Marriage & Divorce - 30 December 2007

I just got married and me and my husband were very excited. For some reason lately we havent really been communicating very well. Were starting to sleep with out holding each other anymore and we havent been talking lately. He just switched jobs we had worked together and worked well together. We got in an arguement and he said some not so nice things to me, he apologized and got me roses and really apologized but for some reason every since then I havent been able to feel the same. He didnt call me any names or anything but we're having a new baby and I have two young children 1 and 2 yrs old and work 45-50hrs a wk. I dont have energy to do house work exc.. so I feel like I am about to break down b/c I want to make sure eveything gets done.He helps clean exc..but its still overwhelming to me. I dont know what to do we just got married and shouldnt it still be peaches and cream. Should we do counseling or what he says he doesnt want to argue and we havent since just not really talking.

2007-12-30 23:42:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i guit drinking and this will be the first sober new years for me.im just going to watch some tv and probably fall asleep before 10 hits.are you planning on getting trashed,have a good time or do the same as me,nothing.

2007-12-30 23:36:37 · 24 answers · asked by mr. y 5

As a last ditch attempt to make our relationship work we got married.We have now split for good 4 months later.Can I get a divorce,I have been told you can't within the first year?

2007-12-30 23:36:20 · 21 answers · asked by ellie2324 2

I have been married for the past 1 year. A typical arranged marriage. But now my husband says he does not like me since I do not respect his family. But I am also from a joint family and respect his family. My mother in law keeps on complaining about my small mistakes to everyone and my husband believes her and has now totally stopped talking to me in such a stage where I am pregnant. I do not understand what kind of respect they expect. I am professionally educated and working in a reputed organisation. I have been bought up freely, independently and take my own decisions. But here I have to give my salary to mother in law, ask her before taking any decision. Now my husband has turned up very stubborn and does not even talk to me....saying that he does not like me and hates me

2007-12-30 23:36:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. I was very crashed over it. I asked him not contact me in order to move on but he has always contacting me, saying he finds it hard, he misses and loves me. He even came to see me twice as he missed me too much. But he said we cannot get together as the long-distance situation hasn't changed. Last time he contacted me, he told me he wants us to work things out but then he backed off again saying it's still not the right time for us. I was hurt again so I asked for no contact even though I really love him and want to be with him. Its hard really. But he eamiled me a week ago saying he can't help his feelings but he misses me, thinks of me and doesn't want me to think he doesn't want me anymore.I replied but I got upset when he said he is going abroad with his friends to celebrate New Year. He said he will leave me alone now as he can't take blames from me. I am so hurt. I love him. I am 30 yrs. Now his phone is off.

2007-12-30 23:32:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is very conservative in her opinions and also very conservative in the bedroom. I just found out she has a VERY promiscuous past. I feel so deceived... She never claimed to be an angel, but her personality gave me that impression. Do I have a right to be angry about what happened in her past? Was I deceived about who I thought I was in a relationship with? Should I stay with her?

2007-12-30 23:18:05 · 22 answers · asked by Was i deceived about her past? 1

2007-12-30 21:24:22 · 19 answers · asked by Vengance 3

my dad is a recovering alcoholic, he has been for 8 years. i have noticed that he has been drinking an abnormal amount of Nyquil. he has been hiding it. and drank a bottle that i kept in my room. he drank the whole bottle and i just bought it last week. i confronted him about it today and he got very confrontational. i dont know what to do. i talked with my mom, it seems like she is aware of what he is doing. im just afraid that this will lead back to the life he had 8 years ago. that is a scary and abusive past that i dont want to have to go threw ever again. please give me any advice you can!

2007-12-30 20:46:18 · 16 answers · asked by miamichick 2

I have had my heart broken, but never my soul...and now that I'm going through this, taking away all the drama, it is painful and deep...any advise?

2007-12-30 20:31:40 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1

Have you been married more than 3 times?
Would you marry again?

2007-12-30 20:30:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are getting a divorce. What should I do? Is it my fault?

2007-12-30 20:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by jessie g 3

My husband doesnt have any male friends, I have some girl friends but wont invite them over as i think 3 a crowd and plus its boring at our place. I am pregnant too so cant drink. Why doesnt my husband invite male friends around but expects me to invite my girlfriends around and gets angry and says I dont trust him?

2007-12-30 20:24:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ring my bell........Ring my bell

2007-12-30 20:18:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes months go by, but he always comes b'ack to me eventually.
i've messed up before this , and he forgave me those times.
he said he loves me and im his souI mate.
he's economically stuck with her.
he's obsessed/stalked me in the past.
will he eventually be mine so i dont have 2 share >???

2007-12-30 20:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse and i had a very nasty fight which involved his children. I admit I have not been accomodating when he wants to see his children and the reason is because he's never treated my children who lives with us nicely or love them as his yet expects me to love his children. The argument got out of hand where he called his children and told them that I'm the cause for not letting them come visit. Worse than that he called his ex wife, bad mouth me criticized me and told her awful stuff right in front of me. One of the crasiest lies he told her is that if I didn't have a child with him I will divorce him. Is this normal behavior and valid reason to leave him? Can this be fixed? I'm so humiliated, betrayed and angry. He told her that I accuse him of still being in love with her. Can someone still professes to love you and do something as dehumanizing as this? He does professes to love me but is capable of doing this. I need your opinion and help. Thanks!

2007-12-30 20:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by MMC 1

2 yrs ago I was working at a market place. I was 17 and my manager was 28. He has been married for 8 yrs. At the time that I started to work there he was having problems with his wife and was currently living on his own. About 6 months in to working there he made a move while taking me home. Ever since then we have been seeing each other. After being together for four months things got complicated, his wife didn't want a divorce and she would treated him with not being able to see his son. So he ended up moving back in with his family. A couple of months after that I had a boyfriend and things seemed fine. I dated this guy for 2 months and he crushed my heart. I hung out with my manager on night because I just needed someone to talk to that cared about me... and we ended up hooking up again. Ever since then we have been seeing each other for about two years. He is still with his wife. But tells me he loves me. I have fallin deeply for him. I don't know what to do...

2007-12-30 19:59:17 · 15 answers · asked by Tina 2

We have been married for 9 yrs with 3 kids. Last Nov15 my wife said something was wrong; Our marriage was in crisses! She wanted time apart so I left the house to a campground in Dec..By Dec.5 she said "I dont Love you no more" We went to 2 counciling sessions then she said " I want a DIVORCE" I tried everything to save my marriage but couldnt.I was so lonely and grieving for my wife it was like a nitemare.By Dec.24 I gave up I met a woman n I had an affair.I was lonely & hurting grieved for my wife! April comes & my wife is pregnet!She said she didnt Love this guy it just sex! I told her lets get back together & I'll do whatever it takes! 7mos I put her thur HELL cause I felt she wasnt being honest.I found out 5mos ago she had been talkin & texin this guy constantly since last Sept even more durin our time of crisses She says that she didnt cheat until I cheated. I'm findin that hard to believe. I LOVE my wife I do want to save my marriage I just want her to be truthful. any advice!

2007-12-30 19:42:57 · 15 answers · asked by sean 1

2007-12-30 19:39:48 · 27 answers · asked by TT 2

I even know one, but she is married. How can I do it so she divorces him and marries me?

2007-12-30 19:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 1st marriage?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily married?

Write as much as you like.

Thank you.

Fine Print: No rude remarks against me or my question allowed. This is just a question. I am sure you will understand.

2007-12-30 18:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together almost 6yrs & have a beautiful daughter and for the past year we're drifting apart. i don't feel the same way for him anymore. we never kiss and sex? i would say we go weeks without it :( he smokes(weed)-i don't, he's a homebody-i'm not, he gets his freedom yet i don't, i'm not happy. i tried to leave because of the name calling and the disrespect, but couldn't because i didn't want to break up our fam. & because he promised everything was going to change. i don't want our daughter to grow up around all that...i feel stuck. i know better but don't know how to go about it. is how i feel a good enough reason to leave? i really don't want to end up like my parents :( sad but that's how i see us ending up--NO LOVE, JUST IN IT FOR THE KIDS.
am i just being selfish?

2007-12-30 18:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by me 1

why does a spouce who is married cheat and chase younger ones who is not intersted in them only looking to make a *** out of there selves why cant they act there age and grow up like that trailer park trash woman in w.va really sicking those streach marksshe had

2007-12-30 18:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3

So I pulled it off.. I did three girls in one night (individually, old flings, hit & quit it) and now I don't want them around me. How do I get them to leave me alone for good?? God I'm so hot. Sometimes I wish I was ugly

2007-12-30 17:52:49 · 18 answers · asked by aa 1

i just found out my exwife and my kids cant come down.
they live in ok i live in tx so some please tell me why dose it hurt so bad when I cant see them
you would think after awhile i would be easy but it not
i all ways look forward to seeing them

2007-12-30 17:38:04 · 27 answers · asked by Bobby T 2

2007-12-30 17:35:46 · 37 answers · asked by Love, S. 1

My really good friend has been dating this girl for 3 yrs. He bought a ring 5 months ago and still nothing. He says he's been waiting for the right time. Do you think he's really just waiting or do you think he's rethinking it?

2007-12-30 17:34:33 · 10 answers · asked by halo1633 2

We;ve been together for for almost 7 years. He has violated me in the worst way. Now he says he's changed and he shows it. He's going to church now, got baptized and it appears that he is working hard to start a new life. He says and shows me he loves me and I care about him but I refuse to be hurt by him again. Sometimes, I except his love and give him my love in return. Sometimes, I am mean and cruel because I refuse to be betrayed by him again. Our past haunts us. I've worked hard to forgive him. But trusting is the problem. When you allow yourself to get close to a person, that's when they can hurt you the most. I am scared of loving him, but yet I do. but when those past thoughts creep up and the thought of feeling betrayed again come to me again, I shut down.
I don't want to hurt him because I am hurt. I don't want to be cruel. But I can't help it.
I love him. But I don't want to. But yet I enjoy his presence.But yet I push him away.
Help. What do I do?

2007-12-30 17:28:15 · 20 answers · asked by just curious 2

are all boys bi polar? husbands boyfriends men bi polar?

2007-12-30 17:21:05 · 6 answers · asked by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4

Me and my husband have problems. We argue about everything. I know thats not health for a marriage. We only been married a year and a half. We had problems before marriage but try to work them out but seems like the same problems are continuing. He has a problem with trust. I've never cheated. We complain about everything and anything. Is this love or what? Im really stressed about it. We have also talked to the pastor about our problems, it work for a while then it goes back to the same thing all over again. He wasn't like this before we got married. What should I do? Should I stay or should I leave?(We dont have any kids)

2007-12-30 17:15:28 · 17 answers · asked by Gin Aliza 1

i dont want his X to keep and/or keep using my fiances last name., is there a legal way that i can make her change her last name., what should i do?

2007-12-30 17:14:50 · 25 answers · asked by SG 2 1