Marriage & Divorce - 22 December 2007

2007-12-22 23:58:06 · 14 answers · asked by julian 2

yesturday when i came home from work my husband was stuck watching tv since 3pm to 6pm watching some stupid girls dancing almost nude on tv, he said it was a family channel but they almost were naked and shaking their a**s. Anyways I told him that it made me sad that he prefers to watch tv all day instead of being with me, I almost have to begg him for sex! I feel so bad, Im 3 months pregnant and im all happy but he just seems like distant? So last night I had a talk with him and he started screaming at me so hard, and saying all these bad things, I just started crying and cried all night, and he didnt care, after I went to hug him and he ignored me, I just feel horrible beacuse christmas is tomorrow and we are mad at each other! sometimes I feel like I just bother him or that Im in his way, he blames me for not being able to learn english beacuse he says I dont teach him! I have 2 jobs and he still wants me to teach him! he makes me feel guilty for all his errors.!

2007-12-22 23:57:35 · 22 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1

I recently got a nice new laptop, and lastnight I was sitting there on it and my husband was ready for bed. I wasn't ready yet, (he has this ridiculous temper) so he got mad and punched the screen and busted it. I started crying and ran into another room with it. He yanked it away from me and proceeded to slam the whole thing over his knee....then opened it up and broke it in half. It was really horrible, and I have sat up all night upset about it...what should I do? Is there anything I can do...??

2007-12-22 23:40:21 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked him about his fantasies. He told me he has one of me having sex with another man while he watched throught the bedroom window. i guess i never saw that coming.

2007-12-22 23:38:42 · 20 answers · asked by jensjewelry1 1

Been married 5 years and invested a total of 9 years. My husband is the type that has never taken care of his part of the bills, ruined our family restaurant, and had me buy (in name and with money I had saved before him) our homes. Prior to our restaurant, he never worked full time. I am the one who had to work and pay all the bills.

I told him how unhappy I was, we went to counseling (he stopped), and I left the relationship. He will not budge from moving out of my home, what can I do?

To make matters worse, I had to move out of state to get the point across to him, and he is still looking for me a job, not himself!

2007-12-22 23:36:56 · 7 answers · asked by blueeyes_unever_4get 3

He said after 10 years of marriage he would buy me one but it still hasn't arrived. He also told me he's not buying me one this year. We have three children and my oldest is old enough to understand the hurt he's putting me through. What should I do I'm falling out of love with him & we fight all the time about this ring.....

2007-12-22 23:10:45 · 26 answers · asked by msimple3 1

2007-12-22 22:26:22 · 16 answers · asked by April 5

I want to buy my wife some Lingerie for x mas but not sure if she will think its more for me than for her. what do you ladies think??
i really want to see her in it. shes really attractive and hot but isnt into the sexy stuff.

2007-12-22 22:15:21 · 14 answers · asked by jessy l 2

submissive as in sweet, feminine, intelligent, caters to you, has her own opinions and makes her own decisions but you still have the last word

2007-12-22 21:47:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the appropriate way to say thanks to a married man who gives a married woman a lift home after a party? Kiss, thanks you or handshake?

2007-12-22 21:37:46 · 17 answers · asked by kruzen54 1

2007-12-22 21:09:20 · 25 answers · asked by The Special One 3

Do you have an open relationship with your spouse? If so, why? I don't agree with this but I just want to hear some of your views on this. Thanks.

2007-12-22 20:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4

would a real woman married do this to her family. her man now who left her and filed for divorce.having her kids away from the home and she is in there alone with .2. guys who are .18. and.19. comming on to them like she did and well had sex with me. to start with my buddy. as well when i was done then he waited till she cleaned it up out of her self you know what then do my buddy. afterdwards .those tramps her age .late.40.s thing.s she was hot. no way just a easy .peace.so can you with out a dought say she.s decent. no she wasnt in her marrage. kids and those streach marks .wow. very sicking but at that time it would do. not much. trailer park trash like her is no woman to no man to even think a young man would love her. but hump. and dump her sorry ***. why does a whore like her claim to be a woman no way. much less a mom. and wife

2007-12-22 20:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by matthew v 3

Is this normal? What is it do you think about seeing me wash up? It's hardly glamourous!

2007-12-22 19:54:46 · 33 answers · asked by Daisyhill 7

It's none of my business. I'm just curious. I don't exspect the truth. If you say no, you may. If you say yes, you probably don't. LOL How many will be honest? If it will make you feel better, I do.

2007-12-22 19:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son is debating not to go with me to my inlaws xmas party
he is 10 years old and always asks me why my sister in law gives everyone a gift except him my son is from previous marriage and i dont know what to tell him when he asks me why he didnt receive a gift from her...he is my son and he is too small to see that ..what should i do i cant talk to my sister in law or my husband they wont understand ....

2007-12-22 18:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by Georgina 1

I don't know why she is in many ways trying to force ways for me to marry american women. I don't know what her problem is. She lives many miles away from us we hardly get along with each other. I never talk to her and it doesn't make a difference for either one of us if the other didn't existed she knows that i know that. She would be pissed if anyone tells her who she should marry or anything less. I just want to know what is up with her why would she care we don't even like each other that much and it does sound like she really wants this to happen

2007-12-22 18:32:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-22 17:47:04 · 21 answers · asked by boxnndatol22 3

2007-12-22 17:35:30 · 18 answers · asked by boxnndatol22 3

My husband and I are having a debate. Does an inheritence given to one spouse get split during a divorce?

2007-12-22 17:02:04 · 18 answers · asked by Suzu1980 2

The saying is "if you love someone set them free, if they come back then it's ment to be".
What are your thoughts on this saying?

2007-12-22 16:30:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am living with a good friend of mine, Ronnie, whom I have known all of my life and his wife, until I can find my own place. Right now I cannot get my own place because I just now started a new job here in Texas. I have been here almost two weeks now, and I have noticed that Ronnie's wife treats him like crap. She is always putting him down, nothing he does is ever good enough for her, any little thing sets her off, she sometimes calls him stupid, yells and cusses at him. Also by having a long talk with Ronnie, he has told me that she has been this way for about 5 yrs now, and that she is getting worse but will not admit that she has a problem. In my own observation, I think she is bipolar, with manic episodes. It hurts me to see him being treated this way and he deserves to be happy in his life. Should he stay in his marriage or should he just go ahead and leave her? If she won't get any help, the marriage will not last.

2007-12-22 16:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by MissBetty50 1

And why would the wife allow this? Is she hoping they will get back together again? The girlfriend does not know he is cheating on her. Should I tell his girlfriend what a pig he is? The wife already knows but doesn't seem to mind. He has 3 kids with the wife and his girlfriend just had his baby. I work with him and he considers me a friend-ugh.

2007-12-22 16:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by scl 2

My parents are very nice educated individuals. They raised me and my sister well and I'm happy to have them. However...recently I brought home a man who I would love to marry once I finish school and raise a family with. I love him for who he is and he makes me happy.

BUT, when he went to meet the parents, he was...who he is which is a person who is not going to put on a facade or front. My mother ended up getting into it with him...because he doesn’t have or want a degree (this is all on thanksgiving as well) and now they do not like him. She called him a "sociopath" and doesn't want me to be with him.

I'm torn.


Have you ever married someone your parents didn't like? Was it worth it?

Please Help!

2007-12-22 15:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by JHammonds 2

but its happened some before & he didn't keep that promise.

2007-12-22 15:46:13 · 24 answers · asked by rapunzel 2

2007-12-22 15:39:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my husband when I was 16. We've been married for 8 years...together for 14 years. I have never cheated on him and I don't think I ever would. But, I don't get the attention from him anymore that I used to get. He never compliments me. He never says I love you unless he's going to bed. He never holds my hand when we walk somewhere together. He doesn't do any of the "little things" anymore. I miss the feelings and the rush I used to get from those "little things". Lately, I've found myself openly flirting with some of the men (younger or older) that I come into contact with at work. I know I act like I'm interested in them, but I'm really not. I just enjoy the playfulness that comes along with the flirting. I enjoy hearing that I look nice or my hair looks pretty or that I have a beautiful smile. It gives me butterflies in my stomach. I haven't had that in a long time. I don't feel guilty about this, but I do wonder if it's inappropriate. Any opinions?

2007-12-22 15:28:36 · 17 answers · asked by devil_in_disguise 1

2007-12-22 15:00:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

So. . . do you?

I mean people who are in faithful, honest, loyal and just genuine LOVING relationships? Because studies have shown that only about 10-20% of people these days are in those kinds of relationships. The rest. . . not so much!

Do you hear more about honest, loyal, FAITHFUL relationships? or the completely opposite?

Within your circle, what's more common?

2007-12-22 14:59:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have a 7 yr old, and a 1 yr old, I work, but could not afford to live without his paycheck too. He is sooo mean though, and I want to leave-what can I do???

2007-12-22 14:41:58 · 17 answers · asked by hawaiichic 1