I am having a problem with my Ex. We have been togethr off and on for about 8 yrs. We have had our share of problems, and unfortunately 2 years ago, I was charged with Child endangerment because I had a few beers and a Semi-Truck pulled ou in front of me. CS and the GAL convinced the Judge that I was "unfit". I really am not. My Ex cusses and yells and is really perverted, even around the kids. I want my baby back! What should I do? I did all of the counseling and everything that CS has required of me...now what. They still offered me a plee where they were supposed to drop charges if I would give them custody. Now I think it is the worst thing I could have done!
2006-11-02 16:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kind of hard to feel sorry for anyone that would put their child in a car with them even after one beer, and no i am not some bible thumper i love to drink but not when my kids are around the need a mother not a drunk so maybe your child is better off seeing how you gave up custody to save your own butt
2006-11-02 16:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the fact you can say that stuff (really perverted) about your other half should tell you he shouldnt be there! Maybe set back and re think some things...Theres usually reasons for things like that...
OMG, i didnt even catch that about putting the kids in the CAR, no need to even go there im sure!
2006-11-02 16:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Stacie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect,
you drank and drove your child (children?) around?
That is life threatening my friend.
Cussing is no match for that.
If you can get some kind of proof that he is a threat to the child's (children's) health, mental well-being, or such matters, I wish you the best of luck.
However, you have to face the fact that you could have killed not only yourself but, your child (children).
Plea bargain or not, re-evaluate your priorities.
Your children are a gift. They shouldl always be treated as such.
2006-11-02 16:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you didn't do something you were suppose to.Driving after drinking with your child in the car makes you fit?If your ex is really that bad you neither one deserves this poor innocent baby.Grow up before you have children.
2006-11-02 16:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good - you did endanger your child (drinking and driving) that's why you don't have the child.
If she is so bad you should of proved this to the judge when you went to court for the child endangerment.
2006-11-02 17:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were the kids buckled in a child seat?
if so then there is no way for them tom prove you un fit.
i would re-open the case and then/ you have the [burden of proof]
you will have to prove yourself fit. you can do this thru [3] or more witnesses. but a word of caution. this could be [pretty messy and long in duration. but in the long run could prove to be veryuseful for you.
you should not have given them custody because that is admitting that you are un-fit.
you can try though to prove your case in a higher court.
2006-11-02 16:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by david_strickland31 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You made a mistake and you paid for it. Hopefully you learned your leason. Now, you are the father of that child. That child deserves to see his or her father. She cannot stop you. If she tries pulling lies, take her to court. You paid for your mistake and as long as you go the straight road, u deserve happiness .
Your ex sounds like she has anger issues.
2006-11-02 16:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by abbyrose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hire a great lawyer and fight for custody...your a changed woman and don't drink and drive.
2006-11-02 16:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋