Marriage & Divorce - 29 December 2007

My friend wants a divorce she have a son does she get a child support. her son is 9 year old...?

2007-12-29 23:33:14 · 11 answers · asked by joti 1

We are in long distance relationship. He wanted me to go to UK by certain time, and I felt rushed and pressured.
I was getting unsure about everything, and asked him if we could postpone the whole event. He was very upset because he had everything planned, and has tried to talk over that we could do this, but the way he said it was so harsh and he called me liar so many times...and I got scared about our future. I asked him for time...but for me, he was calling me every 2 days if I had chosen what to do.
After all of our mess, we decided to go to Paris, and we had a wonderful time together...but I told him how I must finish my work before leaving my country. He said I took the job over him. He said this was it, and completely shut me out now.
Now it's gone opposite way, I am trying to get his heart back... He wrote to me "sorry but trying to save what we had is a waste of time. It really is over for good."
I'm regretting the things I've done. Should I wait for few wks & apologize?

2007-12-29 23:27:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend filed the divorce 6 months ago and waiting for court decision but she slept with her husband when he stopped by to visit kids. Is it OK or anything illegal with that?

2007-12-29 23:23:09 · 21 answers · asked by kkvv 1

2007-12-29 23:13:24 · 27 answers · asked by ASTODAK 2

Please read my earlier questions in this section. I am 35 & He is 40. We have a bad sex life. I need some serious help please.

2007-12-29 22:54:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i told my husband i know he has a girlfriend i showed him the texts he has been sending he is angry at me says i was going through his stuff
i was
and i found condoms i asked why do you have condoms anyway a world war has started i think he has been planning stuff anyway

2007-12-29 21:38:09 · 18 answers · asked by esteem 2

I am 35 and he is 40. We are happy though we have a very bad sex life. Apart from that every thing is fine.

Just wana know how couples live in the world.

2007-12-29 21:31:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has some one hurt you so bad that it hurts deeply? After sitting and thinking about their actions I wonder if s/he did it with the pre-detemination of the out come of events. And knowing the envitable of their actions.

2007-12-29 21:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by Susie 2

well, she is 25 and i am 19. there is a word around that her parents are organizing her wedding for late 2008 and she also has a secure job. I do have a good job but am not financially secure yet. i really dont know what should i do. should i tell her that i love her and want to get married to her? i am confused confused confused...plz help

2007-12-29 21:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by aucklandrocks 1

I'm not sure why, but, for practically 3 yrs. I won't allow my husband near me. I just keep eating & gaining weight. I found out he was collecting porn behind my back years ago I filed for divorce, but, we tried to work things out. Then , I found on my computers history, that he was looking for some one on one descreet sex, with Latino women. I left again.
We eventually, moved back in together, he stopped drinking for 15 months, I know, he is being faithful, but, I cannot, be intimate with him. I wish, I could, but, my self refuses too.
In the mean time he & I are both getting fatter, lazier, lethargic & eat all the time. No matter, how hard I try. I am so humiliated by my weight & his past. He swears he never cheated. But, I know he had too. I found, a womens I.D, who was our age, she was latino, in MY BACK YARD, under a rock. The I.D, had been bit in half, only her picture was left & the experation date, & DL#. It was dated for one month earlier. we lived there for 5 yrs.

2007-12-29 19:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by Sojourner 2

somebody give me plz some info on how to stop thinking bout and feeling so upset bout my parents divorse in a few months! (or weeks)

2007-12-29 19:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you feel when your husband does this, as no time to even take a second of his busy schduele to say hi when you call!

I just called him now, just to say hi but got "I chat to you later, busy now" & I know he will not call back. I hurts so much

2007-12-29 19:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by Cute 2

PLEASE READ THE WHOLE PASSAGE B4 YOU ANSWER. THANKS GUYS:)

At this time last year, I was partying with friends, I even fell asleep at the red light during new years because I was soooo wasted. I woke up and drove to the club and had a good time. I had a very nice apartment in southern california, a great job, lots of friends, good income and a normal life. Then I decided to marry my boyfriend of 1 year and then we moved to Japan. After I got here in august, I got pregnant in sept and now I am 17 wks pregnant. I miss good ole america so much and I am homesick. I dont work anymore... I am now a housewife and I sit on the internet all day or watch TV. I do love him, but I feel on some days that I made a mistake. Is this normal or will I come around and accept my new life? Drastic change, huh?

2007-12-29 19:22:45 · 8 answers · asked by Lovely 4

been with my bf for almost 3 years. about 3 weeks ago we decided i should move in w/him (my apt lease is up in Feb) so i gave me apts my notice to move out. i have 3 girls part-time ages 8,6,and 5 that he's very close to (i'm 28). he's 29-no kids,never married or lived w/anyone.

over the past 2 weeks-the kids and i have been spending everyday/night there. we spent christmas at his sister's house.

tonite about 10 mins before i was supposed to leave for work-he tells me that he's not ready for us to move in!! I was SO upset. he said that he just needed more time to get used to the kids being around 24-7 and since work has been really stressful for him (which it has)-he hasn't had time to focus on getting used to them. i started to cry and got up to leave and he said he was sorry. i got so angry at him for waiting to tell me right before i had to go to work and he said there wasn't really a good time TO tell me. please read rest..important

2007-12-29 18:58:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am honest here, i do not want any children. they are too much for me to handle, i cant imagine having such a responsbility, and i love my freedom. i want to travel a lot when i get older. however, i would like to have a nice marriage and soul mate future husband....everything that comes with marriage except children.
all the guys i have liked and been with, they have all said they wanted children in the future. that is very discouraging for me, because lets just say i stayed with such a guy, i would feel forced to have children simply to please him....and i would never stay with a guy who wants children that i wouldnt give to him, i wouldnt be able to stand the guilt. the truth is, i dont want any kids. it seems as though every guy wants kids...i dont think i might ever find a guy who doesnt want children.

what do you think?? has anybody else experiencd this??

2007-12-29 18:46:08 · 23 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4

he shows signs of cheating but my heart believes him when he insists he is not.

2007-12-29 18:39:43 · 9 answers · asked by La La 1

OK: My 3 years wedding anniversary is coming up. My husband told me tonight that most marriages fails during the first year? Is this true? What's the average lenght of time (yearly wise) does marriage last in America. Does anyone know of the statistic? Is three years longer than the average?
Thanks in advance

2007-12-29 18:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by Just a girl 1

i have been talking to an egyptian man that my mom and her husband knew when they was there in egypt i been talking to him for over 13 months well in october i flew too egypt and marry him,and while i was there he put me down by calling me fat a nd stupid and **** american women.he also gave me a bloody nose,beat my head in the floor while saying to me he will kill me,broke my right elbow,locked me in the apartment and cut the phone live,and then had me turn in to muslium.and now he wants me too come back to him.he has ask me too forgive him many of times which i have.but i cant never forget what he has done too me.and what if it will happen again.i amm scared too death of him.i am his first marriage.im just soo confused i still have some love for him.please any good suggestions i live in florida. thanks too all who read and answer with suggestions..

2007-12-29 18:06:36 · 19 answers · asked by womenof age 1

I'm pregnant - three days overdue, in fact. I've had a couple of dreams here and there about cheating on my husband. They disturb me, especially since I did cheat once, before we decided to get back together and before we decided to have a baby.

I think it's just nerves about the baby and all, but I wonder if there's a deeper meaning or something. What are your opinions?

2007-12-29 18:02:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kinda of crap is that? I called him back and said what bar are you going to? He said idk and you aren't coming with me cause I dont want you being around my friends. What do you think of this?

2007-12-29 18:00:18 · 25 answers · asked by Mandy 2

Ok here it goes. Me and my fiance are getting married in August of 2008. My parents have a spare Apartment right next to their house and I had worked it out that we'd do yard work and little odd and end stuff to pay rent.But we'd pay all the other bills.She believes that living so close there'll treat us like children and not as a a married couple. I see her point So I said we'll just be saving machines and get a small place somewhere but we'll have to wait on having children.She wants kids right off the bat which would be fine if we lived at my parents apartment but she doesn't want to live there. I've tried to explain that we can't have kids and get married and have our own place right off the bat. And then she gets mad at me when I said I'm doing the best I can but nothing good enough. Which probly wasn't smart but it's how I feel. Who's in the wrong here? How should I handle this situation?

2007-12-29 17:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have NO family on the east coast. My husband is pretty much my everything. I met him at 15; I am now 25. He has become so arrogant that he cannot admit his faults & in turn blames me 4 every downfall of our marraige. I spent Cristmas by myself, while he was with his family at his mom's, because earlier in the day he refused 2 wait 4 me 2 get dressed 2 go with him 2 his sister's house, & then came back with a BAD attitude. Friday night, he and his cousin went out 4 drinks. He said he'd be home in an 1 1/2 & his cell phone was dead. He was gone for 4 1/2 hrs and I found out he borrowed his brother's phone that night, but called me once from his cousin's phn. Yesterday, he left at 1045pm only saying "I'll be right back." He came home at 3am, & not one phone call. All I got was a Nextel search msg when I tried calling him. Today, at our home, he entertained his family, while I pretty much ignored everyone & isolated myself. He got mad at me & said to wait til my family visits.

2007-12-29 17:14:07 · 22 answers · asked by anoname 1

Usually its the woman who stops, but MEN, what was your reason for no longer having sex with your wife? I believe sex stops in a marriage for underlying reasons besides the excuse of say, "no time"...which is legitamate sometimes. (A guy once told me his wife stopped having sex about five years ago when his mother in law moved in and she didn't want to make noises... so now they only do it on vacation....)

It is ok to hear from women here too...but I would like to know what men are thinking about too...

Thanks!

2007-12-29 17:10:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What kind of flower or plant would you be?

Who would you like to pluck you?

How would you like to be plucked?

2007-12-29 16:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what.s the best relanship in being married a honest spouce or a put on person cheating when they can and when the put on gets caught what happens . to them most of the time decent answer on both

2007-12-29 16:51:05 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3

is it time to move on! I have met someone else and she wants more.after being hurt how long should you take for yourself before moving on into anouther relationship. and when should I consider sex with this new person! I am kind of scared of a commitment at this time. you could say I am being very carefull not to get to close to her.and i dont want to lose her. but she wants more from me. what can I do ! or tell her so she understands where I am coming from. there are alot of question in this so please think about the previous relationship!

2007-12-29 16:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by rodwrnr 3

my and my husband are thinking of having chrildren. We are living in a 2400 a month home. If I were to ever be a single parent I wouldnt be able to afford such a home. I want to have kids but if i have kids and we decide to split i would be the one to have to leave because of the huge morgage payment and chirldren ususally want to stay in their home (right)? so i would live alone with out my kids in another home and my husband would end up with them and i would be alone.Should I (A) stay in this expensive house and wonder if we will ever break up and he gets to stay here with the kids or (B) should he and i move into something cheaper so when i do have the kids if we decide to split in the future I can keep the kids cause i will be able to afford the home...
dont say you should wonder about breaking up in the future if you wonder that you shouldnt have kids. Dont say that cause i am just being cautious and smart.

2007-12-29 16:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by sophie 1

I have an extremely handsome husband that I have been married to for 5 years. By extremely, I mean he has female co-workers and gay co-workers have a crush on him, my kid's preschool teachers have a crush on him, when my spouse and I go out, the waitresses, female strangers, giggle and blush when they see him, some even go up to him to tell him he's hot and ask if he's an actor, he's even been confused as an actor and has been ask to sign an autograph before. My spouse doesn't think he's all that, he'll just smile and take it as a compliment and go about his day.
Sometimes I can not help but feel that another woman might take my husband away from me or even seduce him because of his looks.
He's 36 years old but he looks 10 years younger. If you want a better description he looks like a striking resemblance of Paul Newman when he was very young.
My spouse is loving and caring husband and father, GREAT in bed!, hardworker, helps out alot, etc.

2007-12-29 16:45:40 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

She recently split from her husband of 4 years.divorce is not final.She owns a bar and it totally consumes her time.she had texted me one evening "what r u doing?"I replied "nothing why?' she said"just wondering that's all"I took this as she was into me.Boy was I wrong.She totally cut off contact with me.after 2 weeks of me trying to talk to her she started to contact me again.We met at her work for about 2 hrs.we talked drank she was kinda touchy feely nothing serious happend.the 2nd time we had coffee she asked me what made me think we were more than friends.I told her about the texts.She says she talks to all her friends that way.So were just friends.she says she does not trust men.3rd time we went out she bought dinner.On xmas day she texted me I was at the movies she asked if i was on a hot date making out?2 days later she called me. went out for drinks she actually gave me a hug !.she had to bolt said she'd call me the next day,but hasn't.she does that every time we go out.

2007-12-29 16:35:22 · 17 answers · asked by peterg 1

2007-12-29 16:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1