Usually its the woman who stops, but MEN, what was your reason for no longer having sex with your wife? I believe sex stops in a marriage for underlying reasons besides the excuse of say, "no time"...which is legitamate sometimes. (A guy once told me his wife stopped having sex about five years ago when his mother in law moved in and she didn't want to make noises... so now they only do it on vacation....)
It is ok to hear from women here too...but I would like to know what men are thinking about too...
Thanks!
2007-12-29 17:10:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Katie...that's the question... lol when men do it, why do they do it? Go get your husband and ask him to give me an answer lol!!
2007-12-29 17:16:43 · update #1
for me it was because my wife became extremly overweight and wouldn't work. and was spending more than I could make. She became replulsive to me.
2007-12-29 17:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say he might stop because of:
- Performance anxiety
- It's to much about the woman and not enough about him (It's happened)
- He is cheating (although this can make it pick up again since it helps his more self confident)
- The association of sex and getting the women pregnant (and/or having children).
- There is no-longer an element in aether getting it, or getting the woman to allow it, that strokes his ego (The ability to convince a women to have sex with us has intrinsic value to a man, some say it's our base reason for dong anything)
2007-12-30 13:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chris M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 17 year old and a 19 year old who are both virgins. The 17 year old is a born again Christian and he even dumped his girlfriend to help him stay right with God. It's part of his faith to stay pure until marriage. The 19 year old doesn't have much interest in Christianity but he's super busy and feels that he has no time to date.
2016-05-27 23:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped having sex with my now ex-wife when I realized she was seeing someone else behind my back. What she didn't know is that I knew what she was doing...and now I'm happily single and she's married to the guy she cheated on me with and has 2 kids and never see the husband because he's always working. I bet she regrets not sticking with me...but it's too late now.
2007-12-29 17:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by NunyaBizzness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't stop the sex she did. It was for health reasons so there's not much that can be done about it. When we do have sex though she makes me feel like she's only doing it because she has to. I'm also sure she's unaware that how it seems. Anyway, I don't know of any guys that I know who have stopped having sex because they wanted to
2007-12-29 17:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by crankydad_9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife stopped giving me decent sex so I got it from somewhere else just like all other men do. I kept up the fake married sex just like all other men do. When? Let's face it as soon as you get married it is over. Some people realize it in weeks and get divorced others lie to themselves for years either because they are stupid or because they have to for their children's sake.
2007-12-30 02:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know they always say it's the woman who stops. Well, in my situation it's my husband. It's not that he doesn't have sex with me but it's every so often and I want it all the time. Can you tell me why men cut off women?
2007-12-29 17:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I asked a couple of guys and they all unanimously agree is because he's cheating.
Men are horny 24/7 and for them to suddenly stop having sex with the partner means they are being satisfied elsewhere.
2007-12-29 18:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband stopped pretty much after i gave birth to our son. Sometimes it's once a month and i really have to ask him for it. It has gone for two months with out so much as a kiss. I go crazy and im constantly thinking about leaving him. My sex drive is high his is really low, he has meds wont take them. So im left to myslef all the time.
2007-12-29 17:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Notsogreatlife31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know that answer too. My husband was wanting it all the time when we were going out but as soon as we got engaged it almost stopped...I'm the when begging for it and cause I've been rejected so many times I've decided to with hold too till he tells me why he has been.
2007-12-30 00:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason men stop the sex in their marriage is this; it gets boring. You can only do the same things so many times till it gets boring. You need to spice it up to get him back into it.
2007-12-30 01:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋