Marriage & Divorce - 27 December 2007

flirting with other people not your mate is healthyfor your marriage.

this is what it said
Light flirtation with a coworker or a random stranger can spark up your own relationship

is this crazy or what?

2007-12-27 13:41:55 · 13 answers · asked by CC 3

secretly emails and phones a member of the opposite sex from his contact list? My husband does this and thinks he's been doing it on the sly, but I'm on to him. And I hope you lonely women out there don't fall for his hot-looking avatar -- he's actually old, fat and bald.

2007-12-27 13:40:01 · 16 answers · asked by Angelique 4

im 4mos pregnant i have alot of bruising around my stomach and back and on my face.my husband filled up a bath for me but that didnt help the pain like it normally does and i dont want him to think i didnt appreciate it.i know i cant take anything cause im pregnant.wat should i do to soothe the pain

2007-12-27 13:35:16 · 12 answers · asked by chartíergirl 1

Has your mate ever been unfaithful to you in the past? If you forgave them, did it work out well in the end?

2007-12-27 13:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to ask the marriage certificate of this person if he is already a married man i want to know when he is getting married, because this person is my bf i just want to know if he is married to somebody.

2007-12-27 13:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by JOE G 1

I watched The Notebook and all throughout the movie my mind raced back to this one guy from my past who I have never truly let go of.I'm married to a good man.I feel giulty for feeling this way, but for some reason that movie had me thinking I should've given that guy more of a chance.I know its just a movie but it reminds me of the past, how carefree we were.Maybe its just that I'm not getting the attention I deserve and part of me craves it. It's so weird.Sometimes if I let my mind drift it takes me back to those days and I can feel the moment and I wish I was there again.

2007-12-27 13:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by tiffany a 3

not much to tell, but I miss him, so lonely..still see him sometimes, on weekends...not ready for a devoice.

2007-12-27 13:28:50 · 25 answers · asked by Funnygirl 1

We have been married for 24 years. We have always cut up and carried on with each other. We horse around like kids together. But lately he seems so unhappy. When I ask him if he is unhappy he says no. I ask what the problem is, I tell him I feel like something is wrong. He assures me it is not. When I make plans for us to go out to dinner or have some quite time he only wants to do what takes the least amount of time. My feeling is hurt by his behavior.
Has anyone else faced this before or am I making something out of nothing?

2007-12-27 13:22:02 · 15 answers · asked by Carolina girl 1

What do i do? do i tell my husband?

2007-12-27 13:17:39 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday,since my hubby was working from home he asked me to make him coffee.. i was not in grt mood to make since we already had a petty fight.. we jus had lunch wch i had made and was jus relaxing on a couch wth tv.. i dint say anything..i made coffee and said,here take it..he says m not gonna drink since i dint offer in a sweet way..it made me more mad and started to pull him to drink coffee,he jus left the room..i followed him and started pushing him to drink,but he didnt..he said i m going to drink if u offer in a nice way..then i said,i cant since u have already upset me..i asked him to ask sorry for the previous incident then i would ask him in a sweet way to drink..he wanted me to go first,i wanted him to go first..again had arguements,then he wudnt drink,i was pushing him to drink,and started pulling his laptop not allowing him to work..he dint take it in a sportive way as always and started wresling angrily wth me all over the house knowing that i m pregnant. i am very upset

2007-12-27 13:13:33 · 7 answers · asked by Loly Ry 1

So I walk into the store today.. and I see my ex-girlfriend, her new boyfriend, and the child we have together... He pushing my child in the cart. So I walked back out, as I didn't wanna really see my ex at the time. So I walk off and I text her, "Why is that fat boy pushing my son?" and she goes, "F u" and I go "Whatever" and she says, "I'm sorry he's more of a dad than you are" and I laugh at her and just leave it alone..

Did I do the right thing, or not?

2007-12-27 13:12:58 · 26 answers · asked by aa 1

hey guys!

i have an issue with my fiance. first of all, i love him madly. the thing is though, the way he dresses sometimes embarrasses me. sorry for poor spelling. he has a hard time finding pants that fit, so when he bends over to pick something up, well... need i say more? i mention that he might want to wear a belt, or that the only one i want seeing his bum is me, that kind of thing.

keep in mind, his mom died when he was fairly young, 21, and his twin brother died when he was 19. so there was a lot of trauma, not to mention moving halfway across the country to be with family. so he has had a lot of stress and depression to deal with. i know he has been depressed so i have tried not to be a ***** and to be very kind and loving about the issue, for the most part not mentioning it at all.

love is love so i am madly in love with him no matter what he looks like. i will not leave him at all no matte what. but it bothers me some. what should i do?

2007-12-27 13:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

And what percent of the time?

My wife climaxes first 99.5% of the time with us. Guess she's selfish in bed -- or knows I'm not going twice!

2007-12-27 13:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-12-27 12:33:54 · 2 answers · asked by Munga Kakodes 1

i hope i can found a good person here to be my husband..

2007-12-27 12:28:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://flickr.com/photos/7783028@N04/2125297717/

Wouldn't bring a smile to your face?

2007-12-27 12:26:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm curious how often a woman ends up leaving the husband for her lover if she continues for mths. to lie to her husband about where she has been or who she has been with. If he does not suspect anything can she be lieing to her lover that she plans on asking her husband for a divorce just so she keeps the lover hanging on? If she truely wants to be with the lover why not end the marriage instead of sneaking around if their are no children involved. Also, do men (the lover) hang on indefinitely for her to leave her husband? It's hard for me to believe that a mans ego would put up with the woman going home to her husband every night & only getting to see her now & then (never during holidays, etc) for a long period of time. Also, eventually if the woman does leave her husband can the lover really trust her that she won't cheat on him eventually too. The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" would be in the back of my mind.How often do these relationships really work in the end?

2007-12-27 11:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Mary B 4

My wife is 22 and I am 26 and we have only had sex once in the last 4 months. I dont fault her for that because she is dealing with a personal health issue that wont allow her. We have had up and downs in our relationship but we still have decided to continue at it. But she wont show me no kind of affection whatsoever. She will hug me very brief and partially upon request. I have not kiss her in her mouth for months and we dont cuddle at night in the bed. We never wake one another up with warm kisses or hugs and I be really wanting to. I am a very attractive person and I could easily seek the things that she lack out of another woman behind her back. But thats not the type of husband that I want to be. I am almost starting to think that she want me to seek these things from another woman. You would think that a woman living in this realm would at least say" Hey, I really appreciate your patience" or something. Instead she'll get upset. What woman expect to keep a man loyal like that.

2007-12-27 11:41:05 · 18 answers · asked by Mi vida 1

2007-12-27 11:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by Robert A 1

I've been married 1 year and I have known my wife for nearly 14 years. When we got married last year we had been going out for 8 years. I truly love my wife. I realise most will laugh at this and won't believe it at all, but that's the truth. I can't imagine ever living without her or leaving her.

However I want to have an affair. Unfortunately my wife is not the most sexual person and ironically I happen to be the most over sexed man on earth! I want to find someone who I can have a purely physical relationship with. Is this wrong? Should I somehow learn to control my sexual needs and be happy with my (nearly) perfect wife?

I live in Manchester, UK and would love to meet women who are interested. Is there a website that I can use to meet women?

2007-12-27 11:36:49 · 22 answers · asked by gunslinger_born_19 1

I am a 47 year old female and have been married to the same man for almost 21 years. It seems that lately he is easily agitated, has no patience for our 2 boys (ages 15 and 11) and critiques everything we say and/or do. He tends to "bark" orders at us instead of calmly communicating. He has a bit of OCD (changes clothes 2 or 3x before leaving the house), goes back into the house several times for no reason before leaving, constantly sniffles, etc...He seems to only want to do what he wants to do and makes us all feel guilty if we differ from his interests. I don't know if this a mid-life crisis issue but it's becoming more and more difficult to be around him. When he drinks alcohol, he can't seem to know when to stop and usually ends up ridiculously drunk and does the stupidest things. When I try to discuss with him he instantaneously gets agitated and claims that I want to start a fight which is NOT the case. Please help...it's getting harder and harder by the day...

2007-12-27 11:34:48 · 22 answers · asked by Super mom 1

2007-12-27 11:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, i am going to make this short nd hope that someone can help me with a posisble solution. I have been married for about 17 years. My wife over the years has lost alot of interest in sex , no forplay, nothing and when i ask her she tells me she does not like to be told when and how. So i fill its is all on her terms only, when and how. Also, she has no interest in going to friens homes when invited for the holidays and no interest in having them vist at are home. I am very lonley and fell left out. she only wants to do things at homw with just or to boys. Even my boys now say to me that they have no interest in other family members or friends. Also , I think my wife could be cheating again because she had an affair with a man about 6 years ago and it lasted about 6 months. For some reason she was VERY open about sex at that time. I miss all the family get togetehrs and friends. Our home is very lonley place. I am a people person. PLEASE HELP ,, ANY IDEAS.. SHE JUST TURNED 40 !!

2007-12-27 10:59:54 · 12 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1

I met a guy when he was married, we had a thing going on for months, I can tell we both liked each other and there sure was a sexual attraction but of course, we never talked about it or had sex.

He got divorced 2 weeks ago (not because of me) and now wants to be with me. I wonder if he still has feelings for his ex-wife. Is it too early? Please share your experiences.


I'm 22 and he's 28.

2007-12-27 10:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me before we were married. We have now been married for 5 months. I can't seem to move on past this. Any advice?

2007-12-27 10:50:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, give me three things that you do to make your wife, husband, or significant other feel loved? I need help on this one because I sometimes feel that I don't know what to do to give my girl that "special loved feeling."

2007-12-27 10:50:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've found the man of my dreams but he has kids from a previous relationship. He wants to marry me and I want to marry him but I refuse to pay child support for kids that are not mine. Is there any way that I can marry him without the county taking money out of my paycheck too? (FYI the mother of his children is a career welfare recepient and does not want to work!!!! This is one reason why I refuse to have my paychecks garnished!)

2007-12-27 10:39:21 · 17 answers · asked by MalinaB 2

OK heres the quick version of the story. My boyfriend lives in a halfway house and is not allowed to work until next month. We have been together for 10 mos now and I have been basically supporting him. Paying for the cell phone and giving him spending money every week not to mention all the gifts. Christmas, Birthday etc. I knew he wasnt going to be able to get me any gifts for xmas but there was nothing!! No card, little note, NOTHING!!! My feelings are hurt and I dont know what to do. HELP!! I am feeling unappreciated and used.

2007-12-27 10:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents stay out of my business, and his mother is not happy. He has had a bad past and almost died a few times. I am the best person that ever came into his life and he in mine we really are happy and plan to marry. Possibly have a baby (he has two) and I have two but we want our own someday. Only problem is with my age someday is now. Can someone help? I want to go to church with him and be accepted as his lady but dont know where to begin. Im not disgusting and this is not gross. We have real love those of you that think this is gross or disgusting have you ever had real true love? I have been married two times and the last was abusive. My boyfriend is kind, caring, compasionete, and knows how to provide. yes he is young but I know alot of older men that cant do half of what i mentioned. I'm lookin for your comments please and advice. I believe in time his mom will come around she just wants him happy.

2007-12-27 10:31:18 · 9 answers · asked by j 1

Is there a solution or do we just call it off?

I hate jewelry and tattoos and never wear any.
I say she would not force me if she loves me like I don't just like I never force her to do things she doesn't want to. I don't care whether she wears one or not and I will always resent her if I give in.

2007-12-27 10:19:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous