Ha, since the Yahoo! idiots deleted my question (or some jealous person got upset and reported an innocent question).
I just got married 2 weeks ago and my husband is acting so much nicer and he says things are different now that we're married. Guys, why is that? We've been together for years and now that we're married I seem to matter so much more to him and his family as well?
2006-11-02 15:32:45 · 13 answers · asked by bridetobebrandie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you gave him the most powerful and loving gift anyone could ever give to another person, their caring hart for the rest of your life. you can't buy that anywhere (well no in this country yet) the point here is why is he the only one running around glowing of having a new spirit within his hart and your never said anything about the way your feeling about yourself? this time in your young married life you should be running around feeling the same and if not your missing out on a feeling of pure happiness. you need to search for you haven't found the true experience or love from another or you just have another way of showing it that the eye cant see. either way your blessed by having a husband that loves you and whom can show it without being embraced if others see.
2006-11-02 16:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is differant once you get married. It's hard to explain. Once my wife and I got married over a year and a half ago, I felt more..... manly than ever. Very independant, very.....adult. I saw my wife differantly, she was suddenly like and angel there for me all the time. No more picking her up at her parents house and having her home by midnight ( we were old fashioned about our courtship, and her parents were strict with her even though she was 24), I felt more free about loving her at my will. We could make love any time of the day, chill in bed, veg out on the couch. I have to say the comfort level got better once we got married. Plus, her being my wife makes the relationship more..... official. Woking at the relationship takes more effort, you sacrifice more, but I enjoy it, cause we both do it, and we make each other happy. We are WE, not Joel.......Cara, but JCoaerla-WE.
2006-11-02 15:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not question this, run with it. It usually changes for the worse. I do not understand why it changes like that, but I think we allow things like that to be driven into our brain while we are maturing and then when we do get married we do the same as what we have heard, while all together not knowing. Had no one ever told you that a yawn was contagious would you still yawn when someone else did?
2006-11-02 15:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by meonhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's a matter of respect? Maybe he's just an old fashioned guy at heart who likes the idea of having the little wifey to come home to! ;-) It's sweet....
2006-11-02 15:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A ring makes ALL the DIFFERENCE!
It shows that you are totally committed to the future and not just some 'ship passing in the nite'
best of luck in the future!!
2006-11-02 15:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well married means life partner. and some people really take it super seriously. even though if youve been together for years its the same almost. but now that your together maybe he wants to make you really happy? i wouldnt complain. haha
2006-11-02 15:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he was looking for a commitment from you. Yes some of us men DO want that LOL. As for his family...now they are seeing you as family...not just a shack up. I think its great....don't you? *S* Enjoy....and do not question why just be happy it is.
2006-11-02 15:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we can be so stupid in question this kind of interrogatives ....can't you see that he feels you close ...that he is so exiting about the marriage ...that he knows you are his wife and that you become his family ......please do not ask this kind of things that are so obvious
2006-11-02 15:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't question it. Just be glad you can see the love.
2006-11-02 15:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE CAN SAY HE IS MARRIED NOW SO HE IS NICER
2006-11-02 15:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tonia G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋