would you be excited by a surprise lapdance/striptease from your wife/girlfriend, even if she was a novice? Would u still be turned on by her dancing and teasing even if you had been seeing her naked for a few years? Do you prefer subtlety or boldness? What other things would u find to be a turn on as your woman dances for you? What kind of music gets you hot? Thanks for your help guys! I'm a married mama who just likes to keep my man on his toes, thanks for any helpful advice!
2006-11-02 16:06:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love you! You are trying new things and that make life fun.
Here is a turn on I like, get the room candle like and slowly take off your clothes. I don't mean slow motion but slower then usually take off your clothes in the glow from the candles. Slow music IE James Taylor, Nora Jones, jewel, nice slow stuff and then as you slide into bed wrap your legs around my leg and slowly rub yourself on me while gently kissing me.
One that tossed me over the edge was one night my wife came to bed shaved! It was a good one nighter and she grew it back but boy what a turn on that night was!
best of luck and if this guy does not appreciate what you are doing kick him in the groin some night...just because!
Best of luck!
2006-11-02 16:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here is idea to add this to your striptease.Give him a real personal show. Sit him down and tell him all he can do till YOU tell him otherwise is watch. Start pleasuring yourself...how far you go and for how long is up to you....and he can not move till you say so. If you can time it right just before you are about to orgasm tell him to come over beside you and give him a BJ as you orgasm....he will never forget it trust me. what ever you decide to do...just make sure its something that you will enjoy too....its a BIG turn on for a guy to know that his partner is really into what is happening....not that they are just doing it for them.
Have fun *S*
2006-11-03 00:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Novice or not this would be a great turn on and hopefully not a one time deal. I like all kinds of music so whatever makes her feel sexy and seductive would work for me. Tell your hubby that I think he is one lucky guy and I wish you both much happiness in the future
2006-11-03 00:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be totally excited and surprised. Good on you for wanting to keep your husband on his toes. Santana's a good choice for sexy music, but a lot of hard rock is good too. For example, think of playing "Back in Black" by ACDC with you strutting in black bra, panties, stockings and high heels. That would rock his world, I bet.
I want boldness from my wife rather than subtlelty (not really getting it, though). Have fun!
2006-11-03 02:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by tex37curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any women that will give there man a lap dance rocks. But use music he likes. Add your own moves to fit the vibe but most important have fun and so will he!!
2006-11-03 00:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carma Electra has a range out of DVDs called fit to dance and you can get pole dancing classes in lots of areas also belly dancing videos have fun spice it up all men love that...even if he thinks it's cute or funny or sexy he'll love that you try.
2006-11-03 00:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by lol_des 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That would rock, and even if she didn't know what to do it would be funny or just plain cute and she would still get some loving out of it. Go for it, if nothing else it will keep a spark in the marriage.
-NmD!
2006-11-03 00:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i would say both is fine, you just have to know when and where. im sure music is not on our minds when nakedness is involved. probably give him a camera to take shots while your dancing. kind of hard to add more without knowing how you guys are. sorry.
2006-11-03 00:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by tyjuan_t_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like fast beat song while being seduced
I recommend you the album called
Erotic Lounge
There must be 2 or 3 albums of it
You must try it maybe you will like it
2006-11-05 10:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, had rather cuddle up with my sweetie, do some talking, smooching plus and let the scene develope.
No, I would not be turned on by a "lap dancing" girl.
Just smooth, sincere, warm, cuddling......WARMTH, softness. Can't beat it.
Why not ask him??? Good luck. Pops
2006-11-03 00:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Pops 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋