01:34 · 14 answers · asked by sh-t 1

and after 6 years being away from him he now wants to come and join us in america. there's a twist to this because he had an affair with my best friend during that period of time and i was married too. but now divorced. he's still in the middle east right now so i am not really sure if they are still seeing each other or not. should i give it a chance?

2006-11-02 16:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by myzztickah 1

A couple just got married and on the night of their honeymoon before passionate love, the wife tells the husband, "Please be gentile, I'm still a virgin." The husband being shocked, replied, "How's this possible? You've been married three times before." The wife responds, "Well, my first husband was a gynecologist and all he wanted to do was look at it. My second husband was a psychiatrist and all he wanted to do was talk about it. Finally, my third husband was a stamp collector and all he wanted to do was...oh, do I miss him!"

2006-11-02 16:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by jazi 5

my husband and i have been 2geather for 5 years married one. Latly he has been changing. first of all he turns his phone off when he is at work doing nothing. we have not had sex in for ever, he never can have a normal covwerstation w me it is always yelling, i have caught him lying to me about the stuipid little things. i have gave him all the space he ask for i am always there for him but he never wants to talk to me he never tells me whats gone one he just makes plans and dose not include me.The other nite he acted like he was going to bed w me and we went to bed really earily the next moring he was so tried so i asked him y he was so tried he said he just was well when i got home i got on the computer and a bunch of porn site pop ups appered so i cheaked the history he was up all nite looking at porn and on adult friend finder whiich is a site where u find people to have sex w what could be going on help

2006-11-02 16:49:35 · 13 answers · asked by A soldiers wife 4

I want to get married and I am dating someone who is great friend. I'm attracted to her but I'm not sure the chemistry is there. I feel like I should date other people but I don't want to lose her friendship. Is it ok to date someone else while I date her to make sure she is the one?

2006-11-02 16:49:07 · 11 answers · asked by X 3

I am in a very serious relationship that will almost definitely result in marriage. My boyfriend occasionally watches porn (not more than a few times a week). It makes me uncomfortable, but I understand that it is a "guy thing" and all that, especially since we are long distance. However, I asked him to promise me to give it up completely once we are together and married. He got angry and would not agree even when I explained at length why I don't like porn (there are several reasons). Only when I basically made him choose between me and pornography did he agree to cut it out of his life once I am wearing his ring. Is this an absolutely ridiculous thing for a woman to ask?

2006-11-02 16:48:37 · 25 answers · asked by Pepper 3

get wife to go along . Im afraid she will go ballistic!

2006-11-02 16:47:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having a problem with my Ex. We have been togethr off and on for about 8 yrs. We have had our share of problems, and unfortunately 2 years ago, I was charged with Child endangerment because I had a few beers and a Semi-Truck pulled ou in front of me. CS and the GAL convinced the Judge that I was "unfit". I really am not. My Ex cusses and yells and is really perverted, even around the kids. I want my baby back! What should I do? I did all of the counseling and everything that CS has required of me...now what. They still offered me a plee where they were supposed to drop charges if I would give them custody. Now I think it is the worst thing I could have done!

2006-11-02 16:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have decided to forgivr one another for hurtful things but I can tell he still holds a grudge and is often distant and cold. I have asked him several times about this and he has not changed. Today I found out that the baby is a girl and he and I are estatic...How can I keep him happy about us and our family and ensure that this is going to work between us?

2006-11-02 16:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Beautifulme 2

My fiance was separated from his wife for about 2 months before we got together. He had (not legally) custody of their 4 year old son when we got together. His wife all of a sudden wanted A.J. and went to court to get an order of protection saying my fiance hit her (wasnt true) and she got TEMPORARY custoday and a restraining order against him. That was in April 05 and has since expired. She took off with A.J. in Sept 05 and we only have a vague idea that she is in AZ. We havent seen or heard from her since. We cant afford a lawyer or a PI to find her. Is this considered parental kidnapping? The order was only for 1 year and he had visitation every other weekend. He filed two police reports in the state it happened but they said he didnt need anymore since there was a warrant out for her arrest for the prev. 2. What can be done to get a.j back? Can he find her and just take him since there is no legal custody ? He cant file a divorce yet bcause he dosnt hav ne idea where she is. Help!

2006-11-02 16:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work to much in the last 2and a half weeks i have put in 121 hours in I take care of my mother and my kids plus I am a land lord. plus help out with the kids school

2006-11-02 16:35:46 · 12 answers · asked by sh-t 1

2006-11-02 16:25:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is addicted to IM's with people. All involve sexual notes. I even found out that while I was in the hospital once, he went to a mall and checked out some chick at her work. He says it isn't cheating because he never actually physically meets with people. I say it is cause he would rather get off with the computer than me. I am looking for other opinions to see if I'm just being too sensitive.

2006-11-02 16:24:25 · 21 answers · asked by monkeedee2 2

Well, my husband is dead gorious and I love it!!! We met this year my favorite month June and I met a fine good looking man and we are the perfect match he even said so. He said I'm the love of his life and I sure do believe it because he's honest, loving, and caring and so hot he blows my mind. And I have this perfect song called"I love you" by Sarah Mclachlan. And we danced to that song on our wedding day Sept.15th 2006. This year!!!! We're in love! We prayed for eachother to come together. Everytime I see my husband I have this passion, love, desire so strong It seems it won't ever let go. Does anyone have that feeling and love?Boy if everyone had this feeling they wouldn't know what to do with them selves. If you only experience it with someone then you know what
I'm talking about. Tell me am I ok. normal?

2006-11-02 16:23:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 16:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by Rexang 1

I am not married but I know some married women that go to clubs. So was just wanting to know does marriage make you give up that side of life?

2006-11-02 16:11:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 16:11:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he will go to work come home watch t.v. than eat and go to bed right away

2006-11-02 16:07:07 · 37 answers · asked by sh-t 1

would you be excited by a surprise lapdance/striptease from your wife/girlfriend, even if she was a novice? Would u still be turned on by her dancing and teasing even if you had been seeing her naked for a few years? Do you prefer subtlety or boldness? What other things would u find to be a turn on as your woman dances for you? What kind of music gets you hot? Thanks for your help guys! I'm a married mama who just likes to keep my man on his toes, thanks for any helpful advice!

2006-11-02 16:06:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 16:03:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

is now raising my sister's four boys with their father.
How in God's name am I supposed to forgive this woman?
I try, for my sister's sake. She made some sort of peace with it.
Why can't I?
My nephews seem to be okay. Except the oldest. He is 15. He knows what has transpired.
HELP!

2006-11-02 16:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by rvogelpohl2001 4

2006-11-02 15:55:10 · 22 answers · asked by Karen F 2

look after your kids let alone anyone else and my dad taught me patience and and they both taught me about love and hate in a relationship i love them both dearly and we weren't the perfect family i like the way i've turned out because of them and the rest of my family, you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family they'd say your stuck with them come what may?and they were so right about the last one. so what do u remember about what your parents taught you good or bad?

2006-11-02 15:51:07 · 13 answers · asked by pixie007 4

the situation is that the mom took the kids and is now preventing the father from seeing them without a court order. is this in essence hiding the kids away a form of parental kidnapping what can be done legally to aide this ?

2006-11-02 15:43:04 · 7 answers · asked by tiny 1

are coming over this weekend. Last time they were over things got a little outta control. We ended up playing strip darts and messing around. Only with our partners not swapping or nothing like that. I really liked it. My friend and his wife and I really liked it. I'm not so sure about my GF. We've talked about what happened and what will prolly happen this weekend, but all she really says is "don't worry 'bout it. What happens, happens" My question is... should I tell 'em not to come over (cuz I really don't think she's cool with it) or just take her at her word and let what "happens, happen"???

2006-11-02 15:39:22 · 30 answers · asked by mrbubbachowpuss 2

What ways are you coping, and if they involve an extra-marital relationship, what's your attitude about it? Feeling guilty, deserving, vengeful, all of the above or none of the above?

2006-11-02 15:34:58 · 11 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5

i have always allowed him to see the chidren.i feel like it is the right thing to do.he is not helping me in any way at all.even the child support agency in my town is no help at all because he has moved to a different state.he will not give me any information about where he works or his address.he comes back every other weekend to his parents house to see the children.i just do not know what to do.i can not afford a lawyer at the moment.

2006-11-02 15:34:43 · 23 answers · asked by susan b 1

How is date night any different for any other night? Hubby and I have been together for nearly 15 years and we have two children (3 and 6). Most nights we have very little to talk about and when we do have a day or night out alone (once a month or so), the conversation is gossip about friends, or stuff about the kids....nothing exciting or stimulating. So I don't get it? When two people know each other inside and out, what their opinion about everything is, how they'll respond to any question, how does this one-on-one time help stimulate things?

2006-11-02 15:33:02 · 21 answers · asked by chnchita 4

Ha, since the Yahoo! idiots deleted my question (or some jealous person got upset and reported an innocent question).

I just got married 2 weeks ago and my husband is acting so much nicer and he says things are different now that we're married. Guys, why is that? We've been together for years and now that we're married I seem to matter so much more to him and his family as well?

2006-11-02 15:32:45 · 13 answers · asked by bridetobebrandie 4

2006-11-02 15:32:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous