why does everyone regret getting married?
2007-12-27 16:13:08 · 20 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No marriage is not horrible. Its just hard work, especially the first year when you are joining finances and everything but then you will be glad that you have someone to share the load with. My advice is to do everything you wanted to do as a single person before you get married, and don't get married young. That is probably the only regret I've had is marrying young because I sometimes feel I've missed out on the whole dating scene but then when I hear other women complain about how there are no good men out there I am glad I got one before the dry streak! LOL. Just be sure the person you marry is someone you will not mind farting next to you when your both 90 years old.
2007-12-27 16:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by designer K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married for the second time....I had no regrets with my first marriage...Got three wonderful teenagers....and definitely don't regret my current marriage....got a beautiful baby girl and a wonderful husband I should add as well...
Some people may regret getting married...but not everyone....
2007-12-28 00:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of all the plastic people walking around. People in marriages have one little conflict, and here comes the plastic people that look so perfect, and make the marriage seem horrible. Then the regret comes.
2007-12-28 00:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by cin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
half the world doesnt understand what marriage is truley about. marriage WILL be horrible if you marry for the WRONG reasons, marriage WILL be horrible if you marry someone you dont even love or respect. if youre the type to cheat, why bother getting married and putting your spouse through pain that he or she doesnt have to go through? if you get married knowing its because money, then what makes you think you have the right to steal from this person if you dont have respect from them and all your life is about is USING people. people marry for the wrong reasons these days and its mainly becuase they THINK its a right choice at the moment, they never think it out. you see all these bridezillas episodes. you wanna know what i think? i may be stereotype but becuase marriages are so dang on stupid these days i AUTOMATICALLY feel like the bride is wasting her arranging the wedding on those shows.
2007-12-28 00:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE doesn't regret it, just some. And they're becoming more. Expectations are not realistic. Marriage is NOT going to make you happy. But, if you work at it, it is a rewarding relationship full of a deep love (not hormones, but a choice) for each other.
2007-12-28 00:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Oh it's me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret getting married. However, I DO know I'm not doing it again.
Look at ALL marriage entails, and you'll come to the conclusion that you may not wanna do it.
2007-12-28 00:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for nearly 11 years. Marraige is wonderful. Anyone who says it's not is married to the wrong person. There is nothing better in life than being married to the love of your life.
2007-12-28 00:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happily married 80% of the time ... You just got to work at it and marry the right person .... Otherwise yes it is horrible
2007-12-28 07:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Holly Cookie Starr™♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think it is horrible!!!
i have been married for almost 2 yrs and im loving it!!!
those who regret getting married have obviously not married the right person or they had been extremely hurt in their relationship.
that is not the case with everyone.
i am happily in love with my hubby and things coudnt get any better between us.
2007-12-28 00:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've beed together with my wife for 12 years.
Yes...we have our ups and downs...but I will
never regret marrying her.
Marriage is a most beautiful thing.
You have to want to spend forever with your
partner.
You have to want your partner.
You have to be committed...to your partner and
to the marriage (vows).
I hope you get married one day.
You'll know how I feel.
Take care.
2007-12-28 00:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by joseph t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋