Marriage & Divorce - 27 December 2007

I am not looking for joke answers.

2007-12-27 23:15:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im working as software engineer earning 50K per month in India. I have working since 4 years. I am in love with a girl from 4 years. We to love each other. We decided to marry each other. When we spoke to the girl's father there was a strong refusal from. The reason for the refusal is the caste. We both are hindus but not same caste. Their parents are cruel and dangerous and they will do anything for the caste. They warned me that will kill my parents and me if i continue love with her. I am in very tensed situation from 3 months. Now the girls parents are searching for a boy to get her daughter married. So we have decided to marry wothout informing them. We dont have any other option, we tried to convince them a lot, but there is no use. The problem is what their reaction would be after the marriage. How can i stop them from harming me and my parents. I am in very tensed situation. please help me out.

2007-12-27 22:57:58 · 12 answers · asked by Pradeep 1

remember its just a question .

2007-12-27 21:46:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 21:41:37 · 17 answers · asked by RAJAT S 1

over 40 year old,I feel that sex is boring

2007-12-27 21:23:01 · 16 answers · asked by My Chi Tran 3

2007-12-27 20:31:12 · 15 answers · asked by suprtrkr0 1

2007-12-27 20:20:03 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1

He share with some children sometimes, but he loves anything childlish

2007-12-27 20:03:09 · 30 answers · asked by Fast Pace 4

usually we both pay fairly. im unemployed these days and hes a student who will be unemployed next semester. lately I've noticed that I've been paying more often than he has. today he wanted to go out for lunch but when we went I offered, at first he said no but then he just handed me the bill.
he did take me to a fancy place for Christmas eve and give me gifts ..but then I feel odd when he just hands over the bill to me knowing Im probably as broke as he is!
am i overanalyzing or is this normal??
we've been together almost a year

2007-12-27 19:38:16 · 16 answers · asked by kera 2

I miss my ex but the only interaction I got was with his friends and people and my work that I hated and did not like . I only got to see my friends a couple times a month because they figured I was too busy with my family and they like to go out they have kids too but r not married. I guess now I feel stupid for leaving so I could go out more and go to nursing school. Let me know what you think?

2007-12-27 19:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-12-27 19:11:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-12-27 19:09:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband rules our home with an iron hand. I recently put my two sons on my cell phone plan, which I pay for. Now he says that our sons should either pay for their own, and the youngest whom is in college shouldn't have a cell phone at all. He tells me who I can and can't be friends with. I recently became a board member for a charitable group whom does so many good things for community, etc. He feels that one board member is hitting on me so I shouldn't take part anymore. This is unfair and untrue. I enjoy working with these people who do fundraisers for people in need, sponsor college scholarships. Now he told me that HE will be in control of my cell phone as well, I am supposed to give him the password for the voicemail, etc. He controls the purse strings. What can I do? I have threatened to leave, but I have no money..I do have a part time job, but not enough money from that to sustain me.

2007-12-27 18:44:15 · 27 answers · asked by Pepper07 1

I'm here, all the time, with my baby girl, and im 8 months pregnant with our second. He's in tx right now, and im in Louisiana (its only an hour and a half away, but still) He told me tonight...again,....that he didnt know what he wanted....blah blah. this is after....numerous attempts to work it out...but everytime, ...when it comes down to it "he doesnt know what he wants"....but while he's off figuring out who or what he wants to be in life...or even who he wants to be with.....im here with my babies....i want them to have a good life! i love him, and i want our family to be together! I put aside all my dreams to try and do that, and im not complaining! i love being a mom, but why do i have to give up so much, and he gives up nothing? How do you get over the father of your children...not wanting to be a family after so long? going back and forth trying to work it out with all your heart, and nothing is good enough? i dont understand. im not the one doing wrong...so why?

2007-12-27 18:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by Jada and Ty's mommy 3

Well my wife and i have had a rough past and we worked things out 10 months ago. She feels that all i want to do is have sex with her. She also said that this just makes her feel like a piece of meat to me. We both are pretty busy , 2 kids, she goes to school online, as well as her full time job and i work and have a small business. I know a lot of times that she feels overwhelmed with the kids and work. And i honestly havent been to considerate of her feelings. What are some tips that can help me so that i can show more apppreciation to my wife and make her feel good about me again???? I really do aprreciate the feedback ahead of time!!!

2007-12-27 18:33:47 · 21 answers · asked by Mr Confused 2

my soul mate, what do i do without hurting anyone even tho i know it's impossible.

2007-12-27 18:31:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband got abusive after we got married. we seperated. we did counseling. we got back together. he did it again. we seperated. i filled for a divorce. it took him 4 months to sign the papers. i'm with someone else and i think he's with someone else now as well. but i still get id restricted calls only when i'm not at home (i know it's him) with no one saying anything. we've only been married 2 years. we were together for 5. we are all we know. am i making a mistake and moving too fast?

2007-12-27 18:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by kisses and hugs 4

2007-12-27 18:20:37 · 18 answers · asked by mysteryman_sx 2

well i would like to honesty know what women like in men dating after marrage with out there spouces knowing it and act like nothing happened or take a chance on ruining there marrage. or being faitful. and boared . like that tramp i knew with out morals. so which would you choose

2007-12-27 18:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I cheated on my husband and I don't know why I love him sooo much. I was really drunk and I normally don't drink soo?? Please spare the "I am a whore because I already know that." And that is the way I feel. I would have NEVER have done this Sober.

2007-12-27 18:03:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy I like loves me but he is not rich.
My mom wants me to marry some guy I dont even know and Im even sure if she cares about my happiness.
What should I tell her or do?

2007-12-27 17:40:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 17:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by subin 1

2007-12-27 17:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an idea for my 10th wedding anniversary. I want to take my wife to the place we met 10 yrs ago - unfortunately they tore the building down and rebuilt a doctor's office in its place. I want to call her and have her meet me there and then tell her why I'm there - the spot we met. Is this corny or romantic?

Guess I would have to let the staff in on it too...

2007-12-27 16:45:49 · 37 answers · asked by MMike 3

Give me your opinions please. Thanks!

2007-12-27 16:39:12 · 21 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4

Divorced guy (Guy A) of three years says he's 'content with his life as it is', doesn't want to re-marry ("I'm not against marriage, just pro-happiness"), sends his female friends female/relationship bashing jokes and his ex-wife just got remarried. (I believe she left Guy A for Guy B, whom she just married).

Guy A then flip-flops, saying he's not totally against relationships and that he'd consider marriage after being with someone for 3-4 years.

Confused? Bitter? Or just a dumba$$?

2007-12-27 16:37:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 19 years old raised in a catholic family. I work as a researcher and I am very career oriented. 10 months back I met a Muslim guy and we decided to go out. He has been very clear that he wants to marry only a muslim girl and I was hoping to accept islam later on as I complete my graduate school and if this relationship work. .He was convicted multiple times upon arriving to canada as a immigrant. and he served some time as well. I was aware of this but with lil details.At first his parents were deciding to go back to Pakistan and he wanted to move in with me to my house near university. I had to tell him I cannot think of moving in together as for now. He made a big issue of this and still we some how patched up.Now the immigration ppl has called him for an interview and he says a marriage will make it safe.he says either i do a paper marriage or he does with some other girl and stay married. i have no idea what are the consequences. I have a gut feeling that this is bad idea.

2007-12-27 16:20:50 · 10 answers · asked by teejay gurl 1

What would you do if Joey Greco(host of tv show "Cheaters")came up to you right now and showed you a video clip of your partner, kissing or sleeping with someone else?

2007-12-27 16:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Huckapoo 1

He's very lazy and neglectful to me and our children. He's an alchoholic and he smokes. He's obviously bored with family. He lies all the time about stupid little things, so I'm sure there's got to be big stuff too. He's addicted to World of Warcraft.

On the positive...he's never cheated. He brings home a decent paycheck. I enjoy spending time with him when he does choose to, but it's so far and few between.

That's the general idea. Why do I feel like such an idiot for sticking around and hoping things will be OK in the future. For the record, he didn't smoke when we married. He drank, but not daily, and we used to spend lot's of time together. I know he isn't cheating, but I feel like he's bored to death of us and I don't know what to do. Our lives seem to be divided.

Ideas?

2007-12-27 16:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by Wendy B 5

why does everyone regret getting married?

2007-12-27 16:13:08 · 20 answers · asked by snowangels 2